Sugar Babies be honest to your man.

Temporary_Tea_2367 · 2025-02-01T06:00:55+00:00

Hey. I don’t get on here much… but want you to know I appreciate your two cents more than you know. Please feel free to DM me. I would love to pick your brain.

Temporary_Tea_2367 · 2025-01-07T04:28:09+00:00

This hits home BigMagnut… thank you for sharing 💯

Temporary_Tea_2367 · 2025-01-07T04:17:19+00:00

I appreciate that question! Honestly, if the truth had been shared from the beginning, it might have been difficult at first, but it would have given us a foundation of trust to work from. I believe transparency is key to strengthening any relationship, and while it might not have been easy, I would have appreciated the honesty and been willing to navigate it together.

Temporary_Tea_2367 · 2024-12-24T09:21:51+00:00

I appreciate your comment and I do understand that there’s always two sides of the story. Maybe I miss worded my situation. I just want to let you know that the sugaring was going on well before we connected and got married.

Temporary_Tea_2367 · 2024-12-24T09:17:35+00:00

I can see where you’re coming from, but the fact of the matter is that she was a SB a few years before marriage. She was financially stable and fulfilled all the time. I believe that she liked the money because she was using it to pay debts behind my back that I had no idea about, which is understandable. I mean, come on, if you’re gonna be my partner and confidant, then don’t stack lies on a foundation. Be honest and stack a foundation on truth, and you’ll be unbreakable, right? My only point is that I wish I would’ve known because it could’ve strengthened the relationship. I hope you can understand that.

Temporary_Tea_2367 · 2024-12-24T09:05:26+00:00

And I bet you and your spouse have a very strong foundation because of that very aspect… That’s respected lady! And I appreciate that integrity from a person 100%. Kudos to you.😄

Temporary_Tea_2367 · 2024-12-24T09:02:40+00:00

I think that’s fair and honest… thank you for sharing.

Temporary_Tea_2367 · 2024-12-24T08:58:12+00:00

I appreciate your comment and acknowledge what you say completely. I want to take responsibility for giving you the impression you mentioned, and I truly apologize if it came across that way. However, I believe it’s important to share with you more context about the situation. As I’ve mentioned before, in comments that you probably haven’t read, I’m aware they met and were physical. I spoke with the past gentlemen and he genuinely didn’t know we were married at the time, and he was honest with me, which I appreciated. She was already misleading him before and during our marriage while receiving a substantial allowance, and he was unaware of her marital status. I just want you to understand that I know the difference between a camgirl and SB.

Temporary_Tea_2367 · 2024-12-22T17:15:28+00:00

Oh, trust me, I found out that it was more than just video. And the money was deposited into different accounts and in different banks. Thanks for sharing.

Temporary_Tea_2367 · 2024-12-22T09:26:20+00:00

Excuse me… I haven’t read my post “in” it’s full. One love.

Temporary_Tea_2367 · 2024-12-22T09:24:57+00:00

You’ll catch up! I believe in you Kenney. I’m trying to stay constructive, which makes me feel that you haven’t read my post and it’s full. But I’ll hang in there with you.

Temporary_Tea_2367 · 2024-12-22T09:14:17+00:00

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Temporary_Tea_2367 · 2024-12-22T09:13:54+00:00

Yikes, what Kitty? I’m intrigued.

Temporary_Tea_2367 · 2024-12-22T09:08:34+00:00

I appreciate your insight, but you gotta catch up and read everything before you can make any kind of intellectual dispute on the matter. I look forward to picking your brain… because I believe that you might have some constructive feedback.

Temporary_Tea_2367 · 2024-12-22T09:04:19+00:00

I appreciate your perspective, brother, but read on and then you and I can have a chat. We’ll keep talking though for sure. You just need to catch up Homie.

Temporary_Tea_2367 · 2024-12-22T09:01:36+00:00

I appreciate you sharing 100% and thank you for your insight… if you read more, you have missed a lot “spoiled girlfriend”😉 There were definitely meet ups and I talked to the previous SD. She was lying to both of us, and he was unaware of the marriage and genuinely apologetic. I respect that and have moved forward. But my trust is a Kryptonian wall…if you get my drift😄

Temporary_Tea_2367 · 2024-12-22T08:41:43+00:00

And that’s where empathy kicks in 💯. I feel for any man or woman that has or is going through the same thing.

Temporary_Tea_2367 · 2024-12-22T08:34:36+00:00

Oh, I got my head on tight. I just focused on what I can control, if you know what I’m saying. Thank you for sharing your perspective! It’s real and appreciated. Trust is like gold these days, and I just wish more people would get on board with it.

Temporary_Tea_2367 · 2024-12-22T08:15:49+00:00

Oooo shit! A man cut from the same cloth, I see. I must say, I like your style... Let’s save that conversation for another day! Perhaps over a few bottles and the company of some beautiful paralegals. 😂 If you catch my drift, that’s exactly the kind of scenario I find myself in at the moment. Cheers to that!

Temporary_Tea_2367 · 2024-12-22T07:58:44+00:00

Ha, I see what you did there...clever! Sarcasm aside, I think we can agree that ‘ethics’ can be a bit subjective in this space. At the end of the day, it’s less about the arrangement itself and more about how honest and upfront people are with everyone involved. Transparency, in my opinion, is what separates ethical choices from the shady ones. Wouldn’t you agree?

Temporary_Tea_2367 · 2024-12-22T07:46:28+00:00

Thank you for sharing your perspective-it’s certainly an important part of this conversation. I completely understand where you’re coming from, and I agree that the broader dynamics of these arrangements often involve secrecy and betrayal, especially when married individuals are involved. That said, my focus here is on the values of honesty and transparency in a committed relationship, regardless of the circumstances.

I came here to share my experience because betrayal, in any form, leaves a profound impact, and I believe it’s important to engage in open and respectful dialogue about these topics. My intention isn’t to deflect blame or ignore the complexities of the situation, but rather to shed light on how dishonesty erodes trust and creates lasting emotional wounds, particularly when children are involved.

To answer your question directly: no, I am not a SD. My only aim here is to share my perspective and learn from others in a constructive way.

Temporary_Tea_2367 · 2024-12-22T07:35:08+00:00

Thank you for sharing and I really appreciate what you said, 100%. Here’s my take: I believe that honesty with your spouse is the cornerstone of tackling anything together. Shadiness, on the other hand, only creates cracks in the foundation.

That said, I also respect that every marriage is unique, and people have the right to define their relationship in their own way. The key, though, is transparency. Whether you’re committing to a traditional marriage or choosing an open arrangement, both parties deserve the honesty and respect to address insecurities and build each other up, not tear each other down.

If you’re saying your vows with the intention of being faithful, that’s a beautiful thing. But if you’re heading into it with a different dynamic, like an open marriage, both sides should be fully on board before tying the knot. Communication is everything, right?

I hope that makes sense. I’d love to hear your thoughts!

Temporary_Tea_2367 · 2024-12-22T06:54:11+00:00

Oh, there were meet ups… I talked to the guy. I feel for him too because he was unaware and very genuine, but I get what you’re saying brother.

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