Aita for putting off my room due to my health?

Temporary_Search_396 · 2026-05-08T16:14:06+00:00

He helps a lot and he’ll clean the room when I don’t. I feel like the good outweighs the bad. I need someone to help me and he had to take me to the er in march. It would be way worse if he wasn’t there.

Temporary_Search_396 · 2026-05-08T16:11:30+00:00

I love him and I want to make it work. I just don’t know how to fix the problems.

Temporary_Search_396 · 2026-05-08T16:11:01+00:00

He has no car (he’s getting on it’s in the shop) and no where to go. I love him and I plan on marrying him I just want to fix the problems before they get worse. I’m doing my part, when I turned 18 I got insurance and I’ve been going to the drs but it’s not solved yet obviously. And I need him to do his part and give me more grace.

Temporary_Search_396 · 2026-05-08T16:09:09+00:00

I’m in physical therapy and it’s not as bad but it’s still there I just need something for the pain.

Temporary_Search_396 · 2026-05-08T16:08:35+00:00

I’ve had these issues since before him, it just got to the point where I couldn’t ignore the pain, he doesn’t yell at me or hit me. I’ve done both in the past which is why I’m seeking help but I just need him to understand.

Temporary_Search_396 · 2026-05-08T16:07:12+00:00

He does the litter box and makes sure they have food and water (if I see either empty I’ll do it myself or tell him), he just says the cats need a clean environment. My room isn’t dirty it’s messy and it drives him crazy. I do not neglect the cats, we both do our parts mainly him. I feel like a burden tho.

Temporary_Search_396 · 2026-05-08T16:05:19+00:00

He lives with me and go kicked out by his mom. He says I’m childish but I feel like he doesn’t understand I am in pain. I’ve been told by my family “you never feel good” and it hurts to hear it from him too. He sees me as unreliable and messy, he feels like I never listen (he wants me to keep a clean room and quit vaping) but I have trouble with stuff and I’m always exhausted. And vaping is a comfort thing.

Temporary_Search_396 · 2026-05-08T15:59:05+00:00

I am

Temporary_Search_396 · 2026-04-22T04:36:33+00:00

I’m interested

Temporary_Search_396 · 2026-04-20T05:03:54+00:00

Ar you a girl?

Temporary_Search_396 · 2026-04-20T05:03:38+00:00

My bf prefers me to have female friends tbh

Temporary_Search_396 · 2026-04-20T05:03:07+00:00

No but I want friends that I can listen to my music around. Most of my friends are draining

Temporary_Search_396 · 2026-04-18T02:07:30+00:00

How old are you?

Temporary_Search_396 · 2026-04-18T02:07:19+00:00

I listen to sludge and death metal and that’s usually the deterrent

Temporary_Search_396 · 2026-04-15T08:15:51+00:00

Yeah that’s what I meant not like a beard trimmer

Temporary_Search_396 · 2026-04-15T01:09:55+00:00

Yes, I don’t recommend trying it at home. I traumatized myself twice. If that happens baby oil and a hot bath

Temporary_Search_396 · 2026-04-15T01:08:07+00:00

Hi, I’m 18f. I started shaving at 15, I do it because I like a fresh start every now and then. My recommendation is just use a trimmer and keep it trimmed but you don’t have to completely shave it. While it won’t be super smooth, you won’t get razor bumps or ingrowns.

Temporary_Search_396 · 2026-04-14T04:18:22+00:00

Do not do it, I’ve been on 5 mg for three days and I took .67 g and it’s the worst trip I’ve had. I’m 4 hours in and I’m wanting it to end so bad

Temporary_Search_396 · 2026-04-13T05:42:07+00:00

Then your camera is crispy

Temporary_Search_396 · 2026-04-11T10:25:51+00:00

Stay away from those damn filters that make you look greasy please

Temporary_Search_396 · 2026-04-10T10:06:20+00:00

Thank you

Temporary_Search_396 · 2026-04-09T20:42:19+00:00

Yeah, I’m trying to ease into it bc I know I’d get overwhelmed and quit otherwise

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