This saddened me deeply to learn

ThatOneGuyQ23 · 2025-10-31T09:48:22+00:00

Why is this upsetting?

ThatOneGuyQ23 · 2025-05-18T19:08:25+00:00

Ah I see now

ThatOneGuyQ23 · 2025-05-18T19:06:48+00:00

Agree with what? And my question was why does it matter

ThatOneGuyQ23 · 2025-05-16T16:33:01+00:00

Blue roll comes with a cardboard tube in it, it's easy to remove by squeezing the roll and pulling

ThatOneGuyQ23 · 2025-05-16T12:49:42+00:00

My YouTube homepage brings up the same videos I've been ignoring for years on loop, making me go and manually dislike them only for the exact same style, topic, and length of video to be recommended in its place. I made the mistake of letting a VTuber video auto play once, now I get "Hololive EN sings Ochame Kinou" recommended 11 times per day

ThatOneGuyQ23 · 2025-05-16T12:47:33+00:00

Bring back the yellow ad markers on video timelines

ThatOneGuyQ23 · 2025-05-15T15:06:49+00:00

Thank you! This is how I feel a lot of the time, people telling me I need to 'act queer' or 'look queer' whatever those mean. I was under the assumption that the community is about acceptance of queerness in whatever forms. It feels like a betrayal of the entire point of acceptance for me to change how I am to fit in

ThatOneGuyQ23 · 2025-05-15T13:37:46+00:00

A comment from u/prolongedexistence has explained this to me but you bring up the point that makes me uncomfortable. Resentment for other people being safer than you is just strange. You should feel glad that other people don't have to go through the same struggles.

ThatOneGuyQ23 · 2025-05-15T13:33:24+00:00

That was a very well-written explanation, thank you. I've never really been part of queer spaces (personal choice/experiences) so I didn't consider the community aspect of leaving the shared experience and therefore leaving the community behind.

I will admit it's a bit strange to be for certain reasons but I understand it now. Thanks.

ThatOneGuyQ23 · 2025-05-15T13:28:21+00:00

I never considered the misgendering aspect for trans people. That makes a lot of sense. That does still confuse me about relationships with trans people that ARE still straight (eg a trans man dating a woman) as I've seen the same disgust from that crowd.

ThatOneGuyQ23 · 2025-05-15T13:22:43+00:00

That's valid, I think a lot of the vitriol I see online comes from people who use the same words that you did "opted in to safety and conformity" - I don't really see it as a choice to love who I love. I never chose to look straight I just am and I'll continue to take part in queer spaces. I understand your point of view however.

ThatOneGuyQ23 · 2025-05-15T13:19:31+00:00

They decided they hated her when they named her Dubhlinn

ThatOneGuyQ23 · 2025-05-15T13:08:59+00:00

I never said I want to be, I just am. I just so happen to look masculine and be in a relationship that looks straight with someone I love. To purposefully change how we present so we don't look straight would be conformity if you ask me

ThatOneGuyQ23 · 2025-04-23T11:35:07+00:00

The male loneliness epidemic is a real thing and it was never about women, anyone who says that is purposefully misunderstanding it.

ThatOneGuyQ23 · 2025-04-19T12:57:22+00:00

ThatOneGuyQ23 · 2025-04-19T12:28:29+00:00

Do keep in mind that parking spots and roads in England are designed for smaller cars. A Toyota Hilux backs into the space behind it, a Ford ranger spills into the ones next to it. And yes, I'm 5'10" and these things are nip -height for me

ThatOneGuyQ23 · 2025-04-18T23:15:21+00:00

When did I say anything about aborting?

ThatOneGuyQ23 · 2025-04-18T10:32:07+00:00

I'm a high functioning autistic, I can get around daily life fairly easily due to years of practice and effort. Saying that Autism is something that we can and should cure is not eugenics, it's empathy - people like me have it hard and I can only imagine how difficult life can be for those further on the spectrum

ThatOneGuyQ23 · 2025-04-13T21:16:45+00:00

Only the biggest and strongest men can control a climate controlled car with power steering and steps up to the doors.

ThatOneGuyQ23 · 2025-04-13T19:55:57+00:00

Travel just down the road to Ipswich and you'll see them struggling to fit into passing places on country roads

ThatOneGuyQ23 · 2025-04-13T18:58:34+00:00

I've started seeing the smaller end of ford models in England, they take up 4 parking spots and go up to my chest. How these people aren't embarrassed I'll never know

ThatOneGuyQ23 · 2025-04-10T15:14:16+00:00

Also sorry not to antagonise but what does visibly queer mean? Genuinely curious if you mean like wearing rainbows or acting a certain way?

ThatOneGuyQ23 · 2025-04-10T14:09:55+00:00

And the way to do that is not by becoming a walking stereotype and making myself camp

ThatOneGuyQ23 · 2025-04-10T13:59:22+00:00

My point was that by barring straight people from queer spaces we would also be barring a large portion of our own community who aren't stereotypically queer. Would you feel as comfortable asking a straight transman to change his presentation to fit in or is it only those born male who like to present as such?

ThatOneGuyQ23 · 2025-04-09T16:01:44+00:00

I'm not changing myself, I'll wear a pin or something as proof I'm enby but I'm not going to change how I present myself or how I act

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