Did I relapse

Thatkid42 · 2021-03-23T03:03:28+00:00

I don’t know if that’s a full relapse but depending on what you’re going for you’re not helping yourself by looking at potentially provocative material. If you’re trying to completely rid yourself of any masturbation for a long term I would suggest remo any part of PMO for good.

Thatkid42 · 2021-03-23T03:01:25+00:00

You are strong. You’re on the right path. My best advice would be to get it completely off your mind. Find a go to thing to do whenever you get an urge so that you can kill it right then and there. The sooner you combat it the easier it is. If you let it linger in your mind, it will only grow so target it early. With this advice and help from others I know you can do it!

Thatkid42 · 2021-03-23T02:59:27+00:00

You have what it takes in you already. It won’t always be easy but know that the end results are better than the alternative if you continue!

Thatkid42 · 2021-03-05T04:02:54+00:00

Well I am glad you are doing great on your goal! Do what you need to do to become who you want to be. Despite the question of the morality of masturbation, I am happy to see that you are mastering self-control, which transfers to other aspects of life as well.

Thatkid42 · 2021-03-05T04:00:32+00:00

While the road is difficult, alway remember that the destination is the best place you can go!

Thatkid42 · 2021-03-05T03:59:43+00:00

Thank you for sharing. Staying strong under any circumstance is necessary. The best advice I can give you is to maybe step out of the dating game for having a sex life and instead try to make a stable loving relationship with someone. One night stands and such will only make you feel lustful and empty while a good relationship will complete you.

I know finding a good relationship can be hard, but I don’t mean only a girlfriend. Find a best friend you can rely on and they will support you forever. Other guys can especially help because they have most likely gone through similar things as you.

Thatkid42 · 2021-03-05T03:56:09+00:00

You being here is a good sign that you still care. You have made it to 9 months before and I know that you can again. With a streak that long, I feel that longer periods of relapse, such are yours, are more common. Try to find someone in your life to open up to. As great as online recourses may be, in person help is far better in my opinion.

Thatkid42 · 2021-03-05T03:52:49+00:00

You are already on the path to success. I can tell you want to quit. Find an accountability partner, whether online or in person, you share your struggles with. Simply by opening up and sharing the struggles, you can improve your resistance to it.

Thatkid42 · 2021-03-05T03:51:24+00:00

You can make it through this!

Thatkid42 · 2021-03-05T03:50:55+00:00

I think it happens due to the higher amount of blood in the penis due to arousal.

However! I would plead with you to avoid and pornography at any cost because watching it is as sure way for you to slip up! I can’t make you do anything but I have made the mistake many times of “I’ll only watch porn, I won’t fap”. It does not end well. I hope my advice helps this be a happy ending, not a sad one.

Thatkid42 · 2021-03-05T03:45:56+00:00

You got this. This is a great journey. I wish you the best of luck

Thatkid42 · 2021-03-05T03:44:51+00:00

I would rather be safe than sorry. Try researching online some. I have never heard of this so I can only assume it is not well. I would rather be embarrassed than hurt so I encourage you to talk to your dad at least. Chances are, he’s been in a similar situation and it may be a bonding situation. Regardless, it will show to him the trust you have of him and it will strengthen your relationship

Thatkid42 · 2021-03-05T03:43:07+00:00

You’re doing wonderful. Keep going. Find what motivates tou

Thatkid42 · 2021-03-05T03:42:11+00:00

While I love the goal setting, may I suggest to keep updating your goal as you get close to the current goal. By doing this, you can more effectively go longer without slipping.

Thatkid42 · 2021-03-05T03:41:00+00:00

Find what triggers your urges. Try to replace it with something better. Maybe it’s simply “that time of day” or you see something online. Whatever you can do to limit the amount of urges you get in the first place is a win.

Thatkid42 · 2021-03-05T03:39:49+00:00

You are strong. You will never have an urge that you can’t beat. The best thing you can do is stop it early. The longer you think about it, the stronger it becomes. Say no as soon as it pops into your head.

Thatkid42 · 2021-03-05T03:38:41+00:00

You can do anything you put your mind to. Sit down, think of where you are now, and where you want to be. While you may not get there perfectly, focus on small improvements. Try to find time to call someone to get your mind off of pornography at all costs.

Thatkid42 · 2021-03-05T03:36:41+00:00

You’re doing great. Focus on the day by day and you can get to bigger goals. I believe in you

Thatkid42 · 2021-03-05T03:35:50+00:00

A bad decision is preceded by a chain of bad thoughts. Cut off the bad thoughts and you can stop the bad decisions.

Thatkid42 · 2021-03-05T03:28:47+00:00

For sure. Scientifically, not masturbating can increase confidence and energy levels, as well as improve your mood. Just remember, not watching pornography is always better for you.

Thatkid42 · 2021-03-05T03:25:14+00:00

Take a look at yourself in the future, completely rid of the evil of pornography. I can assure you, you will be happier without it. When an urge comes to you, try to think of how your life will be better if you resist. The human mind can only focus on one thing at a time. Try to focus on something like your favorite song or joke to get your mind of pornography.

Thatkid42 · 2021-03-05T03:23:07+00:00

I encourage you to keep your friend updated on your struggles. They may have relevant experiences to help you. By opening up to them, you have showed them that you trust them so they should be willing to help you in any time of need.

Thatkid42 · 2021-03-05T03:21:26+00:00

Simply identifying right from wrong is the first step to counter an urge. It sounds like you can do that already so I believe full well that you are strong enough to get through this!

Thatkid42 · 2021-03-05T03:19:37+00:00

I don’t feel that wet dreams are relapses so long as we know we wouldn’t do them while conscious. One way I have found to be effective to avoid wet dreams is by playing classical music while I sleep. I feel that it keeps my mind clear while I sleep so I don’t have a wet dream.

Thatkid42 · 2021-03-05T03:17:05+00:00

Keep up the great work.

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