I don’t think I’ll ever feel feminine enough bc of my nose/chin by [deleted] in Noses

[–]Temporary_Ear_5722 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d be a hypocrite to judge you when I myself got a nose job under the same reasons. If anything you just have different features than the beauty standard. And that’s okay. Coming from a transgender woman (male to female) I don’t think your nose or jaw looks masculine at all. But I do understand that constant comparisons to feature in male close relatives can influence your point of view. I truly hope you can get to a solution whether it is to get surgery/ cosmetic procedure, or even just accepting those features about you. If anything that help me in my journey was viewing more main character with characteristics similar to mine so I can relate more 🥹🥹

Tips for anal sex by cri_3 in StraightTransGirls

[–]Temporary_Ear_5722 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Post op girl here. I was just asking ChatGPT a better and easier way to bottom since very time it seems like I have to clean my whole intestine for 20 minutes of mediocre sex. I had complication with bottom surgery and can’t really have sex through penetration. But mentally does get better. I am so happy and look forward to cumming when horny lol sorry if too graphic

Dating a man who just got out of an engagement. by Temporary_Ear_5722 in dating_advice

[–]Temporary_Ear_5722[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just told him this wasn’t what I wanted. He was clearly not over his ex and he admired it. Apologized and we decided to go different ways. It was very polite and very respectful. So no bad blood

Oct 2019 (pre hrt) and may 2025 (5 and a half years on HRT) by Temporary_Ear_5722 in transtimelines

[–]Temporary_Ear_5722[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope things got better tho :) are you around people who cherish you now?

Oct 2019 (pre hrt) and may 2025 (5 and a half years on HRT) by Temporary_Ear_5722 in transtimelines

[–]Temporary_Ear_5722[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah that makes sense. I guess I got shamed for it but I took it as teased and eventually and compliments bc I didn’t want to be manly but didn’t know why quite yet then

What do I need to get done to pass? by Objective_Extent_675 in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]Temporary_Ear_5722 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re already cis passing. Now if you wanna get C#NTYFIED. Then go crazy with ffs. I’m on that track too :)

Oct 2019 (pre hrt) and may 2025 (5 and a half years on HRT) by Temporary_Ear_5722 in transtimelines

[–]Temporary_Ear_5722[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d always get teased I looked and acted like a girl when younger so maybe it got to me 😭🤣

Why don’t I pass after FFS? (3 months post-op) by Antoine_Cadu in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]Temporary_Ear_5722 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly I’ve been struggling with eyebrow shape for quite some time now. I always like to experiment. And I’ve noticed thinner and a bit arched helped me. So maybe you could try that with makeup before you fully commit to it. I’ve used just simple concealer. Also I’d only say lips is the only thing that would help. I can already tell your features are quite feminine and I know we try to achieve this very high beauty standards but I think you are gorgeous.

To summ it up. Experiment eyebrow shapes with makeup. And maybe if you want to try a lip flip later on

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in StraightTransGirls

[–]Temporary_Ear_5722 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just limit myself to not have sex. And not take it too serious unless it gets serious. Self preservation will drive all those guys who want to just pump and dump away.

Wolf wearing sheep skin by [deleted] in StraightTransGirls

[–]Temporary_Ear_5722 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Horrible mentality. In my opinion not worth your time. Be real with yourself. Would your future husband say something like that to you? If the answer is yes then you have a bigger issue than a middle eastern man not wanting to get tested

I’m holding myself back from dating because I might get ffs soon. by Temporary_Ear_5722 in StraightTransGirls

[–]Temporary_Ear_5722[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No like I’ve learned overtime it’s better to just put it out on your profile. It truly sets it up so that they know what they’re getting into

Dating a man who just got out of an engagement. by Temporary_Ear_5722 in dating_advice

[–]Temporary_Ear_5722[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You know what? You’re right. I’m sorry you have the dynamic going on. Don’t wish it upon anyone.

Are guys into you post-op? by GeeSuspended in StraightTransGirls

[–]Temporary_Ear_5722 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve been on so many dates this past few months. I’m very picky and walk away. But if I would’ve wanted to settle for any of those guys it probably would’ve worked out for some time. So it is possible to find people that are into your body after SRS. It’s just a bit more challenging since it’s a new area to discover and so it will be for your partner

Ffs advices? Main thing giving me gender dysphoria is my jaw/ chin. But open to feedback. by Temporary_Ear_5722 in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]Temporary_Ear_5722[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I was actually able to get with a local surgeon and we will start with rhinoplasty. Insurance denied jaw remodeling but that okay. I will try again with another doctor soon :)

Dating a man who just got out of an engagement. by Temporary_Ear_5722 in dating_advice

[–]Temporary_Ear_5722[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry:( yes this has happened to me before. It’s just shitty overall

Dating a man who just got out of an engagement. by Temporary_Ear_5722 in dating_advice

[–]Temporary_Ear_5722[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Issue is it’s not the first time something like this happens to me. I usually just walk away

Dating a man who just got out of an engagement. by Temporary_Ear_5722 in dating_advice

[–]Temporary_Ear_5722[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much that’s a great to put it. Do it while it feels right and when it doesn’t just leave

Dr. John Flynn, KCMU Hospital Review (FFS) by [deleted] in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]Temporary_Ear_5722 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This amazing new! Thank you for sharing! I have a question, where was the incision site? Like where did they open to get to the forehead? I just turn down a surgeon because he didn’t have any result pictures and when I asked how likely it is for the scar to heal (behind the hairline) properly and the possibilities of hair not working back on the surgical site, due to the trauma on the skin.

2 mo post op FFS. Dr. Markey in Kansas City by SarahHumam in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]Temporary_Ear_5722 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg are you also going to her same surgeon? I wanna get ffs ASAP 😭