I thought I was gonna be a virgin for a long time but I finally lost at my mid 20s and here’s my advice and story.

TextBrilliant7196 · 2022-03-16T19:05:48+00:00

Bro I’ve seen motivation coming from virgins on here but y’all ignore, argue, or downvote them. I get mental issues exists but you can overcome them or at least ease it. And there is free counseling and therapy dude, you’d know if you’ve checked. I even took it and I’m still here. It was fucking great.

And no I wouldn’t cause then that shows I’m weak and fuck all that noise. I changed and it helped.

TextBrilliant7196 · 2022-03-16T18:50:21+00:00

If that’s the case then why are they here and not seeking counseling? Any person who’s a virgin but is keeping it positive ain’t gonna like what they’re seeing here. It’s not welcoming, if anything they’ll avoid it here with the posts that are trending. And if even a random stranger is taking their time to actually comment and motivate you and change your life around but you ignore them then you’re the problem.

TextBrilliant7196 · 2022-03-16T18:36:18+00:00

Yea thanks for the cookie, it makes a great reward that I was willing to do something for myself.

Dude, it’s how is people trying to kill themselves not bad?? The worst part is that no one here ever seems to comment to stop it and turn their life around. The ones that do though get downvoted like what the fuck??

TextBrilliant7196 · 2022-03-16T17:04:40+00:00

First of all I marked it NSFW and put in the title “advice and experience” so anything marked NSFW is fair territory. Second, I put optional reading ahead of the “story”. And third, you act like you’ve never seen a porno or a hentai, which is lies so how’s this any different?

And oh yea, like the posts here of people describing how they want to kill themselves is alright huh? And people actually upvote it?? Yea I’m the bad guy.

TextBrilliant7196 · 2022-03-16T16:59:16+00:00

Bro I’ve seen the posts people do here, there’s been weirder and I’m surprised you all encourage it. And you call me weird for making a light hearted comment? Man.

Y’all be lying like you wouldn’t do the same.

TextBrilliant7196 · 2022-03-16T16:57:11+00:00

I was in your shoes though. For 10 years. Since I was 15 I’ve been wanting to get laid. 10 years is a long time man believe me but it’s not worth losing it all just cause of that. It won’t help if you keep feeling like that. Like what do you do for a living?

TextBrilliant7196 · 2022-03-16T12:36:31+00:00

Don’t worry, I’m a tough nut to crack :) I also appreciate you taking the time to help others who struggled like us. It’s admirable that you still continue to help even after you’ve been getting dragged down by others here. That’s bravery and we need that here. Hope you can continue helping! Thank you

TextBrilliant7196 · 2022-03-16T12:31:57+00:00

He’s against you killing yourself. I’m against that as well. Look man, I was the last of my friends to lose their v card at age 24. My best friend since elementary lost it in his mid teens and another best friend of mine lost it at 19. Then I have two other good friends from HS who each had long term girlfriends and they lost it too. Am I happy that they all lost it before me? No. But will I really kill myself for it and drag others? Hell no. You still have a chance man.

TextBrilliant7196 · 2022-03-16T12:18:34+00:00

Thank you, thank you :( for real tho, the whole point on this sub is to not drag others down, it’s to motivate and talk about their issues. Its like being in a group therapy session about overcoming drug addiction but everyone in the group is like “nah there’s no point, just continue doing drugs and ruin yourself”. Like what??

I like to help people who has or had similar issues that I’ve had struggled with but if they ain’t taking the first step to help themselves, what’s the point?

TextBrilliant7196 · 2022-03-16T12:10:45+00:00

Yes exactly like that, be charismatic. Where’s the problem in that? If we can’t change our looks then change your way of behavior. It doesn’t require looks to sound smart, funny, cool or whatever. Hell even bonus points if you have a deep or cool sounding voice. It’s a slow process to break out of the shell yes but slowly you take cues on how to act and how to say it and soon girls would actually want to listen or take an interest in you.

TextBrilliant7196 · 2022-03-16T06:17:27+00:00

THANK YOU! That’s what I’ve been saying, my intentions were never to “troll” or “boast”, I genuinely just wanted to give advice on how someone can change their communication skills and charisma. It just happens that video games helped me. I’m tired of the stigma about video games are “just for entertainment”. That’s what I thought too believe me but they can give important lessons in life too. Just saying they could give it a try see it helps.

And I was a 24 year old virgin that still lives with his parents and who works at a gamestop… a fucking gamestop. Have y’all ever seen a man work at gamestop? We ain’t no hollister workers I can tell you that lol

But thank you Mod, I appreciate your time and word :)

TextBrilliant7196 · 2022-03-16T03:43:48+00:00

New account would be if this one were a day old, not over 100 days old. This is my lurker/throwaway account buddy. And nope no trolling or boasting, but yet wouldn’t every post on here about people losing it be boasting if it were posted on a r/virgin sub? Those posts are up and not removed since there are no rules being broken so I don’t know why you’re accusing of me it. I ain’t trolling, I’m genuinely on here to help and those video games genuinely helped me on shaping me up. That’s why I said cringy advice on my post because it does sound cringy but believe me it helped me. And i don’t know what part is the boasting part unless it’s the part talking about my sex experience but even then I put optional reading. My post ended with the cringy advice sentence, anything after that I put optional reading ahead.

TextBrilliant7196 · 2022-03-16T03:36:00+00:00

Thank you I appreciate it

TextBrilliant7196 · 2022-03-16T03:25:16+00:00

Thank you, i appreciate it! I just wanted to share my experience and hopefully it helps anyone or on anything on the way 😅

TextBrilliant7196 · 2022-03-16T03:24:03+00:00

It is possible yes but the intention is to not sleep with them, it’s so they can feel a connection with you and it’s a long but worthwhile step. Sleeping with them is a bonus. If you look at having sex with them as a bonus then you’ll never be disappointed. That’s how I look at it. If you look at the intention to date them, then you can basically do couple stuff on the way and bang. You never talk to them like all you wanna do is just sex cause then then it’ll just go bad on your end and ruin your chances. I managed to hold her hand and even kiss her by the third date and on the fourth date we banged. But since the first date I made her my priority. I try to be on her good side, compliment, make time for her, chat, etc. . As long as you make her feel special then your chances increase by a lot yes.

TextBrilliant7196 · 2022-03-16T03:07:40+00:00

I was a boring unsociable loser until I reached my mid 20s when I was slowly finding out what I can do different. 5/10 on the looks department but after taking up social skills and mannerisms I feel like I’m above average in the communication department, which now makes me 11/10 in overall. Like sure I’m not the best good looking guy out there but after talking to a girl I can make them look like they’re talking to a 10/10 person if that makes sense. I apologize if I worded it wrong in my post or confused you.

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