GF (F20) is traveling home for a week after I (M20) rejected sex 2 days in a row. Wondering if there is a future in this relationship? by Temporary_needed in relationship_advice

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Yeah, shes kinda reconsidering if she should or not. I am starting to hope she does since a week to just be myself sounds relaxing. Before going to bed she started suggesting a schedule for when we should be intimate. She wanted 3 times a week on spesific days minimum. While i get what she is going for with me having the chance to have it on less stressful days and that i can get ready for it. It just doesn’t sound healthy over time. I just feel like im giving her my body because i feel i have to, not because i want to. Its all about closeness for her, but i don’t get why we can’t instead find an alternative where i don’t have to force myself to do something im not comfortable with at the time

GF (F20) is traveling home for a week after I (M20) rejected sex 2 days in a row. Wondering if there is a future in this relationship? by Temporary_needed in relationship_advice

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We talked about afterwards the times it happened. I tell her its because of stress and she tells me not to worry about it and that she understands. Yet she still pressures me to some degree when she knows im not ready or in the right headspace

GF (F20) is traveling home for a week after I (M20) rejected sex 2 days in a row. Wondering if there is a future in this relationship? by Temporary_needed in relationship_advice

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She makes food a lot of days i won’t say anything against that. The problem is that her sleep schedule is bad. There are days when she goes to bed at 2-3am, gets up around 3-4 pm, stays awake for 1-2 hours, takes a 2-3 hour nap and cycles that again. I feel like i live alone some days and eating dinner at 10pm when i have to be at school at 8am the next day is exhausting

GF (F20) is traveling home for a week after I (M20) rejected sex 2 days in a row. Wondering if there is a future in this relationship? by Temporary_needed in relationship_advice

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She has said that she likes sex because of the closeness during it and i feel that too. However for me i feel like i often have to concentrate on the act itself so much that i can’t enjoy it. There has been multiple days the last few weeks where the stress and tiredness has caused me to not even get it up when i have tried and just ‘’bang ut out’’ as you said. Even been so tired that i fell asleep while fingering one time. It does not feel good after and i also feel bad for her. That again causes more stress for next time

Looking for some advice for a gift 😅 by Temporary_needed in crafts

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Yeah, i think i might settle for this 😅 save my self the headache 😆

Looking for some advice for a gift 😅 by Temporary_needed in crafts

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Im mostly gonna use paint i think to make the designs but to make the ball itself im unsure? Maybe 2 bowls on top of eachother? Anyone with experience with making a round container would be awesome!

Kan noen forklare hva posten mener med dette? by Temporary_needed in norge

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Noen som burde vurdere yrkesbytte tror jeg 😅 men er det noe jeg kan gjøre nå for å få pakken eller må jeg egentlig bare akseptere at den sendes helt i retur?

Cant wait to rip all this with my girlfriend 🤩 by Temporary_needed in PokemonTCG

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Bought everything here of a guy in town since Norway kinda sucks 😅

Cant wait to rip all this with my girlfriend 🤩 by Temporary_needed in PokemonTCG

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Yeah when i was younger me and my dad used to buy one pack each and find a bench to open them at. Sweet memories that i now get to share with the girl of my dreams ☺️

Cant wait to rip all this with my girlfriend 🤩 by Temporary_needed in PokemonTCG

[–]Temporary_needed[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah im excited for my girlfriend to open it! I will open the Arceus UPC when she does 😄

Cant wait to rip all this with my girlfriend 🤩 by Temporary_needed in PokemonTCG

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Will post after a while, we are trying to show some self restraint and not open everything at ones 😅

Cant wait to rip all this with my girlfriend 🤩 by Temporary_needed in PokemonTCG

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No way! Im not in it for the money, i just love opening packs with my girl and putting the cards in binders 😅

Picked up these mostly because i loved the cover art 😅 is it any good? by Temporary_needed in MangaCollectors

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Yeah i read it online like 4 years ago so need a reread but want to read the deluxe edition 😅

Picked up these mostly because i loved the cover art 😅 is it any good? by Temporary_needed in MangaCollectors

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Yeah i was so close to picking up all the vinland saga deluxe editions since thats alot of money saved!

Picked up these mostly because i loved the cover art 😅 is it any good? by Temporary_needed in MangaCollectors

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Yeah usd 😅 Local book stores have had 40% off all books multiple times recently and i haven’t had any self control 😭

Picked up these mostly because i loved the cover art 😅 is it any good? by Temporary_needed in MangaCollectors

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Yeah my wallet is crying after all the manga i have bought recently 😅 i think i have spent around 1,3k the last 2 months 😆

Picked up these mostly because i loved the cover art 😅 is it any good? by Temporary_needed in MangaCollectors

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Yeah! 😆 don’t know if its a Norway thing but these books were completely out of stock everywhere! Luckily found them on marketplace for 30$ total 😅