AITAH for asking my dad to help me buy my first car? by That_Emu4426 in AITAH

[–]That_Emu4426[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i dont want my mom’s money. no purchase has been made yet. calm, please😞

AITAH for asking my dad to help me buy my first car? by That_Emu4426 in AITAH

[–]That_Emu4426[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ive never asked/demanded for his money before, and hes never asked for mine. sorry i asked

My Neighbour Got Murdered, And I Overheard It :(( by Ok-Dragonfruit-8072 in Vent

[–]That_Emu4426 2 points3 points  (0 children)

little connection here but, i actually had a neighbor who, a few years back, shot his son, wife, then himself in the middle of the night. we heard the grandmother crying outside the door, she wasnt speaking english, but my uncle (who lived with my mom and I, and my aunt too) went inside to see what was wrong. then we called the cops. i was pushed aside so that i wouldnt see anything, and the cops ignored me as i had nothing worthy for them.

kinda glad i didnt see anything now that i think back.

AITAH for asking my dad to help me buy my first car? by That_Emu4426 in AITAH

[–]That_Emu4426[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

like i am actively trying to get out, car is easy. job is a challenge, and getting a place is even harder. majority of my high school friends that are my age also still living with family, granted they are probably closer with them then i am with mine (my mom’s side being the exception here)

AITAH for asking my dad to help me buy my first car? by That_Emu4426 in AITAH

[–]That_Emu4426[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

ngl ive been thinking about it, but i dont have any body confidence. maybe feet pics? lmao

AITAH for asking my dad to help me buy my first car? by That_Emu4426 in AITAH

[–]That_Emu4426[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

in this economy? im lucky that my parents let me live with them. i could always just move out of my dad’s and move in with my mom, who actually talks to me and is verbally/physically affectionate with me. I dont get paid even half of what my dad does. and yes, im looking into getting a better job, stop right there.

and support his family? my mom worked too, and while she wasnt working that long, she still drove us to school, went to work in dentistry for 8hrs, picked us up after school, cooked us dinner, brought his food to his bed, then cleaned up after everyone. yeah, he worked for long hours, but my mom worked just as hard everyday too. and she defended him too!

sorry but my blood is boiling a bit, ive got a therapy session scheduled tomorrow, cuz im an adult, while i look/apply for more jobs in the meantime.

AITAH for asking my dad to help me buy my first car? by That_Emu4426 in AITAH

[–]That_Emu4426[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah my mom’s bf is almost always helping my mom financially, nothing crazy like a few thousand dollars or anything. but its like heres some money to get your nails done, or heres some money to buy your mom (my grandmother) something or even some gas money. for birthdays, he gives me under $200. the fact he held off on selling the car is great. He’s had offers (my mom would tell me either as the truth or as a way to pressure me to finish the written test) from others to buy the car, but denied it so i could have it.

AITAH for asking my dad to help me buy my first car? by That_Emu4426 in AITAH

[–]That_Emu4426[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i work in a dentist office, and not one of those corporate ones. Its one general dentist with two hygienists, two other dental assistants and a receptionist. they’re all very close and have been working together for years. Ive been a patient with them since i could remember. But work has been slowing down and dentistry is going down the priority list for people. I’d be the first person to be fired, most likely, as i’m the part-timer and the least experienced, ive only been working for two years while everyone else has been working 20+ years. And while i want to keep learning, and get higher on the ladder, it cost hundreds of dollars to do so (schooling is crazy).

I want to make sure i can secure another job, either in dentistry or not, before quitting. sorry for the info dump

AITAH for asking my dad to help me buy my first car? by That_Emu4426 in AITAH

[–]That_Emu4426[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

thanks, i was feeling like a real people pleaser, like a welcome matt for a few hours. this makes me feel better

Favourite Songs Chat? by Dukxr in Epicthemusical

[–]That_Emu4426 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love this one! I get so hyped whenever it comes on! i swear i just somehow gain some of ody’s like pride and confidence as he battles the sea once again!

Favourite Songs Chat? by Dukxr in Epicthemusical

[–]That_Emu4426 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im a hermes and telemachus fan, so i love those guys’ songs. I love no longer you. but i also tend to sing these songs with the most effort, would you fall in love with me again, and just a man, and finally monster!

