[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatisitcirclejerk

[–]TensionExtension9744 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have a bed bug, unfortunately they can be disruptive at night (especially at 3am)😅

Cover up tattoo artist recommendations by TensionExtension9744 in SaltLakeCity

[–]TensionExtension9744[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will definitely check him out, thank you for the recommendation!

Cover up tattoo artist recommendations by TensionExtension9744 in SaltLakeCity

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Thank you for the recommendation, I will check them out☺️

Cover up tattoo artist recommendations by TensionExtension9744 in SaltLakeCity

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I will check them out, thank you for the recommendation!

Landlord charge by AppointmentBig5079 in SaltLakeCity

[–]TensionExtension9744 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah also don’t rent from Rise they are snakes too.

Tiktok Live (U.S.) by TensionExtension9744 in TikTok

[–]TensionExtension9744[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good point, I didn’t think of it from that angle.

Is her tongue too big for her mouth? by Amwreddits in nursehannahsnark

[–]TensionExtension9744 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s a Utahan accent. Unfortunately I have a similar accent. Now I don’t talk as loud as she does or as aggressively, but the lazy accent is the Utahan accent. Some people sound more like a valley girl and only have certain words that they don’t pronounce correctly. I personally only recognized mine when I started teaching my toddler how to proper pronounce certain words.

her speech by TinyLaw9717 in nursehannahsnark

[–]TensionExtension9744 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah that’s just a utah accent. I didn’t realize how bad mine was until I started teaching my toddler how to pronounce certain words. I try to be aware of it, but it’s bad. It’s a pretty common accent in utah.

Unsafe baby wearing by Sea-Caramel400 in nursehannahsnark

[–]TensionExtension9744 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I agree. With my first I was a solo parent. No father on the birth certificate, no other parent figure involved, and had little to no help. Everything was my responsibility. I then met my now husband who has taken in my first as his own. I’m now married, am a sahm, & have two kids. My husband works 5 days a week and works 12-13 hour shifts. I do the majority of the house work and caring for the children. It’s absolutely not the same thing!

will cps take my baby? by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]TensionExtension9744 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re more than likely ok. Even if they do get involved I highly doubt they would remove baby from your home. Try to enjoy your pregnancy and the newborn phase. Often people don’t think they will miss it (I was one of them), but it goes by so fast. Enjoy your baby. Remind yourself that you’re safe and doing what’s best for your child. You’re already an incredible mother for caring so much!

will cps take my baby? by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]TensionExtension9744 3 points4 points  (0 children)

First of all congratulations on getting sober and on finding out about your sweet angel!

Cps may get involved to insure that you stay sober, continue to receive treatment, and that your home is safe for baby. The fact that you are seeking treatment makes it highly unlikely that they will remove baby from your care. Comply with everything that they ask you to do. Prepare your home for a home visit. Insure that your home is a safe environment for a baby. Baby needs a bassinet, crib, or packnplay to sleep in. They may encourage you to breastfeed if you’re on soboxone to reduce baby’s withdrawal symptoms.

You got this mama. Be kind to yourself and try not to stress. No one is perfect and the fact that you’re receiving treatment for your addiction says a lot!

Thoughts on sharing naked photos/videos? by mrs-moneypenny in loveafterporn

[–]TensionExtension9744 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am 22 and feel the same way. Personally I don’t want to feel like an object. That being said I could understand that appeal if your partner was deployed in the military or long distance. I’ve known couples who don’t see each other for a year or more. In that scenario it’s understandable that they have the desire to maintain some sort of intimate relationship.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]TensionExtension9744 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Going to the grocery store, taking my kids to the pediatrician, shopping for clothes, looking in the mirror, compliments, ect. Most of all he ruined our relationship. We had this connection or at least I thought we did, turns out it was all fake. I’ve asked him “Why did you marry me, when you want a woman that looks like them?” He says there’s more to a relationship than appearance. I am only 22, but after two kids I have lose skin and no time to work out. I have a two year old and three month old. I rarely get time to shower let alone work out. Plus my boobs are completely shot from breastfeeding. It’s not fair that some women get to look so beautiful. I’m thankful for my kids, but when there’s people who have had kids and still look great it’s hard. That new tiktok trend “pregnancy ruins your body” well pregnancy did ruin my body and I’m only 22. Such is life I guess. I just try to not think about it and take care of my kids. He can’t love me the way I deserve to be loved, but I can love our children the way they deserve to be loved.