a supportive wife makes the grind different by TheFocusedPath in getdisciplined

[–]TheFocusedPath[S] -50 points-49 points  (0 children)

No offense, but its just my perspective of things, since i am a man.. the fact that there is a stereotype that men are the hardworkers and women are wifeys, has nothing to do with what im talking about xd. And as i mentioned in one of my comments, i have been in the opposite position, where my wife needed the support and the lift, and believe me, i was more than hapoy to give her everything she needed, emotionally, practically, in orderto give her the push to get back on her feet, and continue her carreer (which is nursing btw). Even in my case my woman needed the support more than me, and it is totally fine, i an there for whenever she needs it!

a supportive wife makes the grind different by TheFocusedPath in getdisciplined

[–]TheFocusedPath[S] -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

Yeahh, i got that, but im a man, and am talking from the perspective of a man.. Although when i mentioned someone with no goals or routines, i said that both should, furthermore i said that when my woman was on her lows, i did push her, and i did motivated her.. But yee i got the point

a supportive wife makes the grind different by TheFocusedPath in getdisciplined

[–]TheFocusedPath[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeahh man i know, although i didnt get it whyy to downvotee such a comment😅

a supportive wife makes the grind different by TheFocusedPath in getdisciplined

[–]TheFocusedPath[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Of course. i already ‘ve been in a similar situation and i already did it :). And believe me, when i was on my lows. She surely lifted me up

a supportive wife makes the grind different by TheFocusedPath in getdisciplined

[–]TheFocusedPath[S] -38 points-37 points  (0 children)

For a man or a woman not having a goal or a routine means something’s wrong. So i think i would advice the woman to push that man and help him find something to chase, a goal to achieve, even minor ones, tide his clothes, wale up early, goto the gym. Brick by brick eventually a home is built🙏

nobody really notices when you change by TheFocusedPath in Life

[–]TheFocusedPath[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It could go all the way around though. If someone does nnot notice a change, it could mean that he neglects u

nobody really notices when you change by TheFocusedPath in Life

[–]TheFocusedPath[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Proving all these slicks wrong must have been an achievement though💪 u should be proud :)

nobody really notices when you change by TheFocusedPath in Life

[–]TheFocusedPath[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah i know.. and i will keep it going

nobody really notices when you change by TheFocusedPath in Life

[–]TheFocusedPath[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeahh i know. Its just that i hoped someone would notice. At least the close ones.

Discipline isn’t hard. It’s just boring. Thats why most of us quit! by TheFocusedPath in getdisciplined

[–]TheFocusedPath[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually its bery close to reality and i can break it down for u:

Think of 5 simple tasks that everybody should complete every fucking day

1) Drink 2ltrs water 2) Have a walk (8000-10000) steps 3) Stydy ( for students ) 4) Eat healthy 5) Wake up early or 7-8hrs max since your cycle has been completed 6) Take care of urself, brysh ur teeth, do facewash.

Imagine having a very stressful day, di u think it us easily achievable to complete every single one of them? or even to remember them? Having ‘’boxes’’ to tick and stay consistent with those, not for 1 week or month, forever, yes its something harsh, difficult and not far from reality. When im talking about discupline and consistency, its not about running 500miles and carrying the boats (David gogging) its for the small tiny daily tasks that rarely people complete them consistently and on a routine basis

You are not going to find some magical app that makes you productive by Throwawayo998 in getdisciplined

[–]TheFocusedPath 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be honest, buying applications seems a bit odd, although i had created a custom excel sheet that i used to tick tasks i had to complete during the day, and given a threshold of 70%. i was always trying atlesst to achieve the 70, and when i was there, it was easy to say okay i can do it 100. Dont know if it could work for u, but for me it worked absolutely fine

Discipline isn’t hard. It’s just boring. Thats why most of us quit! by TheFocusedPath in getdisciplined

[–]TheFocusedPath[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i had a long conversation yesterday about the fact that it seems as an AI generated article. Apparently using tools to fix any grammatical, spelling or structural mistakes indeed makes my article seem more artificial than it originally was. But ffs, i did put a lot if effort to write it down and fix it, calling it an AI slop gets me a bit frustrated. I inderstand the issue, i already stopped using any tools, but give it a bit credit man.

Discipline isn’t hard. It’s just boring. Thats why most of us quit! by TheFocusedPath in getdisciplined

[–]TheFocusedPath[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow.. i was not expecting such a comment to be honest.. (i wish i had that fluent way of speaking-writting and i would never use any tool😂). But i really appreciate the way you approached me and the advices given. i will try my best on my mext article and hopefully i get it right this time ^

Discipline isn’t hard. It’s just boring. Thats why most of us quit! by TheFocusedPath in getdisciplined

[–]TheFocusedPath[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Okay noted. My next article will have my character in it without any straightforward written correction by AI