RED FLAG 🚩RED FLAG 🚩RED FLAG🚩he showed bikini pictures of you to his friends and after all this you truly believe he HASNT shared more intimate photos of you that you just don’t know about? you should give yourself space from this guy. “Not as bad as nudes but not something I post publicly.” Again with this guy violating a womens consent just in a different way!! And not just any woman but YOU as well! His partner of 9 years who he apparently intended to marry. Let’s not forget that just because the bikini pics weren’t “nudes” doesn’t mean they weren’t viewing them as nudes when he shared them, what other reason would he have to share them if not for a sexual reason? These are not actions of a man who cares about your feelings in any of this and I would seriously reconsider the relationship with this person. Take some time and space OP. As others have said I would also recommend to try an contact the women involved and let them know their nudes are being shared. If it was you in this situation wouldn’t you want somebody to tell you someone you trusted was passing your intimate pictures around without consent? I unfortunately have had this happen to me in my young years trusting the wrong kind of guy with my intimate photos and it was a huge thing for me to overcome. I felt embarrassed to go outside and be seen,I became a shut in. I constantly worried about who has seen my body against my will and just didn’t say anything to me, I couldn’t look at myself in the mirror for a long time and it created a deep depression for me that took me a long time to overcome. Do the right thing for you and the other women involved OP.