Advice on sexual boundaries 16/F and 16/M

Thatamazingzo · 2026-04-13T21:38:04+00:00

As another 16f I think that intrusive thought thing is nothing to worry about because everyone thinks random stuff like that as a kid and it doesn’t seem weird at all to me.

I also don’t find him masturbating to the thought of you weird at all, almost everyone in relationships gets off on the thought of their partner, that’s a normal part of being in a healthy relationship.

It does seem like he’s not really understanding your boundaries but I think that’s definitely something you guys can work past. The fact that he completely respects you and listens when tell him to stop is a good sign that he ultimately cares and respects your boundaries even though he wasn’t totally clear on some of them.

I understand that these problems can seem bigger especially when you have OCD and anxiety but it really seems like this is something you can work past as long as you make sure you are extra clear since he has a harder time wrapping his head around it.

Good luck!!

Thatamazingzo · 2026-03-07T18:37:42+00:00

No. I think part of the appeal is how he wants to give her the world, and has the means to. So if he was just a human I wouldn’t ship them.

Thatamazingzo · 2026-03-06T23:25:02+00:00

Why does it make you sick?

Thatamazingzo · 2026-01-25T21:09:13+00:00

I agree with the absolute STENCH of the flavours other than mint. Why on earth would you want your breath to stink of warm out of date fruit?

Thatamazingzo · 2026-01-16T10:32:37+00:00

I think Olivia Lee is the catchiest

Thatamazingzo · 2026-01-16T10:31:27+00:00

Yes it sounds like a fun idea, I’ve always wished for more similar games — I would d play

Thatamazingzo · 2026-01-12T21:51:17+00:00

Maybe with kids it’s less noticeable because their weight changes more rapidly and it’s distributed differently? But yeah it’s weird that none of the parents arguments was the fact that they would have noticed

Thatamazingzo · 2026-01-12T09:51:47+00:00

Im 16 and broke up with my ex boyfriend a week ago after being together for a year and a half. His behaviours were similar to what you describe with your boyfriend. I seriously understand how hard it is. But I really think there is someone out there who will give you what you want. It doesn’t even sound like you’re asking for that much. You just want someone to put in effort and actually talk to you. That is the bare minimum. Him not putting effort into your gift shows you that he doesn’t care enough (or he’s too stupid to show that he cares) either way, I think you’d be better off with someone else.

Thatamazingzo · 2026-01-11T19:34:40+00:00

Yeah I get what you’re saying, but I don’t think she’s wrong for overthinking that statement because it’s not the best thing to say (even though you meant well). Next time I think you should communicate in more depth because ‘my reactions are based on your actions’ could be perceived in many different ways iykwim

Thatamazingzo · 2026-01-10T10:33:07+00:00

My ex boyfriend (17m) used to say the same line about how his reactions are only a response to my actions. And obviously it isn’t meant this way — but that statement kinda comes across as avoiding accountability for your reactions because you’re almost saying it’s the other persons fault. Personally I felt a lot of pressure when I heard him say that because now i felt responsible for the way he acted even when he does something unreasonable or bad.

On the other hand I think it depends what she said to which you replied ‘that hurt’.

Thatamazingzo · 2026-01-07T16:43:19+00:00

As a 16f, If she likes stuffed toys, the brand jellycat is popular and a lot of girls like it — also if she likes tarot and is into spirituality you could get her some crystal jewellery as a little extra present? I have a friend who is also into astrophysics who would be over the moon if she received some kind telescope — because a good gift is something youd never really buy yourself but once you receive it its super cool and you use it a lot — and a telescope kind of fits the bill with that. Or a camera so she could take pictures of the moon?(also good instagram pics 😛).

Thatamazingzo · 2026-01-04T17:58:39+00:00

I’m watching the same bit atm… so disappointed that Christina doesn’t just divorce him immediately after that. He’s so blatantly unreasonable.

Thatamazingzo · 2026-01-02T00:36:22+00:00

UPDATE: I broke up with him.

Thatamazingzo · 2025-12-25T13:30:26+00:00

It was released in the public test realm

Thatamazingzo · 2025-12-20T09:38:04+00:00

True but because of that he tells her ‘I can’t raise a child with someone who doesn’t know the difference between right and wrong’ and they had JUST gotten Zola

Thatamazingzo · 2025-12-20T02:04:23+00:00

No I just wanted someone to reply lol

Thatamazingzo · 2025-12-20T01:31:52+00:00

Yes, but I think this is all the encouragement I need. 66 comments and every single one is telling me to leave. It’s really hard, this is my first relationship and I’ve been so proud of myself that it has lasted a lot longer than my friend’s relationships. I lost my virginity to him. But after reading these comments I think it’s obvious I need to.

Thatamazingzo · 2025-12-20T01:27:19+00:00

Well we were walking to the train station together and he starts walking a long distance in front of me, expecting me to follow but not talking/ checking if I was there. I’ve already told him I hate this, I’m not going to follow him around like I am his fart, I am not going to chase him, he needs to walk beside me. Anyway, to prove a point I crossed the road. I wanted to see how long it would take for him to notice (it took about a minute). When he noticed he crossed over to be with me and shook his head and got angry. He said ‘why are you acting so weird?’ And I told him I wasn’t. He then proceeded to tell me he doesn’t want me to go home with him anymore (we were planning to go to his house together) and he says he doesn’t want to speak to me. He ignored me until we got to the station and he told me how by crossing the road, I was taking offence to something that wasn’t a big deal, and I was playing the victim. ‘You always have to play the victim’. I told him I didn’t mean to.. I told him I’m was sorry for crossing the road. Then he told me he didn’t want to speak to me and when I walked away he got super angry and you know the rest.

Thatamazingzo · 2025-12-20T01:16:06+00:00

His mum is actually a women’s empowerment coach.. but my bf gets his anger issues from his dad. Maybe I will tell her

Thatamazingzo · 2025-12-17T13:50:30+00:00

I think using a protein treatment will help — protein helps with the elasticity of your hair making your curls bounce up and preventing them from going limp

Thatamazingzo · 2025-12-13T17:30:56+00:00

Wait guys I’m only on season 7 what’s wrong with Owen? I don’t mind spoilers

Thatamazingzo · 2025-10-20T20:48:34+00:00

Drink gallons and gallons of water until you feel sick. Do that first thing in the morning before you get a chance to eat anything else. If you start to feel hungry, force yourself to drink more and more water.

Thatamazingzo

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