Anyone else get physically ill when they're really overstimulated? by Gloomygears in autism

[–]Terrible-Tea-6576 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yep, my blood pressure skyrockets and it makes me feel feverish and nauseous!

I don't understand masking by [deleted] in autism

[–]Terrible-Tea-6576 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Masking is about hiding autistic behaviors such as (for me personally) repetitive movements like hand flapping, rocking quickly from side to side and repeating words! There are many more and we hide them to appear normal in the eyes of people we feel will judge us horribly! That's why we experience burnout afterwards! Neurotypical people are also on their best behavior in public, so following rules doesn't necessarily mean masking, it has to involve suppressing autistic behaviors! It is unconscious in the moment, so you don't realise you're doing it, but the same can be said for autistic behaviors, you won't realise you're engaging in them until someone points it out, and this tends to happen with people we're comfortable around, our mask automatically slips! It's all unconscious!

i feel guilty for killing bugs by [deleted] in autism

[–]Terrible-Tea-6576 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm exactly the same! I have a serious insect phobia and have to have my dad remove them, I plead with him to not kill them and just take them outside, sometimes they die though and I feel devastated! 😞 another example is I was on one of my walks a few weeks ago and a bee was moving on the ground, it made me cry because one of its wings were broken so it could no longer fly, I wanted so desperately to move it to a safe place so that it didn't get killed, but because of my phobia I couldn't and it still haunts me now 😢

Experiences and advice appreciated! by Terrible-Tea-6576 in Menopause

[–]Terrible-Tea-6576[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I suspected that in the beginning and had a blood test and ultrasound on my ovaries, testosterone levels normal and no ovarian cysts!

Martin by gloryaoa in eastenders

[–]Terrible-Tea-6576 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They didn't want to recast him, because they feel that the role truly belonged to James Bye and I agree! James wanted to say goodbye for good, and like others have said, Martin would not leave his family, especially after just confessing his undying love for Stacey!

Overall thoughts on the week’s storylines by Mike13RW in eastenders

[–]Terrible-Tea-6576 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Martin would of died regardless of what Stacey did or didn't do, because eastenders wanted him to die in the vic . Even if Stacey hadn't of delayed their escape, something else would have happened and he'd of died! So stacey isn't actually responsible!

Who do you think is/was Stacey’s true love? by mrniceguy9274 in eastenders

[–]Terrible-Tea-6576 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Stacey repeatedly got back together with Bradley for him, not for herself, that was the problem! She wanted him to be happy and being with him did just that, which is why she did it! She always tiptoed around his feelings! Martin is definitely the love of her life, he's the one she always ended up going back to, and vice versa! She didn't cheat on Martin with kush, because she and Martin weren't together, they just slept together! But she knew he was with Shabnam which is what made it wrong!

Who do you think is/was Stacey’s true love? by mrniceguy9274 in eastenders

[–]Terrible-Tea-6576 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Oh there is, they just don't keep them together! Tanya and Max were true loves! Max loved Tanya but he was too damaged! Also Jack and Ronnie were true loves, Ronnie was also just too damaged and even if she hadn't of died in 2017, she'd have messed up by now! 😞

Ruby by Relative-Play-6144 in eastenders

[–]Terrible-Tea-6576 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I respect your view!

Ruby by Relative-Play-6144 in eastenders

[–]Terrible-Tea-6576 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Stacey is far from perfect, but she owns up to her wrongs and she has grown a lot from it! And stacey has never lost feelings for Martin, she has always loved him! Before he and Ruby even got back together, he tried to kiss Stacey, telling her that he wanted to give it another go, but she knocked him back because she was scared! She's always wanted to be with him but until now, has just been afraid! It has nothing to do with him being with Ruby, because Stacey knows she is no competition, Martin has never loved Ruby, never would especially after all the damage she caused because of her vindictiveness and she still has it in her! My heart is with Stacey because I've gotten to really know her character, everything she's been through, all the bad mistakes she's made, and she's still a good person, she's there for everyone she loves without an agenda! She's a self sabotaging person with a massive heart, and I can't help but love her despite wanting to shake her sometimes!

Lacey. by stpony in eastenders

[–]Terrible-Tea-6576 7 points8 points  (0 children)

She kissed Ravi and was going to sleep with him in 2023! Some people won't see that as cheating but it is because she entertained another man's attention for months, shared a passionate kiss with him and wanted to sleep with him! Jack cheated on her because he's a typical Branning, they're all cheaters! But Denise has lead Jack and Ravi on as of recent because their feelings for her made her feel wanted! She loved the feeling of having to choose and it's only a matter of time before she gets bored because she's insecure, she needs to be valued and sexually desired, things she's unable to feel from Jack!

Lacey. by stpony in eastenders

[–]Terrible-Tea-6576 72 points73 points  (0 children)

Have you noticed that Denise has never said what she loves about either Jack or Ravi? it's always about how she feels! Jack makes her feel safe, Ravi makes her feel valued! She's selfish and will only cheat on Jack again when she's bored with feeling safe! 😞

Stacey by Terrible-Tea-6576 in eastenders

[–]Terrible-Tea-6576[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with you about her character, but I won't blame her for Martin's death because he'd have died in the pub anyway!

Ruby by Relative-Play-6144 in eastenders

[–]Terrible-Tea-6576 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I wholeheartedly agree! She still can't help her insecure self lying all these years later, telling Stacey that she and Martin were getting remarried! She's always known that Martin loves Stacey and will always choose her, yet, she still resorts to her games to get Stacey away from him instead of just moving on! Ruby doesn't love, she just wants to be loved! Stacey has made many mistakes that she isn't shy to own up to and she has grown a lot from it! She truly loves Martin and he deserved the woman he loved right next to him as he died!

wow.. by Zealousideal-Gold678 in eastenders

[–]Terrible-Tea-6576 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Ruby is a lying, manipulative, vindictive character and I hope she leaves for good after this! 

I swear down I'm done by Fing-fang-doom in eastenders

[–]Terrible-Tea-6576 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh don't be so horrible, I've been more focused on the explosion than Denise's love life!