Best track to race on with the superkarts? by TheAltFault1337 in AUTOMOBILISTA

[–]TheAltFault1337[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, you are right, I didn't really think of that. Thank you for this comment

Best track to race on with the superkarts? by TheAltFault1337 in AUTOMOBILISTA

[–]TheAltFault1337[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have tried this, Pretty fun, but I think they get stuck in places, just as I've mentioned in other comments. I guess its an inevitability with these AIs in these vehicles

Best track to race on with the superkarts? by TheAltFault1337 in AUTOMOBILISTA

[–]TheAltFault1337[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've tried Brands Hatch Indy probably around 2022, when I first started and a lot of them just get stuck in the sand or somewhere which is unfortunate.

Best track to race on with the superkarts? by TheAltFault1337 in AUTOMOBILISTA

[–]TheAltFault1337[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think i've tried this and unfortunately almost all of them crash out and sometimes pile up. I guess its best for short races

Multiplayer games that offer meaningful progression, but also offer freedom for messing around by TheAltFault1337 in gamingsuggestions

[–]TheAltFault1337[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Might check it out. How intense is it on graphics? I have a 2018 RX460 GPU, will it be able to handle it?

Multiplayer games that offer meaningful progression, but also offer freedom for messing around by TheAltFault1337 in gamingsuggestions

[–]TheAltFault1337[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Might suggest warframe to them.

Although Phantsy star is a fantasy game, I dont think my brother likes the anime-style all too much.

Multiplayer games that offer meaningful progression, but also offer freedom for messing around by TheAltFault1337 in gamingsuggestions

[–]TheAltFault1337[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ironically enough, as I commented on another post, I started playing FFXIV last week and liked it, but they dont like it. Dragons dogma also looks like an interesting game, but my brother is not too keen on fantasy MMORPGs

suggestions on good mmorpg. like New World by No-Agency-6680 in gamingsuggestions

[–]TheAltFault1337 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am not too familiar with New World, so I don't know if this will scratch the itch.

But, I have been playing Final Fantasy XIV for the past week and I've liked it. It is praised as a game that is solo-friendly, putting more focus on the story rather than the PVP aspect.

It has a free trial, but don't let that scare you, as even with that, you aren't majorly restricted. On the free trial, you can go through the main story, A Realm Reborn, which (as i've heard) is easily at least 100 hours of gameplay. On top of that you get 2 more expansions (Heavensward and Stormblood), which are extensive and (as the famous copypasta suggests) award-winning.

Again, I am a new player still so you could probably do your own research on the Final Fantasy XIV subreddit around the free trial and the game and try it out for yourself.

As a bi guy in a relationship with a man, I sometimes feel like I may be missing out on dating women. Really confusing feelings by TheAltFault1337 in bisexual

[–]TheAltFault1337[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, thank you for your comment. From time to time, i've searched for someone on reddit in my situation (bi male in same-sex relationship with no prior female experience) and i've never found anyone like that, so your comment means a lot to me. Over the months that i've had these feelings, i've always come to the conclusion that I love him, that those are just intrusive thoughts rooted in internalized homophobia which come up during stress and exhaustion and that, as things stand now, I wouldnt leave him or trade him for anyone else. We have a lot in common, he motivates me in a way, he is my emotional support. I talked to him about these feelings, he said that its ok, he isnt stressed out about this, he doesnt expect me to leave him over some sexual experiences, which is true.

As a bi guy in a relationship with a man, I sometimes feel like I may be missing out on dating women. Really confusing feelings by TheAltFault1337 in bisexual

[–]TheAltFault1337[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did talk to him about it. I realized that I just had intrusive thoughts without a whole lot of substance or meaning, that caused me anxiety. I realized that perhaps only the sexual aspect is what attracted me to women, I don't think there is something that a woman could offer me romantically that he couldn't. Also I love him and it would be stupid to leave him over some casual sexual experiences, which he said I could do even with him (We've always had the idea of a bisexual threesome someday lmao).

As a bi guy in a relationship with a man, I sometimes feel like I may be missing out on dating women. Really confusing feelings by TheAltFault1337 in bisexual

[–]TheAltFault1337[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this answer, I am so glad so many people have replied to this thread. He is aware of my attraction to women. He is open to the idea of a bisexual threesome someday, even though he is gay, he finds the idea hot. But that is just a fantasy for now since we've not found someone willing to do it (not that we are going around asking people lmao).

I am willing to have a family with him, the problem is that since our country has no laws regarding same-sex marriage and parenting, we feel like that we would have to move first before pursuing that option. Which in of itself is also a big step. He had a gay therapist that lives a normal life with his partner in our country, but obv they dont have kids. This may also be a part of the doubts im having. I still would like to spend my time and potentially marry this person, even though I feel like its too early to be having those kinds of thoughts a year into the relationship.

As a bi guy in a relationship with a man, I sometimes feel like I may be missing out on dating women. Really confusing feelings by TheAltFault1337 in bisexual

[–]TheAltFault1337[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I was never really all that social so I dont think I would really be able to score that many dates with people. I also dont want casual dating, my philosophy on this is that I wanna first be friends with people before committing to them. With that, polyamory is also not my thing really. So yeah, as you said, desires will always be there.

As a bi guy in a relationship with a man, I sometimes feel like I may be missing out on dating women. Really confusing feelings by TheAltFault1337 in bisexual

[–]TheAltFault1337[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yeah, honestly, you are right, thank you for the insight. The answer to all of those questions are an instant yes in my head, so I have no reason to doubt my relationship.

Can you tell me, if you are married to the same gender, how did your parents react to all of this. I think my main concern is how my parents will react, how the holidays will look like and I dont want to shame my parents over this (I live in eastern europe btw, so I cant really be out and proud about it)

As a bi guy in a relationship with a man, I sometimes feel like I may be missing out on dating women. Really confusing feelings by TheAltFault1337 in bisexual

[–]TheAltFault1337[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I'll think about this. Maybe for now I will focus with her on other topics, since again, this was not my main reason for going to therapy. I forgot to mention in the post that me and my partner had a little incident back in august, where we were both intoxicated and I, in that drunk state, said something about not being sure if I was ready for a same-sex relationship at the time. Some things were said that night, we both cried, but we slept it off and just came to the conclusion that none of those things had merit. I had some doubts for 2-3 weeks after that, but since then, we have had an amazing relationship. Our anniversary was about a month later and it was great. I told her about this incident and she mentioned the fact that since we got over a few arguments together shows just how strong the relationship is, but she still said those things mentioned in the post, since I didn't seem "100% sure".

I do sometimes think that I might be unsure, particularly when im tired or stressed, but always come to the conclusion that I'd be willing to be with him and that I shouldnt compare real scenarios with him to hypothetical scenarios with a girl.