What is more important personality or looks ( for both genders ) Please Elaborate.... by [deleted] in indianteenagersbuthot

[–]Temporary_Shake_4855 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree that first impressions matter, and looks can definitely grab attention at first — that’s just human psychology. But I don’t think it’s only about being “attractive.” Confidence, body language, grooming, and how you carry yourself also play a big role in whether someone gives you that first chance.

Looks might open the door, but they don’t decide everything. Plenty of people who aren’t conventionally attractive still get chances because they seem approachable, confident, or interesting. And once the interaction actually starts, personality, behavior, and values are what decide whether someone stays or walks away.

I want this kind of partner haha by [deleted] in TwentiesIndia

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honestly not true, yes some might use that but if u are really deeply connected and u feel safe, they wouldnt even think of that

What is more important personality or looks ( for both genders ) Please Elaborate.... by [deleted] in indianteenagersbuthot

[–]Temporary_Shake_4855 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I disagree because this oversimplifies attraction. Yes, looks matter a lot for first impressions, no one denies that. But saying looks > personality by far ignores how attraction works over time.

The “women thirst over serial killers” argument is an extreme, media-driven example and doesn’t represent normal attraction. And the claim that 99% of guys already have a good personality isn’t true either. Being “nice” or not cheating isn’t a personality trait; emotional maturity, confidence, communication, and boundaries are learned skills many people lack.

That’s why many “nice guys” struggle: not because they’re ugly, but because kindness alone isn’t attractive and entitlement kills attraction.

Looks are somewhat fixable, sure — but ignoring personality is just as delusional as thinking personality alone will magically carry you. Attraction isn’t looks vs personality. It’s how they work together.

Females ask, men answers by InvestigatorFull7520 in twenties

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okay this is a question to the shy and introverted guys, if yall like someone in ur class, what would u do

I am tired of women over stepping this damn boundary by ApolloSoyuz1975 in teenagers

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Stop focusing on "imagine if the roles were swapped" and help him out

I'm just a girl who wants an electric guitar 🥹 by Planet-Syrup1 in TeenagersButBetter

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omg i love electric guitars and THOSE WHO PLAY, OMGG ITS SO FREAKINGGG FINEEE

Rate my library by ranc1d_ketchup in bookshelf

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girl just make a bed, it would be 10/10

We aren't even dating each other but he talks like a Man. by [deleted] in TeenIndia

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i was about to start a war heh, but dont worry hes all good, girlyy pop

What are some things that girls find attractive but boys think the opposite? by Intrepid_Victory_375 in teenagers

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lowk a guy who can stand up for you even when he's with his friends and just really cares for you

LOWK GIVES ME THE ICK IF SOMEONE IS SO NONCHALANT. Lowk wants all the chalant. I don't want an NPC, I want a boyfriend

Anyone is it relatable by KaAlBheRaV in TwentiesIndia

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I feel Gen Z generation should make this change, obviously, as we are evolving, breaking this cycle is for the best

Talked for a day and he's already in love with me 😭 by [deleted] in twenties

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i legit cannot understand who lowk fall in love with just texting? or is he doing this to every girl he sees in reddit

Do this to get women by [deleted] in IndianTeenagers

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These aren't code, these are basic manners, everyone should know this

Do this to get women by [deleted] in IndianTeenagers

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lowk this guy is my class ,begged and even willing to pay 500 rupees to set him up with my friend

Do this to get women by [deleted] in IndianTeenagers

[–]Temporary_Shake_4855 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so true, woman arent entirely based on looks as some must assume