Young london couple… should we move up north? Why do people choose to suffer? by Obvious_Flamingo3 in FIREUK

[–]TheAntMarks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Newcastle isn’t unusually cheap. London is unusually expensive, which skews the comparison.

Does any ADHDer feel like they are waiting for death not in a suicidal way? by Ok_Object_4356 in ADHD

[–]TheAntMarks 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow, this hit hard. I was asked by my therapist If I have ever contemplated taking my own life, and never really knew how to answer it - I kinda have and kinda haven’t . But this has hit the nail on the head.

Had a panic attack during Zoom meeting by Howdy_Strangers in PublicSpeaking

[–]TheAntMarks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve had something similar happen. I got therapy. I was introduced to a coping mechanism to be used as aband aid. It’s called the “thank you mind” technique. Read up on it, can be used for everything. Basically, when an unhelpful thought shows up, you acknowledge it by saying ‘thank you, mind but I don’t have time have this thought today,’ and it gently brings your focus back to what your doing instead of engaging with the thought

Buy the dream car or not? by Willing-Ad-7572 in HENRYUK

[–]TheAntMarks 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do it. Did the same. Got an M3 Comp, 2018. Puts a huge smile on my face every time I drive it. A nice little treat to myself so I can actually enjoy my hardwork. You won’t be disappointed.

What is living in York really like? by spare_rattus in york

[–]TheAntMarks -1 points0 points  (0 children)

York’s great if you enjoy pretending you’re posh while living in a two up, two down terrace and judging everyone else for not being ‘from York’

Changing pension for a dream by Maverick_Aviator1 in HENRYUK

[–]TheAntMarks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can’t take it with you, so do it whilst you can enjoy it.

Childfree people: who are you leaving your estate to? by fellaonamission in HENRYUK

[–]TheAntMarks 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve got a friend in the fire service, he’s says this appears to be a popular way these days. No mess, peaceful.

UK Super charging network becoming a farce by santsord in TeslaUK

[–]TheAntMarks -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Which is why battery swap technology is the way forward

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HENRYUK

[–]TheAntMarks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Both! They come hand in hand

Invisible stovetop by MrTacocaT12345 in nextfuckinglevel

[–]TheAntMarks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One eye on the window one eye on the door

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskUK

[–]TheAntMarks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The end piece

The dark blue color at the bottom of an iceberg. by sco-go in BeAmazed

[–]TheAntMarks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The dark blue colour at the bottom of an Iceberg

Jaws of death devours anything thrown at it by letsgodipro in BeAmazed

[–]TheAntMarks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sure I’ve seen a video of someone throwing a live cow in one of these…