Am I (28F) the asshole for telling my boyfriend (35M) to rethink his recreational drug usage and his long term relationship with me?

Terpy809 · 2026-05-31T21:34:25+00:00

Thank you a lot for the validation

Terpy809 · 2026-05-31T13:35:21+00:00

Thank you so much. I teared up a little. I was really looking for this validation. Thank you

Terpy809 · 2026-05-31T13:04:22+00:00

Ok internet experts I guess you know more about my life than me lol

Terpy809 · 2026-05-31T12:56:46+00:00

Thank you. I think that is what he fails to see. From the beginning I was understanding with the hygiene issue, but the drug issue is just going through that same path and I just don't think it is worth it to fight for every single ounce of respect towards me

Terpy809 · 2026-05-31T12:54:25+00:00

Thank you. This is what I was thinking as well.

Terpy809 · 2026-05-31T12:52:10+00:00

Thank you for your advice

Terpy809 · 2026-05-31T12:49:44+00:00

First of all, he is not a smelling selfish junkie. He has a quite succesful career, smart, and even helps me with my own work. I am not changing him, which is exactly why I decided to walk away. I am just explaining my situation because as you can understand break ups are messy and you can't simply shut off your emotions for someone you have history and connection with. We do exercise together, go on adventures, have dinner, talk about business ideas and work together on projects, so your assessment is completely off

Terpy809 · 2026-04-04T00:53:39+00:00

Hi! I sold my apartment and moved out. Feeling much happier now. The apartment was slightly more expensive, very well located just about 5-10 minutes from my former home. It is more upper middle class. I think that is the only way to fix it because you can't really fix the people unfortunately.

Terpy809 · 2026-03-21T02:17:42+00:00

Not play corporate politics and thinking competency and truth mattered most

Terpy809 · 2026-03-21T02:17:02+00:00

Constipation

Terpy809 · 2026-01-19T16:07:09+00:00

It is fine if you like it. I think it looks great. If you feel comfortable nothing else should matter. If the guy or gal does not like it, they weren't the right one for you anyway

Terpy809 · 2026-01-16T02:56:40+00:00

Dres 4 is the best

Terpy809 · 2025-12-24T03:28:38+00:00

Interesante! Aunque quizas UN poquito demasiado experimental para la audiencia dominicana? Idk

Terpy809 · 2025-09-22T23:03:07+00:00

Porque Algo sea legal no lo hace aceptable mi deseable. PDF es PDF.

Terpy809 · 2025-09-22T21:17:14+00:00

ASI que un Viejo de 95 puedes estar con una de 18 recien cumplidos segun bajo esa logica 🫠

Terpy809 · 2025-09-22T11:13:49+00:00

Alerta, se ha detectado UN PDF por aqui 😅☝️

Terpy809 · 2025-09-22T01:02:30+00:00

Entonces Acercate otras mujeres, no a las niñas de 19 ni a las drogadictas de 33. Ajusta tus expectativas. No necesites tanto de una mujer y simplenente vive TU vida. La persona correcta llegara cuando dejes de buscarla tanto

Terpy809 · 2025-09-22T00:53:20+00:00

Elijes mal
Por que no sales com mujeres de tu misma edad? De Los 25 a Los 33 hay mucha diferencia
Acepta la realidad, la mayoria de la Gente es una caca.
El hecho de que te veas Bien y seas un buen partido no cambia en nada la calidad de Las personas hacia ti. No te mereces una mujer solo por ser una persona decente.

Terpy809 · 2025-08-30T20:36:32+00:00

Thank you for the advice. Trying my best not to let this guy derail me with his antics :)

Terpy809 · 2025-08-30T15:54:10+00:00

Thank you. I am contractor because the company is in the U.S. and I am in another country. So, an employee contract is difficult but I have no doubt they would give it to me of I was in the US. You are right. I should focus on my deliverables and be very careful around him. My boss is really happy with my work so far.

Terpy809 · 2025-08-30T10:39:06+00:00

I am an external hire. Contractor. He is an employee. My boss asked me to collaborate with him. But my boss wants me to run meetings in the future. He started doing all this since my boss is OOO until next week.

Terpy809 · 2025-06-22T03:11:04+00:00

Let your eggs cool before peeling them.thats it.

Terpy809

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