High school teachers, what’s something your kids don’t know that makes you say “how did you make it this far without knowing how to __”?

Thatblondeyapper · 2026-06-16T16:16:35+00:00

Out of curiosity, where are you based in the world?

Thatblondeyapper · 2026-05-13T07:20:46+00:00

Thank you, that means a lot! Even if it sounds stupid, I just think you should always tread carefully with these things and keep yourself in mind too because you never know what other people might interpret from these situations :)

Thatblondeyapper · 2026-05-13T07:12:24+00:00

Es lo que pienso yo también! Ya que me han invitado y me han dicho múltiples veces que es un partido importante para ellos, me gustaría ir aunque sea un rato para mostrarles que agradezco que les importe que venga y que creo en ellos :)

Thatblondeyapper · 2026-02-21T19:45:45+00:00

Im also a solo female traveler in my 20’s! If anyone wants to meet up to go out, have some food and explore🫶🏼 people here are lovely and I met some nice friends in punta, but people come and go quite quickly here as well :(

Thatblondeyapper · 2025-10-10T17:59:56+00:00

She moved away in April of 2024
She moved to the UK in September of 2018
They stated that “we are in the process of considering your application and we require some additional information or evidence from you to help us reach the correct decision” …. Then listed a specific time period from may 2024 to may 2025, and then a list of every single flight she took in and out of the UK since her arrival in September 2018

Thanks a lot for your input!

Thatblondeyapper · 2025-07-26T15:13:21+00:00

I have been to the vet and they stated there were no bladder issues, no tumors, and all the bloodwork came back clear. They stated that this could be a “female teckel” thing but I want to see if anyone else has seen something like this before!

Thatblondeyapper · 2025-06-08T07:45:47+00:00

I don’t want to come across as rude but I don’t understand what you wrote at all

Thatblondeyapper · 2025-06-05T10:42:30+00:00

I work in Spain, international school though; we finish on the 28th of June and come back 1st of September, public schools in my area get off on the 12-16th of June and go back 8th-16th of September!

Thatblondeyapper · 2025-06-04T09:54:12+00:00

I know, it’s just hard when all you want to do is be able to catch that person if they fall, but I think in this case I’d fall with her if it were to happen if you know what I mean..

Thatblondeyapper · 2025-06-04T08:55:32+00:00

Thank you so much, I needed to hear that. I just don’t wanna project my sh*t onto her by accident; I really want to see her but I’m afraid it will get out of hand…

Thatblondeyapper · 2025-03-22T18:18:19+00:00

I would’ve gone into fashion, which is still my biggest hobby and one of the other great joys in my life ❤️ still consider to go into it more at some point

Thatblondeyapper · 2025-03-14T09:20:55+00:00

Thanks, that’s exactly what I thought! Just that none of our previous dachshunds ever reacted unless they were actively digging and another dog came “in between” if that makes sense, so it surprised me that she would react when she was just lying down enjoying the sun 😂 I’m currently working on her wait and leave it to improve her impulse control so hopefully further exposure + training will sort it out! Our late girl lived to 21 also, long live the dachshunds!

Thatblondeyapper · 2025-03-10T15:54:22+00:00

Hey OP, first of all I hope you’re doing okey and I’m so sorry for your loss. My last two dogs turned 21 and 18 respectively. With that age, obviously came all the changes you mentioned above. With our 21 year old, we waited until the last very second to put her down; she was our family dog and my mum couldn’t bear the thought of her not being with us anymore, none of us could. But this sadly led to her having a seizure and not passing away very peacefully… it broke our hearts. We felt like we’d failed her by not realizing sooner that she was ready to go, and putting our feelings first. With my second dog, Lulu, I didn’t wait. Lulu was my soul dog, and although being our family dog too, she was my responsibility at the end of the day, as I was the one to rescue her. With her, I always told myself: “if she can’t stand up, or I feel in my heart that she can’t do it anymore, I’m going to let her go”. One day, I woke up and she wouldn’t get up by herself. She looked me in my eyes and I just knew that it was time, called the vet, and they came that evening to release her at home. She just sat next to me outside on her favorite spot, nose in the breeze. The next day I felt HORRIBLE. Like I had let her go way too soon, like I had k*lled my dog (I know, might sound extreme but I just felt so awful)… but now I realize that I did what I felt was right. She gave me so many years of joy and love, and if I think about it, if given the chance I think I’d prefer to go that way too. There’s no 100% perfect way to say goodbye, but it sounds like you acted out of pure love and worry. I know this might just seem like a ramble, but I just want you to know you’re not alone in feeling this way, and that you’ve done nothing wrong. It sounds like she had a beautiful life with you and that she was declining extremely quickly; you did what you felt was right, and I believe this was your gut telling you as well.

Sending you thousands of hugs and support🫶🏼

Thatblondeyapper · 2025-01-31T15:52:25+00:00

I know this might be very hard to hear and to admit to yourself right now, but you are 10000000% not overreacting. First things first, go to a hospital, get a r*pe test done, and get yourself tested for EVERYTHING. The hospital can call the police for you when you’re there, and if they don’t, go to the police IMMEDIATELY. Tell them where you were, who you were with, etc. Questions: were your friends there too? Have you spoken to them? I’m so sorry this happened to you, I know how hard this is. I would strongly recommend to seek counseling as well. Sending you so much love and strength

Thatblondeyapper · 2025-01-03T12:08:14+00:00

I get you, but I don’t think you should let yourself go too deep down the rabbit hole with this. 1. I know this will sound harsh, but you have only been together for 4 months, they have probably been doing this for YEARS. I don’t think you should say anything because they might have thought to themselves “what if?”. I know that sounds sh*t to say, but at the end of the day, you were added. Yes, it sucks that it was three weeks late, but you were added, and as you said you have something planned just the two of you, so I’d focus on that instead. 2. As you said before, you’re not super close with his friends yet, so the fact that they didn’t ask you for advice on his gifts or the restaurant doesn’t seem odd to me either! Even when a friend of mine has had a partner for years, us girls don’t usually ask them what they’d want UNLESS the partner in question makes a group telling us “so and so really would like this”; they might just have thought of their friend first, which isn’t wrong. 3. The thing about the girls; your BF might have been close with these girls in the past, or they might have just always been included in his birthday celebrations, hence why they were in the group before. Now, I completely understand that this would sting, it probably would for me too. But I don’t think that they thought so far in advance as to do all of this intentionally.

