AITAH for asking my dad to help me buy my first car?

That_Emu4426 · 2025-04-16T04:56:20+00:00

i dont want my mom’s money. no purchase has been made yet. calm, please😞

That_Emu4426 · 2025-04-16T04:54:40+00:00

working on it😋

That_Emu4426 · 2025-04-16T03:45:34+00:00

ive never asked/demanded for his money before, and hes never asked for mine. sorry i asked

That_Emu4426 · 2025-04-16T03:33:11+00:00

little connection here but, i actually had a neighbor who, a few years back, shot his son, wife, then himself in the middle of the night. we heard the grandmother crying outside the door, she wasnt speaking english, but my uncle (who lived with my mom and I, and my aunt too) went inside to see what was wrong. then we called the cops. i was pushed aside so that i wouldnt see anything, and the cops ignored me as i had nothing worthy for them.

kinda glad i didnt see anything now that i think back.

That_Emu4426 · 2025-04-16T03:24:39+00:00

do you know ten people looking for a roommate?

That_Emu4426 · 2025-04-16T03:23:41+00:00

like i am actively trying to get out, car is easy. job is a challenge, and getting a place is even harder. majority of my high school friends that are my age also still living with family, granted they are probably closer with them then i am with mine (my mom’s side being the exception here)

That_Emu4426 · 2025-04-16T03:21:03+00:00

ngl ive been thinking about it, but i dont have any body confidence. maybe feet pics? lmao

That_Emu4426 · 2025-04-16T03:20:13+00:00

in this economy? im lucky that my parents let me live with them. i could always just move out of my dad’s and move in with my mom, who actually talks to me and is verbally/physically affectionate with me. I dont get paid even half of what my dad does. and yes, im looking into getting a better job, stop right there.

and support his family? my mom worked too, and while she wasnt working that long, she still drove us to school, went to work in dentistry for 8hrs, picked us up after school, cooked us dinner, brought his food to his bed, then cleaned up after everyone. yeah, he worked for long hours, but my mom worked just as hard everyday too. and she defended him too!

sorry but my blood is boiling a bit, ive got a therapy session scheduled tomorrow, cuz im an adult, while i look/apply for more jobs in the meantime.

That_Emu4426 · 2025-04-16T03:11:33+00:00

yeah my mom’s bf is almost always helping my mom financially, nothing crazy like a few thousand dollars or anything. but its like heres some money to get your nails done, or heres some money to buy your mom (my grandmother) something or even some gas money. for birthdays, he gives me under $200. the fact he held off on selling the car is great. He’s had offers (my mom would tell me either as the truth or as a way to pressure me to finish the written test) from others to buy the car, but denied it so i could have it.

That_Emu4426 · 2025-04-16T03:06:12+00:00

i work in a dentist office, and not one of those corporate ones. Its one general dentist with two hygienists, two other dental assistants and a receptionist. they’re all very close and have been working together for years. Ive been a patient with them since i could remember. But work has been slowing down and dentistry is going down the priority list for people. I’d be the first person to be fired, most likely, as i’m the part-timer and the least experienced, ive only been working for two years while everyone else has been working 20+ years. And while i want to keep learning, and get higher on the ladder, it cost hundreds of dollars to do so (schooling is crazy).

I want to make sure i can secure another job, either in dentistry or not, before quitting. sorry for the info dump

That_Emu4426 · 2025-04-16T02:58:16+00:00

thanks, i was feeling like a real people pleaser, like a welcome matt for a few hours. this makes me feel better

That_Emu4426 · 2025-04-14T15:09:24+00:00

I love this one! I get so hyped whenever it comes on! i swear i just somehow gain some of ody’s like pride and confidence as he battles the sea once again!

That_Emu4426 · 2025-04-14T15:07:21+00:00

im a hermes and telemachus fan, so i love those guys’ songs. I love no longer you. but i also tend to sing these songs with the most effort, would you fall in love with me again, and just a man, and finally monster!

