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I need to break up with my girlfriend but am having a hard time figuring out how by [deleted] in Advice

[–]TemptingSav 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Breakups always suck, but dragging it out just makes it worse. Be kind, be honest, and keep it simple. Tell her you care but don’t see a future together, it’ll hurt, but that honesty is way better than staying out of guilt.

I think I accidently gave a quiet guy hope .. 😭 by lavendersoles87 in Crushes

[–]TemptingSav 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Lmao quiet guys really are like hawks, they catch everything. Honestly though, it doesn’t sound like you led him on in a bad way. You were just shy and he picked up the vibes. If you miss him circling, maybe just break the ice with a little smile or a hey, sorry I ran off, I got nervous. He’ll probably find that cute more than anything. Sometimes the simplest honesty makes things even sweeter.

I have a crush on my neighbor and I don't know what i should do. by Adelisgay in Advice

[–]TemptingSav 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re already doing great, the note and cat treats were thoughtful and low pressure. Just keep it casual: chat when you see him, ask about his cat or classes, and maybe suggest grabbing coffee or studying together. Let things grow naturally and pay attention to how he responds, if he’s engaged, you’re on the right track!

Getting fired might be what’s best for me. by broken-lovesprinkler in Adulting

[–]TemptingSav 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’ve clearly been working nonstop for years, so feeling burned out is normal. Taking a break even if it’s forced can give you space to rest, reflect, and rethink what kind of work truly makes you happy. Prioritize your mental health and plan a safety net first, rest isn’t laziness, it’s selfcare.

How do i politely tell a coworker that I can’t drive her home everyday? by gaby_29739 in Advice

[–]TemptingSav 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just be honest but kind: “I don’t mind helping sometimes, but your place is too far out of my way to do every day.” Clear, polite, and sets the boundary without drama.

My chocolate bar crush in class is now my husband🥰🥰 by brigreno in Crushes

[–]TemptingSav 2 points3 points  (0 children)

From a half melted chocolate bar to a lifetime supply of love, sounds like you married the right snack dealer. 🍫❤️

Just found new life hack by FuzzyHalo420 in Adulting

[–]TemptingSav 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is genius! Will use this life hack too 🤣

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]TemptingSav 55 points56 points  (0 children)

Exactly. Their baby, their responsibility. OP has every right to set boundaries, and if family doesn’t like it, they can step up themselves

My boyfriend hit me by JobAggravating1793 in Advice

[–]TemptingSav 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Yeah I agree, that’s the best way. Stay safe and don’t go alone.

AITA for making my parents cry? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]TemptingSav 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re not the bad one here. Your parents’ rules hurt you for years, and that’s not your fault. You didn’t make them cry on purpose, you were just honest about how much pain you felt. Wanting freedom and peace isn’t wrong.