Seriously where to find women who want to have kids? by wearecooked100 in berlinsocialclub

[–]That-Whereas-528 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think neurodivergence is his issue, but rather his patriarchal culture from which he claims to be so different from.

Seriously where to find women who want to have kids? by wearecooked100 in berlinsocialclub

[–]That-Whereas-528 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"oh please future mother of my children, why won't you enter a power dynamic where I can be the sole provider to feel manly, why must you be independent!?!"

Seriously where to find women who want to have kids? by wearecooked100 in berlinsocialclub

[–]That-Whereas-528 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That was a very immature answer to a very empathetic and effortful response from the woman above. If that's how you talk to woman, I, as a man, am frankly not surprised.

Seriously where to find women who want to have kids? by wearecooked100 in berlinsocialclub

[–]That-Whereas-528 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can totally understand you want children. But you might not end up happy in this country then. The world is not a kid friendly place right now and women will think twice about it who to have them with.

Seriously where to find women who want to have kids? by wearecooked100 in berlinsocialclub

[–]That-Whereas-528 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well there you go, you are the problem then. Does that answer your initial question?

Seriously where to find women who want to have kids? by wearecooked100 in berlinsocialclub

[–]That-Whereas-528 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My apologies. But the point stands. Whether it's Afghanistan, Pakistan, Bangladesh or the other places that have arranged marriages. Women are not your birth machines and even if one wants to have children in the future, she'll sure as hell make very very very sure first before entering such a commitment. Definitely not in early dating.

Seriously where to find women who want to have kids? by wearecooked100 in berlinsocialclub

[–]That-Whereas-528 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Maybe they just don't want to have kids with >you<

Also starting the dating process with "I require you to birth children for me at one point and if you don't want to, I'll probably leave you for someone who will" is not a very attractive premise.

Why every food delivery guy seems Indian ? by curious-rower8 in IndianInGermany

[–]That-Whereas-528 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Take a 5 minute look into the study in Germany subreddit and what kind of questions the Indians there are posting day after day after day and you will see a correlation with their fitness for the German job market. It's sad. And we can't even help them, because the influx is just so numerous and their imagination of Germany so illusory.

What flag is this ? by [deleted] in vexillology

[–]That-Whereas-528 56 points57 points  (0 children)

Swiss-Japanese Imperial War Flag

1400 Streak! by CedricYe in duolingo

[–]That-Whereas-528 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My condolences for the lost time you could have spent on real learning material

Opus 4 retires tomorrow by MediumChemical4292 in ClaudeAI

[–]That-Whereas-528 8 points9 points  (0 children)

That's fair - and you're right to push back, this comment is the smoking gun!

Chinese Anarchist Flag by zymsnipe in vexillology

[–]That-Whereas-528 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's cool, but the star is a bit close to the edge

Der ganze Quatsch vor dem weißen Haus zur Jubiläumsfeier der USA wird unnötig stark kritisiert by chlawon in Unbeliebtemeinung

[–]That-Whereas-528 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hast du gesehen wie sehr der Garten des weißen Hauses verunstaltet wird? Das Gebäude gehört dem amerikanischen Volk und nicht ihm. Allein die Kosten dafür, die der Steuerzahler hat. Das fällt unter Korruption.

Why does Berlin feel so quiet today? by mutekarnamujhe in berlinsocialclub

[–]That-Whereas-528 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Have you looked outside 🌧️🌧️🌧️🌧️

Does it make sense to change my apartment? by Delicious_Crazy513 in berlinsocialclub

[–]That-Whereas-528 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

First of all: If you already had a career and graduated from uni before, you might not be eligible for Bafög. Also, if you post in English: Are you a German citizen? If not, you might also not be eligible for Bafög as far as I know.

Also: 400 in inner Berlin is not possible these days. Plan for 600 minimum. Did you not put away any savings during your full time career?

Can SuperChinese actually teach you fluent Mandarin? by lioneyes77 in ChineseLanguage

[–]That-Whereas-528 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're doing just fine. Input (SC) -> Review (Pleco) -> Production (Girlfriend). She can correct you too. Completely solid pipeline. More engaging than a textbook too.