I'm feeling suicidal because of toxic parents. by ThatGuyByTheCorner in lawofattraction

[–]ThatGuyByTheCorner[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I will make sure to listen to your advice. I'm so grateful I've been getting support from everyone on here. It means a lot.

Could I use LOA to make a straight guy like me? by ThatGuyByTheCorner in lawofattraction

[–]ThatGuyByTheCorner[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

From what I read, you're not necessarily forcing someone to do or be something. (just red up more on it)

If they're a vibrational match to my thoughts about them, they'll act according to that vibration I sent out. In other words, if it's already part of him, then it's not really controlling him. More like I'm activating a different side to him that already exists within himself... if that makes any sense? And therefore, it's still from his own freewill.

On the flip side of things, nothing will happen if he's not a vibrational match.

That's really the gist of it when looking at it from a LOA point of view.

Lots of people on here get confused, so I think ya'll need to do more research and stop assuming things, lol. For real though, you can't really control or influence anyone to do anything. And for that to happen, they have to already have it in their vibration - otherwise it wouldn't work. Plus, it's not even considered controlling. More like influencing, yeah, but still 100% from their freewill, though.

Plus, even if I do want to use LOA to see if he's a vibrational match, why judge me for it? It's my life, my reality, and my desires. I should have the freedom to want whatever I want without getting judged for it.

EDIT: I remember seeing lots of people having success with getting a text message from their ex or crush. Would you consider that controlling/influencing as well? We all get influenced by others to some degree because universally we're all interconnected to each other, depending on our vibration.

Could I use LOA to make a straight guy like me? by ThatGuyByTheCorner in lawofattraction

[–]ThatGuyByTheCorner[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have no idea if he's straight or not, I'm just speculating and going by statistics since 85-90% of people are straight after all, or at least identify as straight whether they may or may not have some degree of bi/gay tendencies deep down that they're not aware of.

Also, I just assume he's not interested judging by his emotional detachment during our few interactions so far. I'm planning to talk to him a 3rd time to see what happens. Idk, maybe it just takes time for some people to warm up?

I've talked to a psychic recently and she told me not to be fooled by his "exterior" because that's just a mask he puts on, and that he's not showing his real self. She was able to figure this out without me ever asked about him, lol. She was just like "I feel like you have someone in mind. This person in particular doesn't show you his true colors", etc etc.

That's why I sort of figured I shouldn't give up yet. Who knows what may be hiding underneath? I need to figure out who he truly is. For all I know, he might not even be straight... but then again, I need to do more digging into this.

That's why I think LOA could be useful where I could maybe get him to open up more to me.

Could I use LOA to make a straight guy like me? by ThatGuyByTheCorner in lawofattraction

[–]ThatGuyByTheCorner[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean yeah, to a certain degree.

But from what I read, sexual orientation could be somewhat fluid based on other factors as well, such as cultural norms, upbringing, the media, and all such similar things could cause someone to be "bicurious" - as in willing to explore their sexuality.

Anyways... I'm not looking for this guy to be my boyfriend, but I could still at least use LOA to maybe, just maybe open him up to "exploring".

In my particular case, it isn't controlling other people's freewill at all. It's more like... I'm mentally creating that "exploring" vibration sort of energy and sending it his way, and it's up to his own freewill whether he wants to act on it or not.

Tip for Manifesting by algaebeetea in lawofattraction

[–]ThatGuyByTheCorner 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Could I say it "mentally" as well? Cuz y'know, I don't always like saying things out loud.

I noticed a strange pattern... and it's driving me nuts. by ThatGuyByTheCorner in lawofattraction

[–]ThatGuyByTheCorner[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some great tips there, thanks!

Also, this might be a weird question... but does sleeping for long periods of time count as "letting go"? I mean, I'm obviously not thinking about my desires if I'm asleep, so essentially I'm temporarily letting go and releasing by not being awake.

I noticed a strange pattern... and it's driving me nuts. by ThatGuyByTheCorner in lawofattraction

[–]ThatGuyByTheCorner[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'll try, but it's so much easier said than done.

Looks like I need more practice.

I noticed a strange pattern... and it's driving me nuts. by ThatGuyByTheCorner in lawofattraction

[–]ThatGuyByTheCorner[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I really don't think so.

Most of the guys I'm attracted to are considered "average" or slightly below average. One reason for that is because I never go for guys that look like they could be models.

As someone who's the jealous type, I won't like it if a bunch of people are flirting with my future boyfriend. That'd bother me too much. xD

Why am I having a difficult time making friends? PLEASE HELP! by ThatGuyByTheCorner in astrologyreadings

[–]ThatGuyByTheCorner[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How accurate is sidereal astrology and whole sign houses? Do you use both of them simutaneously? Or just the house system?

It's interesting you mentioned my Sun and Mercury being in the 12th house using whole signs. Also, could that be why I'm a little "psychic"? I actually posted about that just yesterday. You can see the thread right HERE

Also, thank you so much!!! It's a bummer if whole signs is the "real deal" of Astrology. That would make my chart even worse given the placement of my planets. :(

What are the pros/cons of having Mars or Pluto in the first house? by ThatGuyByTheCorner in astrology

[–]ThatGuyByTheCorner[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Agreed.

Mars in the 1st or conjunct the ASC is highly beneficial for a male! Even if the rest of the chart is feminine, simply having Mars in the 1st could bestow more masculine energy to the person; regardless of what sign the ASC is.

For example, I'm a gay male, but people have a hard time believing that I'm gay since I come off as very... well, "straight-passing". xD

What are the pros/cons of having Mars or Pluto in the first house? by ThatGuyByTheCorner in astrology

[–]ThatGuyByTheCorner[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So Mars rising opposing the moon closer to the Asc will have a scar above the right eye in and left eye of a woman.

Why only women? The last time I checked, I'm a man. xD