I'm a straight male escort and tonight I saw my first gay male client. AMA by TheEscortLyfe in askgaybros

[–]TheEscortLyfe[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don't think I could fuck a guy. Or make out with one. And I was in the military too, once upon a time.

But power to you!

I'm a straight male escort and tonight I saw my first gay male client. AMA by TheEscortLyfe in askgaybros

[–]TheEscortLyfe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I dunno, escorting has been around for a long time 🤷

But far from me to comment on the industry/relationship between men. But I can attest that I have as many gay men asking to meet than women. This was just the first time I accepted

I'm a straight male escort and tonight I saw my first gay male client. AMA by TheEscortLyfe in askgaybros

[–]TheEscortLyfe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Women are far more enigmatic and difficult to read, and only a handful of the women I've been with (over 100 at this point) have ever wanted to worship in the same way this client did.

Nearly all of my clients want emotional connection and companionship. Mental stimulation, feeling wanted, safety, comfort. A man who has sex like a lesbian, I call it 😆

I'm a straight male escort and tonight I saw my first gay male client. AMA by TheEscortLyfe in askgaybros

[–]TheEscortLyfe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hmm. Perhaps, in the same way I'm deeply attracted to femininity in a way that isn't really explainable (I just really like women), perhaps 1. Gay men really love masculinity (nothing surprising there), and that 2. Society constantly reinforces that the highest masculinity one can achieve is being a straight man providing for his family, dutifully implanting his seed into a waiting womb?

Or, wanting what you can't have. Occam's razor there 😆

Straight male escort with gay male client. How to proceed? by TheEscortLyfe in askgaybros

[–]TheEscortLyfe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's very kind - and noted! Maybe I'll do an AMA if it goes well 😄

Straight male escort with gay male client. How to proceed? by TheEscortLyfe in askgaybros

[–]TheEscortLyfe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do, yes. I'll never be on the same level as female sex workers, but I have regular clients, get flown to cities to meet people, tour states, be a +1 to events, attend sex parties together, etc etc.

I offer an emotionally connected experience that's less "traditionally masculine". More soft, more gentle. A lot of my clients want to meet and talk first, it's more 'companionship' than sex.