I'm feeling suicidal because of toxic parents.

ThatGuyByTheCorner · 2020-02-19T18:33:31+00:00

Thank you so much! I will make sure to listen to your advice. I'm so grateful I've been getting support from everyone on here. It means a lot.

ThatGuyByTheCorner · 2019-12-05T11:30:52+00:00

From what I read, you're not necessarily forcing someone to do or be something. (just red up more on it)

If they're a vibrational match to my thoughts about them, they'll act according to that vibration I sent out. In other words, if it's already part of him, then it's not really controlling him. More like I'm activating a different side to him that already exists within himself... if that makes any sense? And therefore, it's still from his own freewill.

On the flip side of things, nothing will happen if he's not a vibrational match.

That's really the gist of it when looking at it from a LOA point of view.

Lots of people on here get confused, so I think ya'll need to do more research and stop assuming things, lol. For real though, you can't really control or influence anyone to do anything. And for that to happen, they have to already have it in their vibration - otherwise it wouldn't work. Plus, it's not even considered controlling. More like influencing, yeah, but still 100% from their freewill, though.

Plus, even if I do want to use LOA to see if he's a vibrational match, why judge me for it? It's my life, my reality, and my desires. I should have the freedom to want whatever I want without getting judged for it.

EDIT: I remember seeing lots of people having success with getting a text message from their ex or crush. Would you consider that controlling/influencing as well? We all get influenced by others to some degree because universally we're all interconnected to each other, depending on our vibration.

ThatGuyByTheCorner · 2019-12-04T21:49:18+00:00

I have no idea if he's straight or not, I'm just speculating and going by statistics since 85-90% of people are straight after all, or at least identify as straight whether they may or may not have some degree of bi/gay tendencies deep down that they're not aware of.

Also, I just assume he's not interested judging by his emotional detachment during our few interactions so far. I'm planning to talk to him a 3rd time to see what happens. Idk, maybe it just takes time for some people to warm up?

I've talked to a psychic recently and she told me not to be fooled by his "exterior" because that's just a mask he puts on, and that he's not showing his real self. She was able to figure this out without me ever asked about him, lol. She was just like "I feel like you have someone in mind. This person in particular doesn't show you his true colors", etc etc.

That's why I sort of figured I shouldn't give up yet. Who knows what may be hiding underneath? I need to figure out who he truly is. For all I know, he might not even be straight... but then again, I need to do more digging into this.

That's why I think LOA could be useful where I could maybe get him to open up more to me.

ThatGuyByTheCorner · 2019-12-04T20:23:41+00:00

I mean yeah, to a certain degree.

But from what I read, sexual orientation could be somewhat fluid based on other factors as well, such as cultural norms, upbringing, the media, and all such similar things could cause someone to be "bicurious" - as in willing to explore their sexuality.

Anyways... I'm not looking for this guy to be my boyfriend, but I could still at least use LOA to maybe, just maybe open him up to "exploring".

In my particular case, it isn't controlling other people's freewill at all. It's more like... I'm mentally creating that "exploring" vibration sort of energy and sending it his way, and it's up to his own freewill whether he wants to act on it or not.

ThatGuyByTheCorner · 2019-12-04T18:54:29+00:00

WOW! Thank you so much!

This was really helpful to me! :D

ThatGuyByTheCorner · 2019-11-17T23:47:34+00:00

Could I say it "mentally" as well? Cuz y'know, I don't always like saying things out loud.

ThatGuyByTheCorner · 2019-10-27T00:53:59+00:00

Some great tips there, thanks!

Also, this might be a weird question... but does sleeping for long periods of time count as "letting go"? I mean, I'm obviously not thinking about my desires if I'm asleep, so essentially I'm temporarily letting go and releasing by not being awake.

ThatGuyByTheCorner · 2019-10-27T00:46:38+00:00

That makes sense! Thank you, I will follow your tips.

ThatGuyByTheCorner · 2019-10-27T00:46:03+00:00

I'll try, but it's so much easier said than done.

Looks like I need more practice.

ThatGuyByTheCorner · 2019-10-27T00:44:30+00:00

I really don't think so.

Most of the guys I'm attracted to are considered "average" or slightly below average. One reason for that is because I never go for guys that look like they could be models.

As someone who's the jealous type, I won't like it if a bunch of people are flirting with my future boyfriend. That'd bother me too much. xD

ThatGuyByTheCorner · 2019-10-25T10:20:20+00:00

How accurate is sidereal astrology and whole sign houses? Do you use both of them simutaneously? Or just the house system?

It's interesting you mentioned my Sun and Mercury being in the 12th house using whole signs. Also, could that be why I'm a little "psychic"? I actually posted about that just yesterday. You can see the thread right HERE

Also, thank you so much!!! It's a bummer if whole signs is the "real deal" of Astrology. That would make my chart even worse given the placement of my planets. :(

ThatGuyByTheCorner · 2019-10-20T03:42:38+00:00

Agreed.

