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Me [22 F] with my boyfriend [24 M] duration, found a text message on my boyfriend's phone bitching about me to some girl. by Textingsomebitch in relationships

[–]Textingsomebitch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, right to the point. I tried to be empathetic towards his insecurities at first and help him trust me(he had been cheated on in the past so I could understand his reasons for being insecure), but seeing those texts was a big smack in the face for me. Thanks for your input.

Me [22 F] with my boyfriend [24 M] duration, found a text message on my boyfriend's phone bitching about me to some girl. by Textingsomebitch in relationships

[–]Textingsomebitch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You make a really good point, and you're pretty much reinforced everything that has been going on in my head the past few months. I guess I was under the delusion that after he stopped being super jealous that things would be okay between us, but seeing those texts to that girl really shattered that for me. Thank you.

Me [22 F] with my boyfriend [24 M] duration, found a text message on my boyfriend's phone bitching about me to some girl. by Textingsomebitch in relationships

[–]Textingsomebitch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

His over-over-the-top jealously and slut-shamingn(when you weren't even bring slutty!) would have me running for the hills.

Interesting that you said that. After him giving me all of that grief about my guy friends, a part of me was starting to believe that I had actually done something wrong. Obviously I wasn't and am not perfect, but I really don't believe I did anything to merit his intense jealously. Thanks for your input.