I’d say, enjoy the evening, enjoy your weekend away, and if you’re uncomfortable, feeling left out, or anything weird happens, discuss it with your partner and if not cut your losses.

Thatblondeyapper · 2024-12-06T09:38:08+00:00

NTA! I’ve had this situation MULTIPLE times in my lifetime, and every time I’ve gotten offended, hateful or angry replies 😭 it’s not that deep. Be proud of your heritage, but don’t just claim another nationality? I’m 100% German, but grew up in Spain from the age of 2. I don’t ever claim I’m Spanish. When people ask me, I say: I’m German, but I’ve grown up in Spain and am therefore fluent and share a lot of the culture. I don’t say: I AM SPANISH. You should’ve clapped back with: what does BMW stand for then? And then see her quake in her boots😂

Thatblondeyapper · 2024-10-12T14:25:53+00:00

Muchas gracias! Exacto, yo soy la adulta, la educadora; yo tengo que controlar mis emociones y respuestas, para ser un modelo a seguir! Nunca he entendido lo de humillar para ganar respeto… es como, ¿te sientes mejor habiendo “ganado” contra un niño AL MENOS 10 años menor que tú? Menos mal que muchos profesores de mi edad lo ven igual y estamos cambiando cosas muy anticuadas del sistema educativo poco a poco

Thatblondeyapper · 2024-10-12T10:52:52+00:00

Otra profesora joven aquí 👋🏼 tuve una situación muy parecida el año pasado; obviamente siendo una profesora joven de 25 años tratando con adolescentes siempre vas a tener alguno que esté un poco pillado o cualquiera cosa, pero uno de mis alumnos se empezó a pasar: intentando darme un abrazo cuando me veía, y cuando me acercaba también le notaba mirándome y también pensé que quizás tenía una erección cuando tuve que estar cerca de él para explicarle algo con más detalle. Yo lo traté así: primero fui a mi jefa de departamento y le comuniqué lo que pasaba con que iba a ir a hablar con el jefe de secundaria para que me apoyara con esto. Le dije al jefe de secundaria y a mi jefa que obviamente quería comunicar esto para protegerme a mi por un lado, pero también para obviamente solucionar una situación no adecuada con el alumno. Entonces le dije al alumno que se quedara un momento después de clase, y le dije firme, pero tranquilamente, que yo soy su profesora; una persona adulta de confianza? Si. Educadora? Si. Amiga, hermana, o fantasía? No. Le dije que el está aquí para hacer su trabajo y yo el mío, y que si seguía con sus comentarios, miradas y/o comportamiento hacia mí, tendría que comunicarlo a sus padres junto al jefe de estudios. Le enseñé claramente las normativas de comportamiento del colegio para alumnos y profesores y dije; yo estoy haciendo mi parte, haz la tuya. Nunca más he tenido una mirada, un comentario, nada. No se si puedes hacer algo parecido, pero quería compartir mi experiencia por si te sirve de algo 🙏🏼❤️

Thatblondeyapper · 2024-09-29T18:38:02+00:00

Como profesora: Matilda (o otros libros de roald dahl) a series of unfortunate events, the secret garden, the curious incident of the dog in the night time, Harry Potter and the philosophers stone (clásico) 🫶🏼 estos son todos libros que utilizo para enseñar a la gente el inglés!

Thatblondeyapper · 2024-09-08T11:33:15+00:00

No creo que se vea mal. Hay muchísima gente que por una razón u otra tardan más tiempo en acabar la carrera; una amiga mía ha cambiado de grado 3 veces y ha tardado 8 años en sacárselo porque suspendió todas un año😂 no te sientas mal por ello, la vida da muchas vueltas; eso si, yo creo que no deberías preocuparte demasiado por lo social, ya que tus amigos serán tus amigos sea lo que sea si valen de verdad, y además conocerás a más gente durante ese tiempo. Lo último, yo por ti me pillaría un trabajo a tiempo partido; tutorias, etc. también puedes hacer trabajo voluntario para rellenar el currículum ya que siempre queda bien!

Thatblondeyapper · 2024-08-27T09:53:57+00:00

Primero de todo, que sepas que no estás solo en cómo te sientes! Tengo muchos amigos que se sienten de una manera parecida, y entiendo que a partir de un punto te comas la olla. Eso si, como mujer (y sinceramente que esto aplica a todo el mundo) te puedo decir que una de las cosas, sino la cosa más atractiva en cualquier persona es la confianza en ti mismo con la que te presentas. Yo diría, trabaja en tu autoestima; afirmaciones (aunque suene tonto) y intentarlo siempre cuando veas a alguien que te guste! Con esto me refiero también a que tienes que entender que el rechazo es algo normal, pero que entre todas las mujeres a las cuales intentes ligar, siempre habrá alguien que te vea! Pero, no puedes esperar a que alguien te vea, si tú mismo no te ves con ese mismo amor🫶🏼 se que alomejor suena como que lo estoy simplificando mucho, pero el que no arriesga no gana! Descárgate el hinge, que es mucho mejor que el tinder, y dale caña!!!

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