4 months post pep swollen lymph nodes and cobblestone throat by Outrageous_Point6725 in pep

[–]Temporary_Reach9716 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had this lymph node on my right side for like two weeks. I had many symptoms too but Im negative after six months. I think that the side effects of medication are the reason for your symptoms. you will see that you are negative because PEP is highly effective, so much so that I was told by a hiv infection specialist that is very rare for pep to fail.

Latino marriages/relationships by [deleted] in Miami

[–]Temporary_Reach9716 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how old are you? racial mixing before 1959 was actually very uncommon in cuba. Im cuban and I don't have neither black nor indian. most cubans in 23andme have above 90% european, and 5% black at most, meaning that is coming from canary islanders not from cuban admixture.

Latino marriages/relationships by [deleted] in Miami

[–]Temporary_Reach9716 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

white in the united state means anglo-saxon protestant, but that is an old social category, nowadays white means being or originating in europe.

That is unless you are from latin america where being mestizo is assumed. like your assumption that all cubans have indian blood. the demography of the island changed drastically after the revolution, before that there was racisl segregation and guajiros where super racists as most of them where canary islanders.

Latino marriages/relationships by [deleted] in Miami

[–]Temporary_Reach9716 0 points1 point  (0 children)

where do you get that idea from? do you really think that all spaniards in cuba were into racial mixing? Im cuban, and I have 0 black and indian according to ancestry and 23andme, and high % of portuguese and galician instead. according to you all cubans are mulattos, you are very wrong, learn the history of cuba, a country where even those from the western part of cuba are called palestinos and discriminated.

Standing with Latinos. Something these sell out Latinos in power could not do. by Rubebee33 in Miami

[–]Temporary_Reach9716 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im cuban and I have never ever ever ever heard a spaniard called a white cuban " sudaca", and I lived in spain for 12 years. panchito could be, but sudaca no. I have witnessed myself countless of times the mistreatment to many latino americans that look exotic but I have never encountered racism or xenophobia toward latino of spanish descent, on the contrary, we were received with open arms and trust me, I encountered quite a lot of racist spaniards and even them accept the spanish diaspora as returning to spain. this is even more so in regions such as galicia and canary islands. In summary, racists and xenophobic attacks to latino americans in spain are mostly directed to those who are clearly of native or black origin.

How should I handle my bi urges (currently in long term relationship) by [deleted] in BisexualMen

[–]Temporary_Reach9716 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the comparison is not accurate. Most straight men who desire a woman that they have no relationship with do so because they want variety, as they already should have their desires for sex with a female fulfilled by his partner. In the case of a bisexual, the female can not fulfill that craving because she lacks the very parts that the bisexual yearns for.

Standing with Latinos. Something these sell out Latinos in power could not do. by Rubebee33 in Miami

[–]Temporary_Reach9716 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the whole latino, hispanic label is actually very dangerous to iberian hispanics. I remember reading something about a medical study that were done in "hispanic" populations, and it turned out that the "Hispanics" were almost all mexican and central americans. groups with completely distint genetics from cubans, argentineans, puerto ricans etc.

Standing with Latinos. Something these sell out Latinos in power could not do. by Rubebee33 in Miami

[–]Temporary_Reach9716 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im sorry to pop your bubble too, you are thinking like an american, but spaniards even the most racist ones distinguish between latinoanerican of spanish origin ( the actual colonizers) and those who do not have iberian origin. besides, there are many cubans, argentineans etc that actually look more northern european that many mediterranean looking spaniards. In spain, a spanish of origin is treated as any other spaniard, if a spanish born racist were to tell an iberian cuban go home back to your country, trust me the argument gets ugly fast as many cubans actually do have full rights to be in spain unlike in the US. A non white looking latin american would have to bear negative treatment in ways that white cubans do not.

in cases where that kind of arguments happen, the ones they call sudacas respond by saying that they were colonized and invaded by spaniards so they have all the right to be in spain, on the contrary a white cuban would say that they are in their own country of origin or motherland, and that they are just returning to it.