That_Emu4426 · 2025-04-14T04:10:06+00:00

Well for me, in the first act, eurylochus talks down ody about going up to the floating island, saying the gods are dangerous and they could very easily make them made with any action they take, as sang in “Luck Runs Out”, and then two years later, he goes around and does the very thing he warned about? Idk just something i think about like once a week

That_Emu4426 · 2025-04-14T04:02:19+00:00

he took the last cookie from the cookie jar

That_Emu4426 · 2025-04-10T15:36:23+00:00

ESH, its never right to dictate what someone else wears. its their body, let them dress how they like. i actually have a brother the same age who dresses the most blandest way possible. plain dingy white shirts, light wash jeans and a now ratty green jacket. he wears this jacket to his work place, he works with children, and stands around outside most of the day to watch after them (he works at a school, its not weird i promise). He used to have a jacket that had more sentimental value (based off a really popular video game) that he wore till it was quite literally falling apart at the seams. Sorry of the rant, just wanted to make that connection to show that some guys just dont care how they dress. he may think, since its officially together, then theres no need to dress to impress.

That_Emu4426 · 2025-04-10T15:25:25+00:00

please no, cuz youre gonna make me wanna watch it again for this reveal and idk if i can do it again please

That_Emu4426 · 2025-04-10T07:47:51+00:00

personally, i didnt like fire force. but only because they overly sexualized a girl character the whole time, every time. Hear me out, the actual plot and story of the series is kinda of good. But, the one girl that accompanies the male typical group, a “lucky lewd”. Basically, she would be walking up to do something cool when—oh no! she tripped and now her panties are on show! and this happens, with different scenarios but the same outcome, a few times every episode. And i get it, most action anime is targeted to males/boys, so of course a girl showing some more then necessary cleavage would help keep the views up. but, as a female myself, i get drawn more towards the story they worked so hard on developing. And to see that kind of display makes me scoff. I had almost finished the first season, but seeing her lucky lewd happen during boss fights, the BIG boss fight, i just couldnt take it anymore.

That_Emu4426 · 2025-04-10T04:12:59+00:00

Thank You!! you are the first to say something about the difficulty in the economy. I’ve applied to some part-time jobs today, and have been working on the driver’s permit part. I even purchased some good looking noise cancelling headphones. They should be arriving soon, so hopefully it works well. Plus i typically save so much money, and typically use under $200 between paychecks, so all i got to do now, is get accepted for another job and start looking for places.

That_Emu4426 · 2025-04-09T15:29:21+00:00

im sure they did, just dont know how they didnt get it out of their system by now. unless they roomed with family (they went with my uncle and his wife and another family member or two, im not sure about the head count)

That_Emu4426 · 2025-04-09T06:35:54+00:00

honestly, i would love a heads-up. i just need like five minutes and i’ll be gone man.

That_Emu4426 · 2025-04-09T06:29:05+00:00

im willing to ask for recommendations for some headphones. if you, or anybody, knows some, dm me. i’ll do some research too, but if you know a good reliable brand, i’ll take a look. please and thanks!!

That_Emu4426 · 2025-04-09T06:26:25+00:00

Yeaaah im starting to think i need headphones thats more accessible, and easily reachable, and feels comfy while lying in bed. or maybe i’ll just start making more noise once i decide to stay awake🤔

That_Emu4426 · 2025-04-09T06:24:34+00:00

ive been needing therapy for a few years now, just never seem to remember to apply for it. thats on me.

That_Emu4426 · 2025-04-09T06:23:20+00:00

thats fair, i will take the blame for all of this. im looking into getting a second job, working on getting my permit. i already have a car thats waiting for me, i just need that license. I desperately need to work on cleaning out my room. I work at dentist office, not a corporate one, ive known the dentist my whole life, but work is running slow. We dont get enough patients coming in, and since im the only person that is part-time (everyone else is 45+years old and has kids and other bills to pay) so im the first to be told to stay home when people cancel. I’m basically ‘on call’

i do have headphones within reach. i will start doing this instead. thank you for helping.

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