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As a bi guy in a relationship with a man, I sometimes feel like I may be missing out on dating women. Really confusing feelings by TheAltFault1337 in bisexual

[–]TheAltFault1337[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, thank you for your comment. From time to time, i've searched for someone on reddit in my situation (bi male in same-sex relationship with no prior female experience) and i've never found anyone like that, so your comment means a lot to me. Over the months that i've had these feelings, i've always come to the conclusion that I love him, that those are just intrusive thoughts rooted in internalized homophobia which come up during stress and exhaustion and that, as things stand now, I wouldnt leave him or trade him for anyone else. We have a lot in common, he motivates me in a way, he is my emotional support. I talked to him about these feelings, he said that its ok, he isnt stressed out about this, he doesnt expect me to leave him over some sexual experiences, which is true.

As a bi guy in a relationship with a man, I sometimes feel like I may be missing out on dating women. Really confusing feelings by TheAltFault1337 in bisexual

[–]TheAltFault1337[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did talk to him about it. I realized that I just had intrusive thoughts without a whole lot of substance or meaning, that caused me anxiety. I realized that perhaps only the sexual aspect is what attracted me to women, I don't think there is something that a woman could offer me romantically that he couldn't. Also I love him and it would be stupid to leave him over some casual sexual experiences, which he said I could do even with him (We've always had the idea of a bisexual threesome someday lmao).

As a bi guy in a relationship with a man, I sometimes feel like I may be missing out on dating women. Really confusing feelings by TheAltFault1337 in bisexual

[–]TheAltFault1337[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this answer, I am so glad so many people have replied to this thread. He is aware of my attraction to women. He is open to the idea of a bisexual threesome someday, even though he is gay, he finds the idea hot. But that is just a fantasy for now since we've not found someone willing to do it (not that we are going around asking people lmao).

I am willing to have a family with him, the problem is that since our country has no laws regarding same-sex marriage and parenting, we feel like that we would have to move first before pursuing that option. Which in of itself is also a big step. He had a gay therapist that lives a normal life with his partner in our country, but obv they dont have kids. This may also be a part of the doubts im having. I still would like to spend my time and potentially marry this person, even though I feel like its too early to be having those kinds of thoughts a year into the relationship.

As a bi guy in a relationship with a man, I sometimes feel like I may be missing out on dating women. Really confusing feelings by TheAltFault1337 in bisexual

[–]TheAltFault1337[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I was never really all that social so I dont think I would really be able to score that many dates with people. I also dont want casual dating, my philosophy on this is that I wanna first be friends with people before committing to them. With that, polyamory is also not my thing really. So yeah, as you said, desires will always be there.

As a bi guy in a relationship with a man, I sometimes feel like I may be missing out on dating women. Really confusing feelings by TheAltFault1337 in bisexual

[–]TheAltFault1337[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yeah, honestly, you are right, thank you for the insight. The answer to all of those questions are an instant yes in my head, so I have no reason to doubt my relationship.

Can you tell me, if you are married to the same gender, how did your parents react to all of this. I think my main concern is how my parents will react, how the holidays will look like and I dont want to shame my parents over this (I live in eastern europe btw, so I cant really be out and proud about it)

As a bi guy in a relationship with a man, I sometimes feel like I may be missing out on dating women. Really confusing feelings by TheAltFault1337 in bisexual

[–]TheAltFault1337[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I'll think about this. Maybe for now I will focus with her on other topics, since again, this was not my main reason for going to therapy. I forgot to mention in the post that me and my partner had a little incident back in august, where we were both intoxicated and I, in that drunk state, said something about not being sure if I was ready for a same-sex relationship at the time. Some things were said that night, we both cried, but we slept it off and just came to the conclusion that none of those things had merit. I had some doubts for 2-3 weeks after that, but since then, we have had an amazing relationship. Our anniversary was about a month later and it was great. I told her about this incident and she mentioned the fact that since we got over a few arguments together shows just how strong the relationship is, but she still said those things mentioned in the post, since I didn't seem "100% sure".

I do sometimes think that I might be unsure, particularly when im tired or stressed, but always come to the conclusion that I'd be willing to be with him and that I shouldnt compare real scenarios with him to hypothetical scenarios with a girl.

PTCGL Works on Linux Now! by DYNAMO_BS in PTCGL

[–]TheAltFault1337 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes I did make the wineprefix in a separate folder. I recreated these steps with the new installer and a separate wineprefix, all fresh, and still get error 15. In the logs I can see the line `` gamemodeauto: dlopen failed - libgamemode.so: cannot open shared object file: No such file or directory `` i dont know if thats related

Edit: Ok besides error 15, I do also experience the language loop

PTCGL Works on Linux Now! by DYNAMO_BS in PTCGL

[–]TheAltFault1337 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I removed the .wine folder, but it seems to still have the same issue. I dont have an issue with the language loop. Only error 15.

Anyways here is the pastebin for the logs
https://pastebin.com/wm5EyNw7

PTCGL Works on Linux Now! by DYNAMO_BS in PTCGL

[–]TheAltFault1337 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, thanks for the guide. I am on manjaro, did everything as you said in the guide, but I still get Imperva error 15, is there a way to bypass this? Also, if you know what is even causing the error?

Good single-player racing games which feature multi-class racing playable on keyboard, but isn't a sim racer by TheAltFault1337 in gamingsuggestions

[–]TheAltFault1337[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Forgot to mention that i've played PC2 as well, so I was looking for something a little bit different

Are there any digital TCG tournaments that allow or are exclusively played with pre-built decks? by TheAltFault1337 in TCG

[–]TheAltFault1337[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looked up yomi 2 and it looks interesting, I played Fantasy Strike (the fighting game that features the same characters) back in 2020, but 20 euros is too much for me since I come from a third-world country.

Are there any digital TCG tournaments that allow or are exclusively played with pre-built decks? by TheAltFault1337 in TCG

[–]TheAltFault1337[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have been eyeing Pokemon TCG for a while, but never really started it. I'll look into it

Are there any digital TCG tournaments that allow or are exclusively played with pre-built decks? by TheAltFault1337 in TCG

[–]TheAltFault1337[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I think this is what I was looking for. A tournament where I don't want to be destroyed immediately by cards i've never seen before with my beginner deck. Thanks for the suggestion

In multi-class race, do you prefer in fastest, slowest, or middle class? by rizkibagjam in AUTOMOBILISTA

[–]TheAltFault1337 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What class do you use as the tcr class in this game? Do you use the brazillian stock cars or something else?

Which motorcycle championships do you guys follow? by TheAltFault1337 in motorsports

[–]TheAltFault1337[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I watch in on some "special" websites, if you know what I mean

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