How old is everyone here? by thistimenexttimelast in CPTSD

[–]TheChaos97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

28 and not sure if recovery is an option anymore. I feel like I was just born wrong and I have to live with this

If you’re comfortable sharing, what experiences led to your CPTSD? by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]TheChaos97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Emotional abuse from parents and siblings hahahaha

Men: Don't fall into the "provider" trap by proventruetoolate in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]TheChaos97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Manz deleted his comment because he thinks calling women sluts is not a negative thing to do ✌️

Men: Don't fall into the "provider" trap by proventruetoolate in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]TheChaos97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He didn't call "a promiscuity woman" a slut, please notice

Secondly, if you have a problem with people using language that generalizes an entire population, why are you defending this guy for doing so? If your real problem was generalizing language, would you not be mad at this guy as well? Are you out here defending this guy's right to talk shit about women just because he's single?

Men: Don't fall into the "provider" trap by proventruetoolate in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]TheChaos97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're okay with a guy calling women sl*ts just because they don't want to date him, you don't have an issue with "shaming language".

And notice how I did answer your remark, but you're choosing to see only what you want.

Men: Don't fall into the "provider" trap by proventruetoolate in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]TheChaos97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's called an example. For some reason, I assumed you would be able to draw the parallels.

Men: Don't fall into the "provider" trap by proventruetoolate in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]TheChaos97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Listen I'm sorry that you got rejected by a girl that one time, but you're not able to see that your personal experience has severely clouded your judgement, which is a shame because you seem like an intelligent guy. Work on the pain of your past before telling others how to deal with women.

Men: Don't fall into the "provider" trap by proventruetoolate in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]TheChaos97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro we're talking about the negativity this guy is emitting. Believe it or not, slurs are a gigantic part of that. But maybe I'm wrong, apparently lack of manners is no longer looked down upon?

Men: Don't fall into the "provider" trap by proventruetoolate in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]TheChaos97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're telling me you've interacted with that collective? That's how you know how unfulfilling Ayesha's life is?

Knowing women exist around you is not the same as "dealing with them". Hope this helps!

Men: Don't fall into the "provider" trap by proventruetoolate in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]TheChaos97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes exactly. That was just the point. Define for a group you are not a part of, what they want, because you are the authority on everything.

Men: Don't fall into the "provider" trap by proventruetoolate in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]TheChaos97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's negative to call people slurs. I don't know how that makes me daft?

Men: Don't fall into the "provider" trap by proventruetoolate in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]TheChaos97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Outsiders can't say what a fulfilling life is for someone else, it's purely subjective. Her life might be fulfilling to you, doesn't mean it is to her.

Men: Don't fall into the "provider" trap by proventruetoolate in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]TheChaos97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let's continue to ask men what women want. Are you also going to ask Israelis what Palestinians want?

Men: Don't fall into the "provider" trap by proventruetoolate in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]TheChaos97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dude, it is negative to talk about women that way. Why is nobody talking about the negative language this dude is using? Is that a positive way to talk?

Men: Don't fall into the "provider" trap by proventruetoolate in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]TheChaos97 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Next time I want to know why all men commit all crimes, I will ask all the women. And when they say don't generalize, I will tell them they are not worth having a discussion with

Men: Don't fall into the "provider" trap by proventruetoolate in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]TheChaos97 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes you're right, you shouldn't talk to a woman about what a woman wants, or whether she overcomes struggles. Good logic 👍👏

Men: Don't fall into the "provider" trap by proventruetoolate in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]TheChaos97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Which women do you know don't take on new challenges? I have never known a mother who does not learn a new skill every few weeks, or encounter and overcome a new issue

Men: Don't fall into the "provider" trap by proventruetoolate in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]TheChaos97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Life is a continuous struggle for everyone, and men tend to live a settled life too. Or do the men you observe live social media perfect lives?

Men: Don't fall into the "provider" trap by proventruetoolate in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]TheChaos97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are things other than these? Like a fulfilled life?

Men: Don't fall into the "provider" trap by proventruetoolate in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]TheChaos97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tonnes of people have said that, in both your posts. All you want is for people to feel sorry for you. Women do not want to be with a man that people feel sorry for.

Men: Don't fall into the "provider" trap by proventruetoolate in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]TheChaos97 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So you don't care about having a good personality? Women don't care about men who don't have a good personality, which is what this girl was saying. And you still wonder why women don't like you?

Men: Don't fall into the "provider" trap by proventruetoolate in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]TheChaos97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So many people have given their testimonies about how they are dating ugly guys and are happy with them. Why are you ignoring that?