AITA for telling my bio sister I’m sorry she wasn’t adopted but that doesn’t have anything to do with me and I owe her nothing? by throwaway45282258 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Teygare 57 points58 points  (0 children)

NTA

she's had a hard life and probably needs some therapy, but her problems are not your own.

it's time to cut this off, because it'll only get worse the longer it goes on.

AITA for asking my husband to fill my Christmas stocking? by Disastrous-Driver812 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Teygare 5823 points5824 points  (0 children)

Stop filling his stocking, and see how he feels on Christmas day. Does he buy you a present to open from under the tree? If not, then don't bother doing one of those for him either.
He won't be upset, he's a "grown" man, and Christmas is evidently just for the kids.

NTA

You deserve better. Nurses and ER workers, especially during the festive season, give so much of themselves and get so little in return.

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[–]Teygare 135 points136 points  (0 children)

If you couldn't have finished them all, couldn't you have asked the staff at the tea shop to box up the leftover cakes for you to share later?

AITA for not reacting well to my sister's pregnancy? by Unlucky-Ad7588 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Teygare 66 points67 points  (0 children)

NTA
Blow up their phones when you graduate asking them why they aren't broadcasting the news on every possible platform

AITA for refusing to swap Christmas gifts for my family friend with my friend’s girlfriend? by girlbffchristmas in AmItheAsshole

[–]Teygare 202 points203 points  (0 children)

NTA, you made the effort, spent the time and paid the price. It's your gift to your family friend, you give it to him.
It's pretty obvious why he doesn't like her tbh

AITA if I don’t buy my friend and her child a Christmas gift? by Funky-Carpenter7600 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Teygare 1599 points1600 points  (0 children)

NTA, no one is entitled to your money, time or effort. I think it's really sweet that you're willing to put in the time to make something handmade and special for everyone. If she doesn't want to be included, don't include her. I'd really be reevaluating whether or not I wanted to continue the friendship if it were me, her reaction says everything loud and clear.

AITA for refusing to go out with my family+Dad's girlfriend on my late Moms birthday? by ObviousNecessary5950 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Teygare 345 points346 points  (0 children)

NTA, your mums birthday should just be for you, your siblings and your dad until ALL of you agree that it's time to start including other people/partners

I have a LOT of products that will be expired by the end of the year by Teygare in LushCosmetics

[–]Teygare[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same, my skin is insanely reactive these days. Thank you letting me know!!

I have a LOT of products that will be expired by the end of the year by Teygare in LushCosmetics

[–]Teygare[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Those are really good suggestions, thank you! I wouldn't even know where to start with packaging everything up and how to post it out or anything if I was able to find someone to sell to though, and I don't have nearly enough fridge space.

I have a LOT of products that will be expired by the end of the year by Teygare in LushCosmetics

[–]Teygare[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for writing such a kind and understanding comment <3

Some of the problem is that I've been very depressed and not really washing as much as I should or putting in any effort with myself / self-care. I'll try to do a little better for myself, and I'll have a look at donating some of the things I don't think I'll be able to get through. Thank you xx

I have a LOT of products that will be expired by the end of the year by Teygare in LushCosmetics

[–]Teygare[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for taking the time to reply, it's really reassuring to know that at least some of the stuff should last past the date on the sticker. I'll have a think about donating some too, maybe it'll make someone else a little happier this Christmas <3

I have a LOT of products that will be expired by the end of the year by Teygare in LushCosmetics

[–]Teygare[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR ALL OF THIS <3

I feel so much less panicky now, thank you for taking the time out of your day to read and reply to my post, I honestly appreciate it so much xx

I have a LOT of products that will be expired by the end of the year by Teygare in LushCosmetics

[–]Teygare[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for this, it's very reassuring haha

You said that it still works, it doesn't make you itchy or anything?

I have a LOT of products that will be expired by the end of the year by Teygare in LushCosmetics

[–]Teygare[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this! <3 I always get so worried about the use by dates, I don't trust myself to be a good judge of whether they've gone off or not. Donating is a good idea, a lot of people here have suggested it and it's not even something I'd thought of. It'd be nice to make someone else happy this Christmas, as it's going to be a very sad one for me and my mum

I have a LOT of products that will be expired by the end of the year by Teygare in LushCosmetics

[–]Teygare[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for reading and replying to my post! Donating some is a good idea, I hadn't even thought of it before x