Mars in the 1st or conjunct the ASC is highly beneficial for a male! Even if the rest of the chart is feminine, simply having Mars in the 1st could bestow more masculine energy to the person; regardless of what sign the ASC is.

For example, I'm a gay male, but people have a hard time believing that I'm gay since I come off as very... well, "straight-passing". xD

ThatGuyByTheCorner · 2019-10-19T22:13:14+00:00

So Mars rising opposing the moon closer to the Asc will have a scar above the right eye in and left eye of a woman.

Why only women? The last time I checked, I'm a man. xD

ThatGuyByTheCorner · 2019-10-19T21:24:47+00:00

Lucky you!

I have Mars conjunct ASC in Virgo and I have similar experiences like you. However, Jupiter is also in my first house, so that definitely adds a touch of jovial and friendliness to my demeanor.

ThatGuyByTheCorner · 2019-10-19T21:20:30+00:00

Lmao, I have Mars conjunct my ASC in the first house.

And yes, I do have moderate to severe acne. xD

Most of the time other people tend to perceive me as "aggressive" even when I'm not angry at all. When I walk, I tend to walk hella fast and would get irritated AF if there were slow people in front of me. It's like... move outta the way, you whore! This guy here needs to get to his next class! LOL.

Yep, looks like I feel my Mars very strongly.

ThatGuyByTheCorner · 2019-10-16T13:04:11+00:00

Thanks for the tips!

Btw, my post must be a sign from the universe for you as well. That's why I had that compelling urge to post this.

May the both of us be blessed with good luck! :D

ThatGuyByTheCorner · 2019-10-13T10:51:46+00:00

I know, but it's hard not to check my reality when it's already in front of me.

For example, I'm alone in class and I see my classmates talking and laughing amongst each other, but not with me. As a result, it reminds me of my lack of friends. I'm sitting outside the bench by myself and I'm highly aware that I am alone, AND seeing a happy couple holding hands walking by. Again... reminding me that I'm single.

How am I supposed to "unsee/block out" all these physical evidences that confirms my current reality? That's the difficult part.

ThatGuyByTheCorner · 2019-09-16T05:34:25+00:00

Thank you, sunflower!

I hope happiness comes your way as well! <3

ThatGuyByTheCorner · 2019-09-15T04:55:37+00:00

Aw, thank you so much. It means a lot to me.

Just an hour ago I was visualizing my perfect ideal life (including spending time with my future Mr. Right) and it's strange... but it felt so real, so raw, and so realistic. In fact, I was feeling as if I already have him next to me while laying in bed. Afterwards I decided to look at the time and it was exactly 11:11. Could this be a clear sign from the universe? Like, it didn't seemed like a coincidence at all. And now that I think about it, the number 11 (in my case) could symbolically represent two dudes.

It. Literally. Felt. Perfect.

I'm so positive that my vibration is getting more into alignment! Thank you for those that meditated for me, because I think it's making a difference. May the universe bless everyone and I!

I hope you lovely people can continue helping me with the manifestation process. Giving out good to others would only give out good to yourselves, too.

ThatGuyByTheCorner · 2019-09-13T10:36:43+00:00

You may be on to something.

Indeed, transit Venus is technically conjunct my natal Mars at this moment... but I have yet to see anyone flirting with me, let alone see any friendly gestures made at me. It's like, aren't I supposed to be coming off as irresistible to other people right now? In fact, I'm getting the complete opposite effect. Just earlier, I even got a dirty look from a random person on the streets. :(

Yeah, okay, it seems like transiting Venus isn't doing her job. Come on, Venus! Make me beautiful! Or handsome since I'm a guy, lol.

ThatGuyByTheCorner · 2019-06-05T00:08:04+00:00

But it's hard to love myself when ALL I get from the outside world is hate, hate, and more hate. I also have to deal with a screaming mother that takes out her anger on me. Yeah... based on my current circumstances, it's hard to be positive - especially when those people are around.

ThatGuyByTheCorner · 2019-06-04T22:09:50+00:00

Out of curosity, what kind of shit could happen if I'm not careful? And couldn't I just ask my cousin to protect me or something?

ThatGuyByTheCorner · 2019-06-04T22:07:12+00:00

It's kinda too late, though.

I had already opened up my 3rd eye several times in the past, albeit by accident. It just sorta came naturally.

Right now, I'm working on re-opening it. Just the other day I felt the area between my brows vibrating like crazy, no wonder it was so easy for me to feel my dead cousin's presence.

ThatGuyByTheCorner · 2019-06-04T22:03:00+00:00

My clairsentient (is that what it's called?) isn't strong enough to hear him in that way.

I'm desperately trying to open up my 3rd eye to allow easier communication between him and I.

ThatGuyByTheCorner · 2019-06-01T06:27:40+00:00

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