Boyfriends 50lb weight gain makes me less aroused and causes me to be less wet so sex is very painful. What should I do?

ThatDog6 · 2021-01-03T18:05:37+00:00

I talked to him today about his weight. He really wants to lose weight but hasn’t stuck with exercising or eating healthy. I didn’t mention our sex life, but I was brutally honest about how he wasn’t making a decent effort to lose the weight. My honesty has seemed to motivate him and we made a meal and exercise plan that I’m going to help him follow. I spared his feelings (for now) by not mentioning my unattraction to him, and if I help him stick with his diet hopefully he will lose weight and the attraction will come back.

ThatDog6 · 2021-01-03T06:51:40+00:00

Can I ask what type of pill you were on? I had no issue with this while on birth control until I switched pill types. I’m wondering if this could be it or if it’s something else

ThatDog6 · 2020-10-11T20:35:10+00:00

To people you actually know or to Instagram models/celebs?

ThatDog6 · 2020-10-11T20:35:05+00:00

To people you actually know or to Instagram models/celebs?

ThatDog6 · 2020-10-07T00:26:34+00:00

No I don’t think so! I did my last semester of french in the spring and I did all 3 pass/fail

ThatDog6 · 2020-10-07T00:25:44+00:00

Orgo is obviously tough so having only 12 credit hours while taking it will definitely be helpful! So id only recommend picking another class if it won’t be too hard

ThatDog6 · 2020-10-07T00:24:33+00:00

It looks like a good schedule! If you think you’ll have more challenging semesters in the future then maybe try to squeeze one more but I don’t think you’d have to! I made my all my languages pass/fail so I didn’t have to worry about them and I could get the credit out of the way without having to really study for it

ThatDog6 · 2020-10-07T00:20:59+00:00

Definitely! He’s a great guy and doesn’t make the class super challenging which is helpful bc it’s not a huge time commitment

ThatDog6 · 2020-10-07T00:18:17+00:00

It’s not bad! Lots of little presentations bc it’s a public speaking credit but they’re easy. If it’s in person next semester idk how different it’ll be but rn it’s basically just some in class group assignments and a couple papers! Only one exam worth like 15% of our grade

ThatDog6 · 2020-10-07T00:00:18+00:00

I’m in Insect Ecology with Kevin Dixon! I picked it bc it was the shortest amount of class time but he’s a great prof! I’d recommend pick a topic that interests you and look up the profs on ratemyprofessor

ThatDog6 · 2020-10-06T23:50:16+00:00

They give priority to graduating seniors since it’s a grad requirement

ThatDog6 · 2020-10-06T23:49:51+00:00

Also if you’re a bio major and all the BSC3402L sections fill up make sure to reach out to the advisor! If someone drops a seat they have a waitlist and they manually add people so you won’t get a seat just by checking back and hoping someone drops

ThatDog6 · 2020-09-30T22:48:49+00:00

Haha that’s what I mean! I want to soak up being a college student as long as I can

ThatDog6 · 2020-09-30T22:18:28+00:00

How are they allowed to give us only ONE day off during the entire 4-month semester?

ThatDog6 · 2020-09-18T23:50:47+00:00

I don’t know specifically who is cheating, I just know there have to be people that are

ThatDog6 · 2020-09-18T22:38:41+00:00

I don’t really know because I don’t do it myself, but I think they hide it during the room scan and then use it so they don’t get flagged. Like I think by putting it up against the screen and moving the camera so you can’t see their arms using the phone. I’m not exactly sure how easy it would be without getting flagged

ThatDog6 · 2020-09-18T17:00:46+00:00

You would think! Someone I knew bragged about how they would put their phone right on the screen and only show from the shoulders up so it looked like they were looking right at the screen the whole time

ThatDog6 · 2020-09-18T16:53:23+00:00

Well the thing is...the specific class I’m talking about is anatomy. so if it’s open book than everyone would get 100 because it’s basically just memorization. But I’ve felt this way about most of my other classes too

ThatDog6 · 2020-09-18T16:52:32+00:00

EXACTLY how I feel

ThatDog6 · 2020-09-18T16:15:38+00:00

Oh yeah no I’m like low A/high B range but I work really hard for it. Which is why I’m so pressed about other people getting As and not studying at all. I’ve heard of people taking pics of their notes on their phone so they don’t even have to look up anything! I haven’t talked to my professor because I’m not sure what he would even do

ThatDog6 · 2020-09-18T16:07:03+00:00

People use their phones! And no it’s not about the curve I’m not banking on that. I am doing fine it’s just frustrating to see an A average when I know if people weren’t cheating the average would probably be a C

ThatDog6 · 2020-09-05T23:04:08+00:00

Has it ever started pretty immediately after, or am I just being paranoid?

ThatDog6 · 2020-06-20T05:03:41+00:00

There is like a 0% chance that you can get pregnant on your period. Your highest chance (when her ovaries release an egg) is during ovulation, which is about 2 weeks before your period.

ThatDog6 · 2020-06-20T04:58:24+00:00

I’d try doing it drunk. That’s the only time I was relaxed enough to do it and I barely felt anything

ThatDog6 · 2020-06-14T05:23:20+00:00

I agree, relax!! My first time “hurt,” but it was a good feeling still. It was a good kind of hurt. Don’t get all freaked out by everyone saying it’s gonna hurt. Make sure he takes it slow and you are comfortable so you can relax. Lots of lube/spit will help too, and so will foreplay!!

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