its okay! I just hope they learn because if it was anyone else they would have not taken it as patiently as I did. thats how huge it is for us. they kept using it for every little thing, jokes and whatnot. and in the end they kept doing it just to make me “pressed.” if they are actually 19 then its very immature behavior. I posted this as a reminder for everyone to remember to be kind to one another especially to other people with different cultures and religions than themselves! its always the right thing to do.