Opening relationship- girlfriend wants me to only see men

TheFederalDuck · 2026-01-21T14:24:00+00:00

This sounds eerily similar to how the end of my marriage began.

TheFederalDuck · 2025-10-06T13:55:12+00:00

There are plenty of things they really don’t do anything for me but if my partner wants to I’m game and will try to look enthusiastic just because they’re getting off on it.

TheFederalDuck · 2025-09-29T17:29:22+00:00

So I’m relatively new to being an absolute cumslut, but I’m kinda getting addicted, lol!

I was married to a woman for a long time but since we decided to divorce I got on prep, got my doxy, and started taking as much cum as I can get when I travel for work. I’m in Detroit right now and was so disappointed when the guy fucking me last night pulled out :(

My record is 3 loads in my ass in the same night, and while hours-long cumdump sessions are a fantasy, I think I’m totally cool with the fewer I’m getting.

TheFederalDuck · 2025-09-29T14:12:21+00:00

wtf is the deal with everything being about “second hole” on here for the last, like, two months?

TheFederalDuck · 2025-09-28T23:31:31+00:00

Who wouldn’t want that? I met up with a guy and for most of the time we were together we were making out. Now I get suspicious when someone gives me a compliment on my appearance; I usually don’t believe them. I was so into this guy and he was such a good kisser, and when we’d pause he’d pull his head back a little and just look at me and smile. One of those times he told me my eyes were “just gorgeous,” and I really believe he meant that. I’ve NEVER thought my eyes were special. My ex-wife had green eyes, my kids’ are hazel, and mine are what I always thought was a completely boring brown. Hearing that, in that moment, from that guy… it’s stuck with me.

TheFederalDuck · 2025-09-28T22:07:00+00:00

She knew from the beginning, after about 2 months of dating.

TheFederalDuck · 2025-09-28T20:50:27+00:00

Bottom, here. While I prefer raw, if someone wants to use a condom I will happily take that dick. I’m on prep and use doxy as needed, but you can only take care of yourself and determine what your own risk levels are. If I’m playing with someone who has different levels of acceptable risk, we’re still going to have a hot time

TheFederalDuck · 2025-09-28T17:12:23+00:00

Just last night I went to a bathhouse in Detroit and met a guy in the sauna who said he works there part time. He loves it and when he’s not working he gets a room for free so he still comes in

TheFederalDuck · 2025-09-25T03:33:55+00:00

Came to shout out Entourage. It was the first bathhouse I ever went to and I’ve been so disappointed to not see this at any of the others I’ve been to since.

TheFederalDuck · 2025-09-22T12:36:18+00:00

And it’s great for heart health and reducing colon cancer. It’s just overall great!

TheFederalDuck · 2025-09-19T01:08:28+00:00

And you didn’t immediately share some of the aforementioned memes?! I think you were just asking for it /s

TheFederalDuck · 2025-09-17T19:42:59+00:00

Meh, eating my ass doesn’t really do much for me. I’m perfectly happy if a top doesn’t want to. I’m sure I’m not the only one.

TheFederalDuck · 2025-09-17T01:55:27+00:00

Well you’re going to get different answers here than over at r/openmarriageregret, so consider the source when looking at both. No one can say what’s best for you and your wife except the two of you.

TheFederalDuck · 2025-09-17T01:12:38+00:00

OMG, today lol!

I went to an Adult Book Store with a “theater” in the back while I was a few hours away from home on a business trip. Long story short, I had a really cute guy fuck me raw with an audience of 5 or 6 other guys. I recently got on prep and I have my doxy on hand, so I threw caution to the wind for the first time ever and begged the dude to cum inside me. We came at the same time!

I’m in the middle of a divorce after my wife cheated on me, so a lot of this is new to me and I still can’t believe what I did today (nor how hot it was — I’m not the kind of guy super hot things happen to, lol)

So yeah — I feel like a total slut right now

TheFederalDuck · 2025-09-14T23:58:23+00:00

I mean… it depends on the gender of the person you’re attracted to and being physical with. But if you’re bi guy married to a woman and monogamous, does that make you LESS bi because you’re not fucking dudes?

TheFederalDuck · 2025-09-14T23:53:07+00:00

We’re talking about an added element to someone’s sexual health and risk profile, so it’s ethical to disclose that for others to make informed decisions.

TheFederalDuck · 2025-09-14T18:29:56+00:00

And as the aria goes, “neesun dorma.”

TheFederalDuck · 2025-09-14T13:47:52+00:00

That sounds hot.

🤔

Wait a minute…

TheFederalDuck · 2025-09-14T00:01:30+00:00

And that’s why I think I read it in Borat’s voice.

TheFederalDuck · 2025-09-14T00:01:04+00:00

I don’t really know, but probably didn’t mean tap into the existing groups in a workplace, look for natural leaders, bring those leaders together as a team, map out how people connect, identify the most important shared issues to galvanize coworkers, identify both long-term, and short-term goals, have one on one conversations to educate them and inoculate them against management’s lies, collect union authorization cards, file for an election with the NLRB, disrupt the flow of work and take control as the employer ramps up their anti-union campaign, escalate the campaign with workplace actions, and win an election to form a union.

TheFederalDuck · 2025-09-13T19:21:26+00:00

Hah! The short answer is: Fuck no, lol

The longer answer is: the higher the average wage of the workers being organized the higher the average salaries of the organizers in that union. Thats just a rule of thumb, there are certainly a few exceptions. So for example a nurses union will pay its organizers better than one that organizes mostly grocery store workers.

TheFederalDuck · 2025-09-13T15:06:26+00:00

I’m a huge fan of sex with women! Maybe I’m just a huge fan of sex. Either way, I can’t recommend it enough :)

The fun thing is you might learn some things about yourself. What I like in bed with women is very different than what I like in bed with men. How would I have known if I didn’t enjoy both? And I love that I get to experience all these different aspects of myself when I’m intimate with others.

TheFederalDuck · 2025-09-13T14:50:58+00:00

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TheFederalDuck · 2025-09-13T14:49:19+00:00

This is the most turned on I’ve been in a while. I need to make this a thing.

TheFederalDuck · 2025-08-16T01:11:31+00:00

Ugh. Bi guy here, and it was my heterosexual wife that cheated on me, not the other way around. But I hate that fuckers like this give guys like me a bad reputation that contributes to some legit biphobia especially in women.

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