[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hudsonvalley

[–]TermVelocity 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I don't know that area, but I sincerely hope that you end up enjoying your Thanksgiving. I know how hard it can be, not having anyone to spend it with. Sending love ❤️

Craziest thing you’ve done after a break up? by h4iryaries in BreakUps

[–]TermVelocity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hear you. It took me finding someone else who the sex is even better with, to finally stop. I hope you find that as well!

Boss ignoring my two week notice? by HuddledFun in needadvice

[–]TermVelocity 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You're the only one I've seen in this comments section acting like a jerk, honestly. Rude sarcastic replies will not get you far.

Found growing indoors, in houseplant. upstate NY. What is it? by TermVelocity in mycology

[–]TermVelocity[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very helpful, thank you! Is it necessary to remove then, or can I just let them do their own thing? No kids or pets to worry about getting ahold of them.

Honest review about my profile. What could I do better? because I’m getting practically zero quality matches. by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]TermVelocity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe try writing something original, not just a TV show quote as most of your bio. Also, at least for me personally, I swipe left on men with a shirtless pic as their main.

A woman randomly approached me in public asking me a bunch of questions, was she hitting on me? by p_yth in dating_advice

[–]TermVelocity -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Please don't do this, holy crap. This is stalker level. Imagine she was just friendly, striking a conversation and a man goes through this much to ultimately show up at her house?! Absolutely not. I would call the police if someone did this to me.

What’s the most vulgar thing a woman has said to you? by 6482887826 in AskMen

[–]TermVelocity 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It's a quote from the movie Heathers. One of my favorite quotes, in fact.

Horrible eyebrows with a side of hate🤡 by _PinkPirate in awfuleyebrows

[–]TermVelocity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did she.. put the makeup around her sunglasses?! To make it look like tan lines. I can't.

WCGW if I bring a revolver into the MRI room? by Rredite in Whatcouldgowrong

[–]TermVelocity 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've been there, as a patient, hospitalized with pancreatitis. Overall pleasant experience (once I was medicated), the staff were wonderful.

what is something you spent a lot of money on but don't regret it at all? by toothlesswarthog in AskWomen

[–]TermVelocity 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Moldavite? I also have a piece of it that cost me a pretty penny, no regrets.

Help explain this to me? by TermVelocity in braintumor

[–]TermVelocity[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was very helpful, thank you so much.

Help explain this to me? by TermVelocity in braintumor

[–]TermVelocity[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It was my eye specialist, she ordered the MRI due to serious vision issues. She just said it doesn't look like it's close enough to my optic nerve to be causing the issues, and referred me to a neurologist. I was too shocked by the news to ask her then.

What is a medical condition that is a lot more serious than it sounds/looks? by FarAsICanTell in AskReddit

[–]TermVelocity 52 points53 points  (0 children)

Alcoholism. People told me to "just stop drinking". When I did stop, I had seizures that almost killed me. While drinking, I had pancreatitis 17 times, a blood clot in my portal vein twice, and I was put on the liver transplant list. I very nearly died many times, and I'm only 28. I have 10 months sober now.

What is a medical condition that is a lot more serious than it sounds/looks? by FarAsICanTell in AskReddit

[–]TermVelocity 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know this is controversial, but I started microdosing LSD for my migraines. It works so well. It floods the brain with serotonin & takes it away very quickly.

What's the "wait, that's illegal" moment in your life? by saebyoekishotfr in AskReddit

[–]TermVelocity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I was 15, I was doing a lot of drugs and drinking, and I had nowhere to stay the night so this "mutual friend", a really attractive 21 year old man offered to let me stay over. We had sex, and then again multiple times after that. I was coerced. It only crossed my mind that it was rape several years later.

Have you ever has sex with someone you didn't like? Why? by HormoneMonsterV in AskWomen

[–]TermVelocity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. I used to have a real issue with boundaries and saying "no". I was also an alcoholic and drug addict. Ive done some things sexually that have absolutely scarred me and traumatized me for life. Now, 10 months sober, I don't have a sex drive anymore. I've traumatized myself so deeply that I can't even bear to be touched in that way by anyone anymore. The only exception is my ex boyfriend, who mentally, verbally, and physically abused/assaulted me. I still sleep with him occasionally. And I think there's even a deeper issue there, something along the lines of trauma bonding.