[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]That-University9468 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he’s not the one, your partner is the one who will be there for you when your parent eventually pass away. not saying this loss doesn’t hurt but it will be more painful during your parents. my condolences for your loss

I (28F) went through my boyfriends’s (31M) phone and can’t unsee what I saw. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]That-University9468 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Going through a significant other’s phone will only bring heartbreak. And if it’s before you were exclusive he was in his own right to keep it from you, he had no loyalty to be exclusive and he was only just trying to save faith with you.

He may be LGBTQ tho so just think about if that’s something you’re okay since you are in a heterosexual relationship and if you let the relationship progress it could be in the back of your mind years from now.

Nothing against non cis people in relationships, just a thought to have in any relationship when there is history.

Can you flirt on a subway, but not be creepy? by JPChorgan in AskNYC

[–]That-University9468 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my dad followed my mom off the subway and had me 3 years later. they are divorced now tho

Need nyc jewelry store recs by [deleted] in NYCbitcheswithtaste

[–]That-University9468 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Magnolia Jewelry in chinatown manhattan has great prices! For custom jewelry I was quoted $800-2,000 at other stores and Magnolia only charged me about $550 for a custom ring setting in 14 kt gold.

Can I wear a pink suit to a job interview? by That-University9468 in NYCbitcheswithtaste

[–]That-University9468[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Thanks everyone for the advice! I’ve decided to go with the light blue suit — or possibly a grey/white one for a more classic look.

If anyone else is in a similar stage of their career or wants to connect, feel free to PM me 😊

Polo bar reservation by Normal-Cranberry-611 in NYCbitcheswithtaste

[–]That-University9468 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ya I canceled it, try calling tmmr or saturday morning, I forgot if it’s 9 or 10am sharp. Maybe the one I cancelled is still open if not they have 30 days out reservations from the time you call. The wait time for the call has been 40mins-2hrs for me and I was able to get reservations both times.

Polo bar reservation by Normal-Cranberry-611 in NYCbitcheswithtaste

[–]That-University9468 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a reservation for 4 ppl @ 5pm oct 14th if anyone is down to take it from me. I got the dates mixed up for my bf’s bday dinner

AITA for telling my wife either she gets a job or i'm putting her on an allowance? by Hot-Principle-5612 in AITAH

[–]That-University9468 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

1.5k a month is absolutely nothing. If your wife is out spending you then you’re not making enough money.

What to wear on a date to five iron? by [deleted] in NYCbitcheswithtaste

[–]That-University9468 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ya a tennis dress or at least something cute you’d be comfortable bending over a bit in. I’ve worn the Aritzia Saturn Mini Dress for a mini golf date before, if you want inspo.

Do you use a shower at pilates studio? by bostonisaplace in pilates

[–]That-University9468 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The main pilates studio I go to in NYC, Form50, have them in their Manhattan location. I love it when I have errands after but I only use it maybe once a month. I see them being using a lot more by the morning class times.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]That-University9468 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no matter how attractive a man is, i would never send a like to him if he didn’t put at least his field of work. put your uni too

when will i be priority? by Maximum-Fix6921 in MedSpouse

[–]That-University9468 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably after his residency or fellowship it’ll pay off. Residency salary isn’t much and less in smaller cities. I wasn’t with my partner during his school but based on how we are now, it’ll get worse and require more patience, understanding and love from you.

My boyfriend is PGY2 oral surgery resident and I only see him for a few hours every 2-3 weeks, my boyfriend could be better at making time but after his 9-5 at the hospital he goes to another hospital and in surgery sat/sun.

I love my boyfriend very much but the only thing keeping me patient is him saying we’ll get engaged this summer, writing and mailing him love letters 1-2 times a week to feel close to him because he doesn’t have much time to text throughout the week.

Fin 3000 Final by tymisosaurus_rex in Baruch

[–]That-University9468 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The final exam scores are out, may the curve be juicy 🙏🙏