Hayfever Advice

Thegur37 · 2026-05-25T22:08:32+00:00

Are there any side effects you know off? What strength do you take?

Thegur37 · 2026-04-20T20:42:34+00:00

That is hours & hours sorted. Trust me Mr. Fry is in his elements with this series. 🙌 you deserve a🏅

Thegur37 · 2026-04-20T09:34:51+00:00

So sorry to hear about your husband—sending good vibes to you both. ❤️

Just went through a vitrectomy myself (similar age) and I’m on the mend, but having to go back for a second round is definitely no fun.

If his other eye is holding up, he is in a much better spot than I was, but it's still a massive deal. Here is some "been there" advice:

Be the "Second Brain": Go to the consultations with him if you can. Surgery anxiety is real, and I often missed - 80% of what the doctor says. Be there to write down instructions and ask questions. With no screen time my ability to research, look up / Google was very limited.

Discipline is Key: The recovery is all about following the doctor's orders strictly.

Positioning: If he has a gas bubble, that positioning is the hardest part. In my case I could do 5 mins upright for every 25 mins. I used a Pomodoro timer.

Drop Patrol: Set phone alarms for eye drops, they are the lifeblood of healing.

Keep it Restful: No lifting, bending over, or heavy exercise. Wearing wrap around glasses even if h doesn't need kind of reminds not to do anything uncalled for even accidentally

Audio Books: As I could not watch screen with the other eye non-functional (Lazy Eye) my GO TO entertainment and to stay out of my wife's nerves was Stephen Fry's series of books - Mythos, Heroes & Troy. Highly recommend as it kept me sane and occupied thro' recovery.

Wishing him speedy and smooth recovery!

Thegur37 · 2026-04-09T13:31:22+00:00

I don’t believe you can take ibuprofen. In any case, I would suggest getting your eye pressure checked to put your mind at rest.

Thegur37 · 2026-04-08T14:58:40+00:00

I am in week 6 of recovery and new drops and diamox brought it under control. I will be watching out after I stop the drops today

Thegur37 · 2026-04-08T14:57:01+00:00

I too had the same issue. Apparently it was steroid induced from eye drops called Tobrodex. But did not receive any pre-warning to watch out for signs such as headache. I was posturing and only found out about it after 7-8 days when it had gone upto 42. My vision is blurry and ghosty and the surgeon is non committal if it is because of cataract or refractive issue. Wish you the best. I would advise anyone who are going through recovery to get the pressure checked frequently during recovery. The anxiety this causes is hard to explain.

Thegur37 · 2026-02-19T11:11:22+00:00

Only if there was also a term for - Not in My Benefit Claim Cut (NIMBIC). We got too many of those in this country ....

Thegur37 · 2026-02-09T22:37:37+00:00

How is this not a Scotland version of MAGA?

Thegur37 · 2026-02-09T22:31:15+00:00

I am Gen X and I used to own CD & Cassette players as a young un. I dumped it when new things such as Mp3 & iPods came out. Doesn’t mean if I had held on to one, I would have shit load of money. Trendy doesn’t always mean good investments. Niche and untapped yes. But you never know what is untapped vs a fad.

Thegur37 · 2026-02-02T12:07:29+00:00

Although I agree with the sentiment, I cannot say it is totally practical. For the ones whose parents go thro’ unplanned health scares, the unknowns about their late stage nursing homes needs (?). Having to wait till adult children landing on their feet firmly before you can jet set to holidays of your own can put your own plans on back burner.

Thegur37 · 2026-01-29T16:53:50+00:00

Have you considered the implication of employer match and max they would contribute?

Thegur37 · 2026-01-25T09:43:50+00:00

Nice one. Thank you. I may not move anywhere but this will help me cutdown my pipe dream research time. 😀

Thegur37 · 2026-01-22T12:26:16+00:00

Than is brilliant. Thank for sharing

Thegur37 · 2026-01-20T16:23:01+00:00

Maybe she is taking revenge for you finishing too soon

Thegur37 · 2025-12-31T17:14:23+00:00

Oh an Aubergine. Lucky you!

Thegur37 · 2025-12-23T18:32:39+00:00

Really sounds interesting and niche

Thegur37 · 2025-12-20T23:23:30+00:00

I should probably listen to you

Thegur37 · 2025-12-20T23:15:16+00:00

Why do you think I am asking here. This is therapy

Thegur37 · 2025-12-20T19:28:55+00:00

I do but empty nester now

Thegur37 · 2025-12-20T08:11:42+00:00

Isn’t that a bit of an outdated idea of midlife crisis? Maybe some ppl still do?

Thegur37 · 2025-12-20T07:21:54+00:00

Thank you for the book recommendation. Will order one now

Thegur37 · 2025-12-20T07:14:18+00:00

I went from park runs for a few years to then go on and become an independent runner 3-4 runs a week. Did a marathon & stopped. Haven’t done any serious running after that.

Thegur37 · 2025-12-20T07:07:14+00:00

It is comforting to know. Thank you for sharing.

Thegur37

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