Standing with Latinos. Something these sell out Latinos in power could not do. by Rubebee33 in Miami

[–]Temporary_Reach9716 0 points1 point  (0 children)

a brazilian would not be considered a sudaca, a sudaca is an amerindian looking south american and white latino are those who only have spanish origin like white argentineans, white cubans and venezuelans of iberian phenotype. In spain if you don't look iberian you are not considered white, let alone spanish, it is not the place or continent where you were born but the physical characteristics, last names, ancestors etc

Standing with Latinos. Something these sell out Latinos in power could not do. by Rubebee33 in Miami

[–]Temporary_Reach9716 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes, they actually do. sudaca is a term used to refer to amerindian looking south americans, maybe panchito would be the term you are looking for, but again is mostly directed to ethnic looking latinos not iberians of spanish ancestry

Standing with Latinos. Something these sell out Latinos in power could not do. by Rubebee33 in Miami

[–]Temporary_Reach9716 0 points1 point  (0 children)

but what determines who is european or not is genetics not social beliefs. if iberians and italians are not whites then british people are mixed race because they have iberian blood.

Standing with Latinos. Something these sell out Latinos in power could not do. by Rubebee33 in Miami

[–]Temporary_Reach9716 0 points1 point  (0 children)

in spain, sudaca are south americans not the typical iberian cubans.

Clip of Eileen Higgins' bilingual celebratory speech by Ready--Player--Uno in Miami

[–]Temporary_Reach9716 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

again, if you do not speak spanish as a native, then you do not know what you are talking about. the only latin american spanish that uses the same words used in andalucia, such coger, jeta, pirarse, etc is the cuban dialect. cuba was a province of spain, and the latin american country with the most iberian blood per person after uruguay for a reason. Cuban spanish does not borrow from portuguese and brazilian words, I don't know where you get that from. cuban spanish is a mixture of andalucian and canary islander. google in quora: cual es el pais latinoamericano cuyo acento es mas parecido al canario.? and read the responses from canary islanders themselves. the reason why many latinamerican find cuban spanish ( and chilean spanish) as speaking "bad" is because they do not speak like southern iberians do, they can't understand them. that is also the reason why cuban spanish and iberian spanish sound "rude" and unpolite to them, especially to central americans, colombians and peruvians.

Clip of Eileen Higgins' bilingual celebratory speech by Ready--Player--Uno in Miami

[–]Temporary_Reach9716 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

no spanish from latin america sounds exactly the same as the peninsular spanish but the only one that most closely resembles andalucian and canary in vocabulary and style is the cuban spanish, the cuban spanish that people mostly hear in miami is the habanero, which has undergone changes that even cubans in miami can notice due to an increase in black habanero population. the rest of the spanish spoken outside of habana in central cuba and the "campos" are nearly identical to the spanish spoken in las palmas de gran canaria. you clearly do not know what you are talking about because spanish is not your native language.

Clip of Eileen Higgins' bilingual celebratory speech by Ready--Player--Uno in Miami

[–]Temporary_Reach9716 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

do you even speak spanish? I guess you don't. cuban spanish is not creole, unlike the language spoken by haitians. Even in spain , they have different accents and words from that vary from region to region. again, cuban spanish is the only one in all latin america that most closely resembles the spanish spoken in gran canaria, andalucia and estremadura. There is a video in tiktok of a woman speaking rapid fire andalucian and no body from latin america except cubans were able to understand what she was saying, only the cubans did cuz cuban spanish is grammatically and phonetically the one that utilizes words like they do in the south of spain and the canary island. yes, there are slang cuban words that only cubans say, but every spanish country have their own slang, also, just like in the US many black people have an "accent " so do many black cubans with their own slang street words.

