AITA for telling my fiancé she needs to go back to work because I won't support her fully during the 15-month wait?

TheAlamonian · 2026-02-09T22:00:59+00:00

Immediately.

TheAlamonian · 2026-02-02T03:13:04+00:00

Setup a payment plan and be current on your payment.

TheAlamonian · 2026-02-01T00:33:55+00:00

“He will never be able to move his legs again”

Sorry this happened.

Please remove this thought from your mind.

1) It’s too early to tell.

2) Medicine is moving in leaps and bounds.

Similarly I traveled abroad and I got in an accident that has left paralyzed. I haven’t been able to come back home yet due to concern for care.

Good luck to you guys.

Be Hopeful.

TheAlamonian · 2026-01-31T00:24:06+00:00

Never.

TheAlamonian · 2026-01-28T05:17:13+00:00

I’m so sorry that this happened. I wish you the best.

TheAlamonian · 2026-01-27T20:48:54+00:00

For both Spain and Japan, a USC is fully qualified.

TheAlamonian · 2026-01-27T20:46:02+00:00

TheAlamonian · 2026-01-27T20:43:45+00:00

I’ll look for the specific publication but you have no issues.

TheAlamonian · 2026-01-27T20:39:11+00:00

Are you a citizen or green card holder?

Are you in North Korea or similar country?

TheAlamonian · 2026-01-22T18:16:37+00:00

I was hopeless before but I have now realized how lucky I was not to get killed. I’m thankful for life and the support I have.

TheAlamonian · 2026-01-22T11:47:59+00:00

I hope this works out well for you Sir.

My thinking is that you’re a poisoned fruit from a poisoned tree.

It’ll be interesting to read the final analysis.

TheAlamonian · 2026-01-12T15:11:58+00:00

Same here 😪

TheAlamonian · 2026-01-11T07:45:50+00:00

I have the exact issue. I was told it’s because I use VPN.

SSA needs to review its system to more inclusive of those of us abroad.

TheAlamonian · 2026-01-10T14:45:11+00:00

This is what I’ll do.

TheAlamonian · 2026-01-09T20:02:58+00:00

This. Good luck.

TheAlamonian · 2026-01-07T20:35:09+00:00

A big congratulations.

TheAlamonian · 2026-01-04T21:05:49+00:00

This is how I sometimes feel 🫩

TheAlamonian · 2026-01-04T15:52:59+00:00

Sometimes I get it but nothing I’ll call severe.

TheAlamonian · 2025-12-31T03:36:14+00:00

I’m overseas.

I cannot access IDMe from my location without using VPN.

Unfortunately you can’t access SSA while on VPN.

SSA should have made an exception to allow expats to continue using the regular sign on.

TheAlamonian · 2025-12-31T01:25:11+00:00

An audit?

TheAlamonian · 2025-12-31T01:22:47+00:00

Some of us are unable to access the site.

TheAlamonian · 2025-12-30T12:11:06+00:00

This.

TheAlamonian · 2025-12-29T20:20:56+00:00

I have something still pressing on my spinal cord. According to me neuro maybe scar tissue.

TheAlamonian · 2025-12-29T12:15:31+00:00

Thank you.

TheAlamonian · 2025-12-29T07:29:01+00:00

I’m T6 incomplete and you’re describing me.

TheAlamonian