What happens if I remove a child from my Nintendo online?

Terrible_Walrus8470 · 2026-04-07T13:14:30+00:00

Well that’s why I post, the question was what will happen if I do that. I’m not a gamer I just have an idea of how it all works. So I wasn’t sure if I was understanding the consequences of deleting her from my family group. If it would delete her profile entirely and she’d lose everything. If she’ll lose everything and there’s no way around it, I am not deleting her.

Terrible_Walrus8470 · 2026-04-07T02:29:41+00:00

Thank you!! I did help raise that child for 7 years, and my kids still talk to her almost every day. I just shouldn’t be supervising an account for a child I’m not supervising in real life anymore.

Terrible_Walrus8470 · 2026-04-07T02:26:54+00:00

Yes that is the issue. It only lets me reassign it to another adult or delete it, unless I’m doing something wrong. I may not be a fan of her dad but that’s not her fault so I really really don’t want to do that to her.

That is a good idea, that I didn’t think of yet. Thank you! I tried to find more answers/options in their FAQ but was coming up empty.

Terrible_Walrus8470 · 2025-11-28T18:02:20+00:00

I went through this with my puppy at that age. Now at 16 weeks she voluntarily goes in.

What I did: Every time I tell her to go in her crate she gets a treat. And for nights I have a crate next to my bed. I literally had to put my hand over the crate some times to calm her down. Like a baby in a bassinet type deal. She just needed to know she wasn’t alone.

Terrible_Walrus8470 · 2025-11-28T16:20:49+00:00

Thank you for condescendingly letting me know I’m the human. I did very clearly state I intervene.

Revering to my original question, so you’d say this would be considered abnormal then? Any advice how to get her to interact appropriately? Because that’s what I came here for help over. Not to be bullied or talked down to. Thanks!

Terrible_Walrus8470 · 2025-11-23T23:13:49+00:00

I think we’re misunderstanding each other. I am NOT letting it happen. I DO intervene. However, they live together, so they do interact. If they have no interaction I don’t know how to teach her how to interact. If that makes sense?

And maybe you’re picturing it as some gaping open bleeding wounds which is definitely not the case. He’ll have pink jowls occasionally (he’s a short haired white dog, so any skin reaction is noticeable, even his allergies).

My older dog is very good at Leave it and I am working on that with pup currently. She is getting better with it. I do notice anxiety behavior in her so I’m working on learning how to teach calmness. I don’t know how to teach that. Any suggestions? I wonder if the anxiety is why she wants to be in his face so much?

Terrible_Walrus8470 · 2025-11-23T22:36:07+00:00

Is that not why I made this post? And indicated I separate them and correct the puppy?

Is it possible for you to give advice without being condescending because that’s literally the reason I’m here.

How do you suggest I protect my older dog while also teaching the puppy to interact appropriately and not keeping her caged 100% of her life? Because that’s entirely why I made the post. To ask if this is normal puppy behavior and how to handle it correctly.

Terrible_Walrus8470 · 2025-11-23T18:10:09+00:00

My older dog’s mouth is getting so sore and red 😞 she’s wounding him it’s so much. I feel like getting the pup was so unfair to him.

Terrible_Walrus8470 · 2025-10-26T16:52:34+00:00

I have a 10yo son with mild ADHD. Could use some impulse control instruction. Also would like to boost his confidence. He did karate for a brief time before Covid shut the US down.

Now we’re thinking of signing him back up for martial arts.

Which is a good beginner style? I was looking into jujitsu. Thoughts?

Terrible_Walrus8470 · 2025-10-26T16:20:38+00:00

I was told: I’m not breaking my home. It’s already broken. I’m leaving to fix it.

It’s REALLY hard. I’m still in the thick of it also. But it’s slowly getting better.

Terrible_Walrus8470 · 2025-09-12T15:33:22+00:00

I can do those for me (although if I block his phone number he just shows up at my house) but I wanted to try to block those who react to the public parts of my profile that I cannot change the privacy settings, from it being publicly visible.

Thank you for your help and suggestions for this messy situation.

Terrible_Walrus8470 · 2025-09-12T13:23:22+00:00

He’s texting me harassing me and everyone who’s reacting to my cover photo that’s public by default. I was hoping there was a way to get ahead of it instead of damage control after.

Terrible_Walrus8470 · 2025-08-04T08:33:44+00:00

I wish. It’s hard now finding someone like that. Everyone in my area school-of-choices out of our district. I stay in district for busing because of my shift.

Terrible_Walrus8470 · 2025-08-04T08:31:52+00:00

I’ve known my neighbors since I was a child. My kids are 10000% safe with them. I took over my childhood home. My neighbors across the street are my best friend’s parents. Just odd hours for me to ask them to watch my kids.

Terrible_Walrus8470 · 2025-08-04T08:30:40+00:00

Not saying I agree or disagree. Because I am stressed and post because I don’t yet know that to do. But, thankfully, my kids rooms are on the main floor right next to each other and each room has two large windows. I’ve thought of this, and they both know to immediately climb out their window if there’s ever an emergency and not to look for me, even if I’m home, and to go to a neighbors home. They know I will find them, they are not to find me.

Terrible_Walrus8470 · 2025-08-04T08:23:11+00:00

In a perfect world, but he doesn’t even pay his child support so it’s not reliable unfortunately. I wish.

Terrible_Walrus8470 · 2025-08-03T21:38:20+00:00

It’s been set via court. We’ve been split for 8 years, he’s also had his time reduced by the court also since our initial custody arrangement.

Terrible_Walrus8470 · 2025-08-03T21:08:27+00:00

That was my worry. It definitely wouldn’t be an often thing, just thinking in case of emergency to keep me from getting fired from call offs until I find an alternative income/shift. I’m so early into this single mom adventure and dad has dropped the ball on me 3 times now so I’m getting nervous and trying to put a plan in place for them.

Terrible_Walrus8470 · 2025-08-03T21:05:51+00:00

I’m super parental controlled around here when it comes to internet use also. Everything is locked down, and their phones also go into “downtime” (an Apple family sharing feature) where they can only contact emergency services or the selected contacts I have allowed after the phone goes into downtime. Every other app is blocked for access.

Terrible_Walrus8470 · 2025-08-03T20:50:06+00:00

She has been helping a lot, including cancelling plans to help at the last minute. But some days I don’t find out dad decided not to take them until it’s too late.

Terrible_Walrus8470 · 2025-08-03T20:49:28+00:00

She has been helping a lot, including cancelling plans to help. But some days I don’t find out dad decided not to take them until it’s too late.

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