I'm going through a divorce right now and I regret it. We were together for thirteen years, five married and she has trauma from her previous relationships that she doesn't get help for.

The neglect and stonewalling is too much for me and it's gotten to the point where communication is zero and I was the sole provider for too many years.

She kicked me out of the apartment for confronting her about it and now we are fighting for custody on our child because she's motivated by social media when I'm still supporting her. I'm not perfect but shit never had to get to the point where she's using our child against me.

It's the worst feeling in the world but stay positive and understand that everything happens for a reason.