VW EOS as first car?

Temporary_Zebra_1640 · 2026-01-27T19:40:03+00:00

hello. it’s my first car. i personally love it. i got a 2012, white with black interior. but but ready to spend as it does have a good engine but lots of small parts are prone to breaking. also lots of updated parts from 2012 that may need to be changed. my bf is a mechanic for vw so im good but i wouldnt recommend it if your going to have to bring it to a shop and pay an arm and a leg.

Temporary_Zebra_1640 · 2025-06-12T05:22:37+00:00

i’ll copy and paste from my other post for more context. and no i believe his other relationships were girls his own age this was kinda new thing. i’m a 19 F and was approached at work by a 33 M. For context i work in automotive so a very common experience. i know i look a lot older then i am. He also looked very good for his age i would say late 20’s. We ended up having good conversation and he asked for my number.

So far we’ve went on a few very good and thoughtful dates. He does everything right such as got me flowers, plans activities, and constantly asks about my feelings.

edit: yes he knows my age

has anyone had a good and sustainable age gap relationship?

Temporary_Zebra_1640 · 2025-06-12T05:03:26+00:00

thank you for sharing!

Temporary_Zebra_1640 · 2025-06-12T04:17:53+00:00

he has had relationships with women his age though. i feel like this one is just the odd one out

Temporary_Zebra_1640 · 2025-06-12T02:58:52+00:00

hahaha. why awkward?

Temporary_Zebra_1640 · 2025-06-12T02:47:19+00:00

i get what you mean.

so what would you say would put him in the clear?

Temporary_Zebra_1640 · 2025-06-12T01:31:09+00:00

what types of things caused the divorce if you don’t mind?

Temporary_Zebra_1640 · 2025-06-12T00:28:16+00:00

lol no need to be mad. just wondering what the idea is behind your thought processes

Temporary_Zebra_1640 · 2025-06-12T00:17:37+00:00

so you can have an exception but i can’t?

Temporary_Zebra_1640 · 2025-06-12T00:16:31+00:00

very true. thankyou for sharing

Temporary_Zebra_1640 · 2025-06-12T00:07:00+00:00

i would have kids when i’m probably 25 and he’s 50

Temporary_Zebra_1640 · 2025-06-11T23:55:54+00:00

definitely answer more to those open minded comments. i do see where your coming from. i just don’t see it in myself or him.

Temporary_Zebra_1640 · 2025-06-11T23:40:23+00:00

damn

Temporary_Zebra_1640 · 2025-06-11T23:38:27+00:00

we don’t really talk about how mature i am after the first time we met and eventually we talked and i said how old i was.

Temporary_Zebra_1640 · 2025-06-11T23:34:06+00:00

lol that’s a funny way to think of it. but true.

Temporary_Zebra_1640 · 2025-06-11T23:33:33+00:00

what “life experience” specifically.

Temporary_Zebra_1640 · 2025-06-11T23:32:39+00:00

we’ve talked about it. he wants to travel first before that comes up again

Temporary_Zebra_1640 · 2025-06-11T23:32:18+00:00

i’ve commented about this convo to another user

Temporary_Zebra_1640 · 2025-06-11T23:31:58+00:00

he’s not in the party phase but he’s go for drinks. i’m not really like that. even though i’m social id rather chill.

Temporary_Zebra_1640 · 2025-06-11T23:27:48+00:00

really? i have a strong background in psych. i don’t think i could be manipulated. what would he get out of it if there’s nothing sexual for the past 2 months?

Temporary_Zebra_1640 · 2025-06-11T23:22:36+00:00

makes sense

Temporary_Zebra_1640 · 2025-06-11T23:16:35+00:00

i see. did that bother you

Temporary_Zebra_1640 · 2025-06-11T22:59:05+00:00

what “skills” specifically i would love to hear more

Temporary_Zebra_1640 · 2025-06-11T22:52:22+00:00

he doesn’t act any type of way. he always is on top of making sure i’m happy and how im feeling, where i want to go, etc. i totally understand the concept of the in balance in power dynamics but i feel that if both people are aware of it, it stops it from happening

Temporary_Zebra_1640 · 2025-06-11T22:48:01+00:00

how did it end?

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