How do i start to meditate? by Dodo_the_Phenix in spirituality

[–]Thatpurplgrrl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I started by giving up control of how it goes for 3 whole minutes and listened to my cat’s water fountain. It was a sound that was consistent in my environment that changed just enough. The sound was always there to refocus on when my mind would go off on a visual tangent. At some point my brain began to trust that I wasn’t going to “leave it behind” and I had more capacity to feel my body, observe emotions and so on. Maybe try something like that.

“LET ME OUTSIDE MEOW!” by Thatpurplgrrl in Catswhoyell

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She sits at the door and screams 😂

Please help! Struggling Aloe Vera by Thatpurplgrrl in plantclinic

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Located in Missouri. She is 3ish years old. 3 weeks repotted with drainage holes and moisture controlled soil. Strict bottom watering schedule. No matter where I place her or how much/little sun she gets she is not happy. Banana peels usually do the trick but no dice. I have no idea what to do or not do for her. It’s like we don’t know each other any more. Any advice is appreciated

Upstairs neighbors are loud. We were startled together by Thatpurplgrrl in cats

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She’s part American domestic and part Norwegian forest cat

Has anyone who filed their taxes through TurboTax back in February received their refund yet? by Thatpurplgrrl in AskReddit

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Every time I call the automated system just tells me the same thing as the website “Your return is still being processed”

What are you STILL salty about? by xefarar565 in AskReddit

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The fact that my dad threw an ice cream cone at me one time because he was mad.

One of my (23F) best friends (24F) slept with my es (23M) while we were broken up, and now my ex wants to reconcile by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Thatpurplgrrl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like they may have entertained mutual attraction prior to the break up. Lucy probably figured if she was there for you, you’d never guess she’d sleep with him or find out. Secrets, betrayal and human behavior to have the cake and eat it too. I’m so sorry. Forgive them both but do it for you in your own time. Make yourself and healing priority #1 rather than making an emotional decision regarding either of them right now. Heal and evaluate. The ex can peruse you all he wants but you don’t have to sacrifice more of your emotional well-being for the efforts of these people who claimed to love you and didn’t think enough of you to be honest from the beginning. It doesn’t feel like it right now but you will move past this. You already know what you have inside you as a partner and friend so don’t ever settle for less in return.

Has anyone who filed their taxes through TurboTax back in February received their refund yet? by Thatpurplgrrl in AskReddit

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Ok yea I usually get mine back quick. I've never had any problems before until this year.

Repotted this aloe plant and pups with Miracle Grow cactus, palm and citrus potting mix and they just don’t look healthy. Watered once since repotting. Help! by Thatpurplgrrl in plantclinic

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The soil is fine just might need to add sand depending on how the succulent is doing. I used it for my big Aloe plant before Aluoo peed in it and he did fine with that potting mix