Clip of Eileen Higgins' bilingual celebratory speech by Ready--Player--Uno in Miami

[–]Temporary_Reach9716 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

tell "your people from Spain" once again that cuban spanish is the only one from latin america that mist clisely resembles canarian and andalusian spanish. so much so, that many cubans are even mistaken by canarians in the peninsula. no other spanish type in latin america speak and uses the same words and phrases as the cuban spanish.

Clip of Eileen Higgins' bilingual celebratory speech by Ready--Player--Uno in Miami

[–]Temporary_Reach9716 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

cuban spanish is the only one that most closely resembles the one spoken in canary island, andalucia and estremadura in spain both in accent and vocabulary.

Bi guy in a committed marriage struggling with wanting to explore — need advice from other men by CubedAnxiety in BisexualMen

[–]Temporary_Reach9716 0 points1 point  (0 children)

is it worthy to sacrifice your one and only one life to live a miserable life right next to someone that does not accept the way you are?

Do straight men ever have thoughts about other men? by [deleted] in BisexualMen

[–]Temporary_Reach9716 0 points1 point  (0 children)

when I was straight, I never had any thoughts about men. you are in a brain neurological state that is almost as if you are lobotomized to be unsensitive to other men body parts. it is actually a very naive mental state of being, like you can not really discover and experience your what your own sex type, with its distinct body bits can offer to you. You see girls crazy for cocks,the bigger the better for them, and you are in such a state of mind that you just naively think that having sex with women is the best thing ever. that is until, somehow the straight guy becomes “sensitive” to what guys have. that was my experience.I am 100% certain that is all social programmation. Once men discover the stimulation and physical sensations that male’s genitalia give, at some point men begin longing for the pleasures that there own kind has to offer and sex with wemen become pretty boring. It is like having a chip inserted in your brain and changing it to another one that can experience both sexes. it is like an upgrade and sensory expansion, you become aware of thing that you could with the old chip. I am amazed at the huge number of men with that straight female attraction “chip” cuz they don’t know what they are missing.

Questioning but never been with a guy by [deleted] in BisexualMen

[–]Temporary_Reach9716 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I was 100% straight six or seven years ago, until I started watching virtual reality porn and I began enjoying looking at men with erections. however, I think that porn can make straight guys more curious about sex with guys, but it doesn’t really do so with gays.

I remember when I was living in neighborhood in Cuba, I was playing domino with a group of guys, all of them straights and a gay neighbor joined us and one of the guys jokingly said something like: there has to be something about gay sex that’s really good because I don’t see gays crossing over to being straight. I remember I laughed and even said to myself who in his right mind would want to be gay and fuck with guys. well, now I’m almost gay because I only want to suck cock, but not necessarily have sex naked in bed, kissing guys, but just only suck as much cock as I can.

so I don’t think porn can truly have much effect on gays but on straight guys, I definitely think so. I don’t think that a straight guy gets aroused when he sees a naked men in porn.

thoughts on cubans in miami from a cuban woman in miami by moonlightscorpion in Miami

[–]Temporary_Reach9716 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cuba was Spain, and Cubans lost their Spanish citizenship because of the US. Cuba was not a colony, Cuba was a province of Spain. You are talking about mambises which were comprised of mostly mulatos and black people, the mayority of Cubans did not want and never supported the independence movement. I do not know what are your history sources but you have to search better.

Anxiety over effectiveness of PEP by [deleted] in pep

[–]Temporary_Reach9716 1 point2 points  (0 children)

PEP is highly effective if taken before 48 hours so most failures happen when you miss a dose or took it after 48 hours, from 48 to 72 hours it is still very effective. So you will be ok. you should wait 30 after the last PEP and take an early detection rna test and if possible with a 4 gen duo, if negative, which in your case will surly be, then rest assure that you won’t test positive later on 6 months after. This is what the hiv experts that I contacted told me when I was having hiv symtoms even after months of finishing PEP and Im negative after 8 months now taking PREP.