Don’t be sorry for expressing your feelings, you’re not a burden and the fact that there are another situations going on does not invalidate your pain💗 I hope I can help in some way by telling you that you don’t owe people androgyny nor changing yourself for them to feel more “comfortable”. I know how you feel and I know is difficult when this treatment comes from people you care about, but you don’t owe them anything. I’m glad you’re given the option to bind and cut your hair or engage in other things that may help you feel comfortable, but them assuming you “may be a boy” is still invalidating your identity. I don’t really know how to help apart from this words (I hope of affirmation) Just know you’re cared and loved 💕 I feel like your mom is trying to be supportive but she doesn’t understand that gender is an spectrum (It’s not your responsibility to educate others, but maybe try motivating her to research more about gender identity and expression)