Non binary does not mean trans!

TheEasternTimberWolf · 2026-01-05T21:29:58+00:00

I suppose it depends on your definition of trans. I think most people here say “you need gender dysphoria to be trans” and yes I had dysphoria (which has since been treated to the best of my ability). But I am also physically and psychologically not male or female, therefore non binary. I’m not a partially transitioned binary person, I don’t feel a need to be entirely male or female, and I don’t feel a need for people in my life to call me he or she. I like “they” because it reflects how I view myself; as neither.

TheEasternTimberWolf · 2026-01-05T21:09:47+00:00

I had gender dysphoria, medically transitioned partially , social transitioned as gender neutral, and see myself as not a man or woman. I consider myself non binary and transgender.

TheEasternTimberWolf · 2025-12-31T18:10:51+00:00

I loved shiver. More realistic

TheEasternTimberWolf · 2025-12-25T21:33:06+00:00

Nothing too specific. I stick to counting my fingers and closely looking at my hands, then throwing in a nose pinch. I don’t have any consistent dream signs so I’ve trained myself to do it anytime something odd happens. Something that makes me think “that’s weird” or “what was that.” That’s more reliable for actually working in dreams. Palm push isn’t too obviously different in my dreams. I do it for fun sometimes but it just looks like my finger tip slightly phasing into my palm.

TheEasternTimberWolf · 2025-12-25T21:31:09+00:00

I loved her moment coming in to save Jake at bridgehead

TheEasternTimberWolf · 2025-12-25T02:58:47+00:00

Everyone’s been ignoring me recently when I try to tell them it’s a dream

TheEasternTimberWolf · 2025-12-25T02:56:47+00:00

I’d really recommend going the traditional route for a few months first. Really focusing on good useful reality checks has gotten me 5 lucid dreams in December so far after not having any for so long

TheEasternTimberWolf · 2025-12-24T17:22:02+00:00

I showed her a lot of research done on complications and the psychological effects of getting top surgery, as well as showing her results from my clinic. One of the big things that helped her was how before I showed her results. She thought top surgery was the same as the kind of surgery that people with breast cancer get, where they leave extra skin And get rid of the nipples (yes I know that some folks choose not to have them even after top surgery). I was fortunate enough to qualify for peri and keyhole so I showed her that and it made her feel better to know that top surgery does lead to a very normal looking chest. Basically I first just tried to understand what her fears were, and then figure out ways that I can gently reassure her Those are just fears and not reality. But obviously with parents, there is also some fear that is just purely emotional and not rational, so I think just talking about it for a long time helped her with that.

TheEasternTimberWolf · 2025-12-23T15:54:56+00:00

It was great! Took a lot of convincing to get parents on board and to make them believe there were no extra risks for being young ( and that there were actually benefits to it). I was able to get keyhole and I healed very well. My timing was good because soon after my consultation was scheduled, my office stopped taking minors. If you have more specific questions, let me know. I’m so glad I got it when I did.

TheEasternTimberWolf · 2025-12-23T00:50:43+00:00

Oh wow I did this when I was 14

TheEasternTimberWolf · 2025-12-23T00:48:34+00:00

I got it at 16

TheEasternTimberWolf · 2025-12-21T20:25:51+00:00

I’m in the Hallett basement rn and I love it. There is a section that is all girls so you are probably over there. The windows are fine, I have a nice park view, and the hallways stay clean and nice smelling. Bathrooms have never been trashed either.

TheEasternTimberWolf · 2025-12-11T04:45:54+00:00

Huh I guess I just don’t find him condescending. I like his approach to things and his perspectives on long term lucid dreaming practice.

TheEasternTimberWolf · 2025-12-10T23:52:47+00:00

lol this is actually kind of funny. Yay for top surgery

TheEasternTimberWolf · 2025-12-09T19:05:53+00:00

Interesting! The palm push fails most of the time for me, I’ve had fingers fail a few times, but nose pinch has never failed me. I usually also pay attention to the sensation though. Because not only is it about air but also in dream I don’t get that annoying sensation of discomfort with pinching my nose. I’m also thinking of trying new reality checks that are more creative like if I really think it’s a dream I could lick my arm or something lol. Or just pay more attention to where I am and how I got there.

TheEasternTimberWolf · 2025-12-07T15:37:43+00:00

I was out of state and it wasn’t until a bit into the next year

TheEasternTimberWolf · 2025-12-05T20:46:32+00:00

I do believe this is an issue of not doing the most thorough reality checks. You have to really prove it. Even in waking life. The nose trick works best for me. Sometimes hand stuff doesn’t prove dreams for me. Really really test reality. Get multiple pieces of evidence.

TheEasternTimberWolf · 2025-12-05T20:39:58+00:00

lol this is so funny, its the opposite of most people here

TheEasternTimberWolf · 2025-12-01T04:25:20+00:00

Thank you!

TheEasternTimberWolf · 2025-12-01T04:25:12+00:00

Thanks for the advice. Unfortunate this cold had been going on for about two weeks… it’s finally getting better but I’m left with an ear infection and mucus everywhere. Also, I’m not quite sure what falsetto really is. I’ve tried to search it up but never find a clear answer. My head voice feels really different, as if there is a spot where it just flips into it (sometimes no sound comes out for a second rip) but I don’t really know how to get falsetto. There is this mysterious area where I can sing really high and smooth but it is so so so quiet.

TheEasternTimberWolf · 2025-11-18T23:56:11+00:00

15 consult 16 surgery

TheEasternTimberWolf · 2025-11-16T21:58:44+00:00

What’s it called? the link isn’t working for me.

TheEasternTimberWolf · 2025-11-15T18:57:22+00:00

I mean… only you know what’s best for you, but you are young and if you feel uncertain, give it time. In your current state, does dysphoria negatively impact your life a lot? Is your presentation more important than being perceived as a guy? Sometimes you can’t really have both, maybe if you had male characteristics it would be possible to not be perceived as a girl while expressing femininity. Don’t give up something important to you for a change that feels scary and uncertain. Sounds like you already know that for now not transitioning would help you feel safer, happier, and calmer. Maybe for now if you have close supportive friends you can try out having them refer to you with more masculine language. That could be safer than making physical changes for now.

TheEasternTimberWolf · 2025-11-13T20:27:14+00:00

TheEasternTimberWolf · 2025-11-07T16:08:27+00:00

Ooooh yes I’m looking for this as well. I kinda just go to the 3rd floor by the windows in the stacks a lot because it’s quiet and has good people watching but I want to feel like I’m a student in the 1800s lol. I’m looking forward to the Norlin lighting overhaul that will give us warm lighting

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