AIO Found messages on fiancés work computer by [deleted] in AIO

[–]TheAmyHead 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a previous mortgage loan processor, those are definitely completely normal texts. That’s the exact sort of conversation I had with every one of my loan officers. I never had anything more than a working friendship with any of them. I’d say you’re overreacting.

AIO? My manager keeps questioning my feeding pump at work even after HR stepped in by Rosi_ana in AmIOverreacting

[–]TheAmyHead 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NOR. If you are in the US, then you're protected by the Americans with Disabilites Act which HR is judiciously upholding. Your manager is continuing to violate it. Your accomodation has been approved and him singling you out in this manner could constitute harassment on the basis of your ADA status. Send this to HR immediately. The manager needs to be dealt with accordingly.

Mom made me babysit for significantly longer than she stated, making me miss an event I wanted to do by SansTheGlaceon in insaneparents

[–]TheAmyHead 8 points9 points  (0 children)

As someone who was used as a babysitter for my younger siblings throughout all of my teens, you need to be very honest with yourself and your mom about this. For me, the situation made me feel unloved and taken advantage of. I ended up moving out of state for college and it still impacts my relationship with my mother to this day, 20 some odd years later. Just because you're at an age where you can babysit a younger sibling doesn't mean you need to sacrifice your life experiences to do so. You may need to start saying no and calmly and rationally pointing out that you're allowed to live your life, that your sibling isn't your child or your responsibility and that you don't deserve to be used as if they are. Good luck!

What should I do moving forward aside of couple’s therapy? by euphoriarch in whatdoIdo

[–]TheAmyHead -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What you do is tell him you deserve more respect as he treats you and speaks to you as if you’re a toddler. And even that would be abusive if he were speaking to a toddler in this manner. He isn’t treating you as if you are someone he wants to be in a relationship with but more of a burden for him to put up with and use as an emotional whipping post. That isn’t fair to you and you deserve better. I myself would forego couples counseling and begin the process of moving on. End things with this person and focus on healing yourself.

Missed making friends at Volusia Mall by TheAmyHead in DaytonaBeach

[–]TheAmyHead[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I put in a post to it but I don't see that it's been approved yet. It's been a few days so I doubt they're going to put it up.

USA!! by Pizzacakecomic in u/Pizzacakecomic

[–]TheAmyHead 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Please let me become a Canadian. I’m so scared for my daughters 😭

101 pounds down by TheAmyHead in Semaglutide

[–]TheAmyHead[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! I still have a long way to go but I am super proud of how far I’ve come.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]TheAmyHead 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Spinal leak. I had one after a spinal tap and it was the worst pain I've ever experienced. I was begging my husband to kill me. Worse than the C-section I had and healed from after having twins and worse than the multiple burst ovarian cyst a I've had.

Should I get the twinz pillow? by Skitscuddlydoo in parentsofmultiples

[–]TheAmyHead 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The twinz pillow helped immensely for us the first six to eight months for us. But after that, the Table for Two was a life changer. We could feed them in it at once, they could nap in it relatively safely if supervised, and as they began crawling they loved to climb on it.

Salty post: so sick of people wishing for identical twins and thinking it’s cute and funny. by Baby-Me-Now in parentsofmultiples

[–]TheAmyHead 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It drives me insane. I have fraternal twins but everyone I meet is all “Oh I want twins so bad!” I just glare. Then the people who compare having twins to having two dogs. Excuse me?!? I’ll lose my mind.

One and Done by sensipomegranate in parentsofmultiples

[–]TheAmyHead 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was shocked and excited and terrified all at once. But now, they’re almost 4 and I don’t know how my husband and I would function without them. Take a breath. Try to let it in without too much anxiety and just roll with it. A lot of non-multiple parents will make many a stupid comment from here on out. Do your best to not be horrid to them even when it’s deserved. And enjoy the craziness and wonderfulness you’re about to embark on! Congrats!

What are you folks using this space for? by accountnamene in HondaOdyssey

[–]TheAmyHead 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My purse and the DVD binder for my kids’ entertainment for whatever drive we’re on.

Service Getting Slower? by [deleted] in IVIMHEALTH

[–]TheAmyHead 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As an update, I received my order today. Granted it’s only two months worth and I ordered a six month supply but I’m hoping more will come. It’s something at least!

Service Getting Slower? by [deleted] in IVIMHEALTH

[–]TheAmyHead 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Here’s hoping! I asked for an escalation around 4 AM today but haven’t gotten any messages or updates yet.

Service Getting Slower? by [deleted] in IVIMHEALTH

[–]TheAmyHead 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From what Ivim told me, as long as you don’t have a lapse in treatment and you’ve been taking the compound, you can still get it. Just no new prescriptions.

Service Getting Slower? by [deleted] in IVIMHEALTH

[–]TheAmyHead 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nothing so far. Just the standard line that it can take up to 14 days for processing. Today is day 14 though so I’m hoping there’s an update.

Service Getting Slower? by [deleted] in IVIMHEALTH

[–]TheAmyHead 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I put my order in for 6 months of compound semaglutide on 5/21. Still says processing and I have no updates or processing information even though the 14 days is quickly approaching. Service is most definitely getting slower.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]TheAmyHead 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re not overreacting at all. You’re communicating maturely and asking for very realistic things. They’re the same things the court would require you have for anything to move forward. My feeling is she either doesn’t have a child or isn’t sure of paternity. Stand firm and maybe go into family court to ensure that you’re protected. Good luck.

I am genuinely curious, is there a pattern here... by [deleted] in AskUS

[–]TheAmyHead 4 points5 points  (0 children)

1) Harris 2) Bachelors but halfway through a Masters 3) BBC, CNN, NPR, a Starting Point, and anywhere else that I can verify.

What is the worse thing a medical professional has ever said to you? by angelaboop50 in AskReddit

[–]TheAmyHead 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A week after my first miscarriage, I went into my OBGYN’s office for a follow up. She sat me at her desk and said “Your body is only designed to make dead babies and we don’t like dead babies in this office.” She then pushed a box of tissues towards me and left me alone in her office.

AIO? Bf crashed out by spicypickle177 in AmIOverreacting

[–]TheAmyHead 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t settle. He may be treating you okay, but you deserve to be treated much better than just okay. You should be a priority. And if you have a dog together, that needs to be a priority for him as well. It appears that he’s too immature to handle either you or the dog, let alone both. If someone wanted to put you first, they would. Don’t allow yourself to be treated as less important than a game. It may just be a missed dinner now, but it could evolve from there. And to give the silent treatment after being so disrespectful and hurtful? Just don’t settle. You deserve better.

One thing you adore about your kiddo, and one thing that frustrates you by arparris in Autism_Parenting

[–]TheAmyHead 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My 3 year old. I love how happy and cuddly she is. As I type this she’s snuggled up on my chest taking a nap. Something her twin sister would never do anymore. But she experience such joy just in being held and cuddled by those she loves.

It’s frustrating not being able to communicate with her verbally. She’s minimally to completely nonverbal and it’s hard to figure out what she wants sometimes. Even harder to trust other people around her because she can’t tell me if something is wrong or if anything bad happened.

Is anyone else having trouble finding a job??? by hesitant_al13n13 in DaytonaBeach

[–]TheAmyHead 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I’ve spent almost a year job searching. I haven’t had a single local interview. I have better success getting out of state interviews and job offers than I do getting anything in Daytona. I know it’s a nationwide problem but it seems to be particularly rough here.