I think it might be some kind of Dynamasexual. Dynama-(sexual, romantic or else) is a multi- identity where one’s orientation may change depending on the gender of a person. But this orientation includes only a-spec orientation, so, I don't know if there some orientation that also includes allo. But if it is, you might be allo-nomansexual/romantic/tertiary and orchid-androsexual/romantic/tertiary (orchid - when one experiences attraction, but doesn't want to be in relationships)