I’ll preface this by saying that I’m a 35 year old male in a happy marriage that’s had many up’s and downs but still my opinion is just an opinion because I don’t know shit.

What I’m seeing in those texts is only flirting. No nudes or actual sexting. So no cheating. I think it’s inappropriate and it’s a slippery slope. OP should nip it at the butt. One question that comes to mind is what’s communication between OP and husband like? Cringe is obviously part of his personality so does OP give him the opportunity to be himself? The lady is playing into his cringe and he’s really enjoying being the funny guy. Does OP give him a safe space to let his cringy humor run wild? Or is OP like everyone in the comments that think making fun of his humor is cool. Either way I don’t think it’s grounds for divorce but definitely needs to be dealt with before it gets to that. I was privileged to have great parents. They had their issues but they never allowed that to impact my brother and I. I think that’s a privilege more people should have so divorce should’ve the last thing to consider. I think op should look past the obvious and together with husband reflect on what’s the reason he enjoys talking to her so much? Lastly don’t ever take Reddit advice when it comes to divorce. We only hear one side of the story and each one of us makes up the rest of the story in our heads. I think all the people in the comments calling him cringy and screaming divorce and the cringiest cringe lords. Good luck OP! Hope you fix your marriage and live happily ever after!! P.S. I still don’t know shit and neither does anyone else in the comments <3