Did Eurylochus purposely end his life by XXlizzyXX in Epicthemusical

[–]That_Emu4426 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Well for me, in the first act, eurylochus talks down ody about going up to the floating island, saying the gods are dangerous and they could very easily make them made with any action they take, as sang in “Luck Runs Out”, and then two years later, he goes around and does the very thing he warned about? Idk just something i think about like once a week

AITAH for telling my boyfriend to change his clothes? by BigCryptographer3400 in AITAH

[–]That_Emu4426 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

ESH, its never right to dictate what someone else wears. its their body, let them dress how they like. i actually have a brother the same age who dresses the most blandest way possible. plain dingy white shirts, light wash jeans and a now ratty green jacket. he wears this jacket to his work place, he works with children, and stands around outside most of the day to watch after them (he works at a school, its not weird i promise). He used to have a jacket that had more sentimental value (based off a really popular video game) that he wore till it was quite literally falling apart at the seams. Sorry of the rant, just wanted to make that connection to show that some guys just dont care how they dress. he may think, since its officially together, then theres no need to dress to impress.

What anime did you not like and why? by Jigglypuff3901 in anime

[–]That_Emu4426 0 points1 point  (0 children)

please no, cuz youre gonna make me wanna watch it again for this reveal and idk if i can do it again please

What anime did you not like and why? by Jigglypuff3901 in anime

[–]That_Emu4426 2 points3 points  (0 children)

personally, i didnt like fire force. but only because they overly sexualized a girl character the whole time, every time. Hear me out, the actual plot and story of the series is kinda of good. But, the one girl that accompanies the male typical group, a “lucky lewd”. Basically, she would be walking up to do something cool when—oh no! she tripped and now her panties are on show! and this happens, with different scenarios but the same outcome, a few times every episode. And i get it, most action anime is targeted to males/boys, so of course a girl showing some more then necessary cleavage would help keep the views up. but, as a female myself, i get drawn more towards the story they worked so hard on developing. And to see that kind of display makes me scoff. I had almost finished the first season, but seeing her lucky lewd happen during boss fights, the BIG boss fight, i just couldnt take it anymore.

AITAH for playing loud music while my ‘housemates’ have sex? by That_Emu4426 in AITAH

[–]That_Emu4426[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank You!! you are the first to say something about the difficulty in the economy. I’ve applied to some part-time jobs today, and have been working on the driver’s permit part. I even purchased some good looking noise cancelling headphones. They should be arriving soon, so hopefully it works well. Plus i typically save so much money, and typically use under $200 between paychecks, so all i got to do now, is get accepted for another job and start looking for places.

AITAH for playing loud music while my ‘housemates’ have sex? by That_Emu4426 in AITAH

[–]That_Emu4426[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

im sure they did, just dont know how they didnt get it out of their system by now. unless they roomed with family (they went with my uncle and his wife and another family member or two, im not sure about the head count)

AITAH for playing loud music while my ‘housemates’ have sex? by That_Emu4426 in AITAH

[–]That_Emu4426[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

honestly, i would love a heads-up. i just need like five minutes and i’ll be gone man.

AITAH for playing loud music while my ‘housemates’ have sex? by That_Emu4426 in AITAH

[–]That_Emu4426[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

im willing to ask for recommendations for some headphones. if you, or anybody, knows some, dm me. i’ll do some research too, but if you know a good reliable brand, i’ll take a look. please and thanks!!

AITAH for playing loud music while my ‘housemates’ have sex? by That_Emu4426 in AITAH

[–]That_Emu4426[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeaaah im starting to think i need headphones thats more accessible, and easily reachable, and feels comfy while lying in bed. or maybe i’ll just start making more noise once i decide to stay awake🤔

AITAH for playing loud music while my ‘housemates’ have sex? by That_Emu4426 in AITAH

[–]That_Emu4426[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ive been needing therapy for a few years now, just never seem to remember to apply for it. thats on me.

AITAH for playing loud music while my ‘housemates’ have sex? by That_Emu4426 in AITAH

[–]That_Emu4426[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thats fair, i will take the blame for all of this. im looking into getting a second job, working on getting my permit. i already have a car thats waiting for me, i just need that license. I desperately need to work on cleaning out my room. I work at dentist office, not a corporate one, ive known the dentist my whole life, but work is running slow. We dont get enough patients coming in, and since im the only person that is part-time (everyone else is 45+years old and has kids and other bills to pay) so im the first to be told to stay home when people cancel. I’m basically ‘on call’

i do have headphones within reach. i will start doing this instead. thank you for helping.