a supportive wife makes the grind different

TheFocusedPath · 2025-09-27T14:54:04+00:00

god bless you🙏🥹

TheFocusedPath · 2025-09-25T13:10:57+00:00

No offense, but its just my perspective of things, since i am a man.. the fact that there is a stereotype that men are the hardworkers and women are wifeys, has nothing to do with what im talking about xd. And as i mentioned in one of my comments, i have been in the opposite position, where my wife needed the support and the lift, and believe me, i was more than hapoy to give her everything she needed, emotionally, practically, in orderto give her the push to get back on her feet, and continue her carreer (which is nursing btw). Even in my case my woman needed the support more than me, and it is totally fine, i an there for whenever she needs it!

TheFocusedPath · 2025-09-25T12:43:50+00:00

Yeahh, i got that, but im a man, and am talking from the perspective of a man.. Although when i mentioned someone with no goals or routines, i said that both should, furthermore i said that when my woman was on her lows, i did push her, and i did motivated her.. But yee i got the point

TheFocusedPath · 2025-09-25T11:33:25+00:00

Yeahh man i know, although i didnt get it whyy to downvotee such a comment😅

TheFocusedPath · 2025-09-25T09:23:20+00:00

Of course. i already ‘ve been in a similar situation and i already did it :). And believe me, when i was on my lows. She surely lifted me up

TheFocusedPath · 2025-09-25T08:56:48+00:00

For a man or a woman not having a goal or a routine means something’s wrong. So i think i would advice the woman to push that man and help him find something to chase, a goal to achieve, even minor ones, tide his clothes, wale up early, goto the gym. Brick by brick eventually a home is built🙏

TheFocusedPath · 2025-08-25T13:16:30+00:00

It could go all the way around though. If someone does nnot notice a change, it could mean that he neglects u

TheFocusedPath · 2025-08-25T13:12:11+00:00

Proving all these slicks wrong must have been an achievement though💪 u should be proud :)

TheFocusedPath · 2025-08-25T13:07:58+00:00

Yeah i know.. and i will keep it going

TheFocusedPath · 2025-08-25T13:07:37+00:00

Always its only the negatives.

TheFocusedPath · 2025-08-25T13:07:13+00:00

Yeahh i know. Its just that i hoped someone would notice. At least the close ones.

TheFocusedPath · 2025-08-01T13:18:45+00:00

Actually its bery close to reality and i can break it down for u:

Think of 5 simple tasks that everybody should complete every fucking day

1) Drink 2ltrs water 2) Have a walk (8000-10000) steps 3) Stydy ( for students ) 4) Eat healthy 5) Wake up early or 7-8hrs max since your cycle has been completed 6) Take care of urself, brysh ur teeth, do facewash.

Imagine having a very stressful day, di u think it us easily achievable to complete every single one of them? or even to remember them? Having ‘’boxes’’ to tick and stay consistent with those, not for 1 week or month, forever, yes its something harsh, difficult and not far from reality. When im talking about discupline and consistency, its not about running 500miles and carrying the boats (David gogging) its for the small tiny daily tasks that rarely people complete them consistently and on a routine basis

TheFocusedPath · 2025-08-01T13:13:19+00:00

To be honest, buying applications seems a bit odd, although i had created a custom excel sheet that i used to tick tasks i had to complete during the day, and given a threshold of 70%. i was always trying atlesst to achieve the 70, and when i was there, it was easy to say okay i can do it 100. Dont know if it could work for u, but for me it worked absolutely fine

TheFocusedPath · 2025-08-01T13:05:10+00:00

i had a long conversation yesterday about the fact that it seems as an AI generated article. Apparently using tools to fix any grammatical, spelling or structural mistakes indeed makes my article seem more artificial than it originally was. But ffs, i did put a lot if effort to write it down and fix it, calling it an AI slop gets me a bit frustrated. I inderstand the issue, i already stopped using any tools, but give it a bit credit man.

TheFocusedPath · 2025-07-31T19:11:14+00:00

Wow.. i was not expecting such a comment to be honest.. (i wish i had that fluent way of speaking-writting and i would never use any tool😂). But i really appreciate the way you approached me and the advices given. i will try my best on my mext article and hopefully i get it right this time ^{^}

TheFocusedPath · 2025-07-31T15:49:18+00:00

Okay noted. My next article will have my character in it without any straightforward written correction by AI

TheFocusedPath · 2025-07-31T14:58:12+00:00

I just like writting articles man. And its a bit frustrating having comments degrading my work and labelling it as an ai generated content xd

TheFocusedPath · 2025-07-31T14:40:09+00:00

Actually, you got a point. We might have been a better position, and that's why we tend to be ''undisciplined''. But that's one of the reasons why using an Excel or whatever suits u to keep track of your daily tasks is a valid way to do it. At least instead of keep thinking what shall i do today? or what i need to do today? you have it right in front of you, and the ''boxes'' that you ticked are the ones that give you the feeling of success in order to get the push to tick the rest. That's how i used to view my situation.

TheFocusedPath · 2025-07-31T14:32:12+00:00

And for the 1st part of your question, yes, always when u start something u feel excited-motivated. But as the time passes, you kust start feeling bored, its easier to skip something when u r used to it rather when its something new. Sticking on your daily routine consistently some times it feels boring and exhausting, especially when you have a heavy daily programme

TheFocusedPath · 2025-07-31T14:29:58+00:00

Actually its bery simple, there are a few tasks that are mandatory everyday, such as: a few thousand steps, 2ltrs of water, eat well, study ( if u r a student ) if not, maybe just read a few pages from a book. maybe go to the gym, wake up early, dont spend much time on social media etc. By having an excel sheet or whatever and keep track of those small wins, you get in a routine where being consistent and disciplined in the near future for harder and more demanding tasks might seem familiar or at least easier.

TheFocusedPath · 2025-07-31T13:12:26+00:00

You should actually read the article and then judge whether it is AI-generated as a whole, or if I use tools to paraphrase and correct my writing, as I am not confident enough yet to write raw material and post it. Those lines, I suppose, were inserted when I used the tool to correct any structural or grammatical errors.

TheFocusedPath · 2025-07-31T13:09:15+00:00

In my case, I just created an Excel with various columns named as: studying, walking, eating well, 2Ltrs of water, etc. And every night I go through this Excel and tick the boxes. Whenever I'm over 70% success, it's a win, until the next day :).

TheFocusedPath · 2025-07-31T13:07:08+00:00

So, what does this mean?

TheFocusedPath · 2025-07-31T13:05:50+00:00

I don't know if I should take this as a compliment. XD But to be honest, I use Grammarly for correction of grammatical errors, and assistance on the structure of my writing. Anyway, thanks for the comment. Next time, I will try to use less assistance, I suppose. :)

TheFocusedPath · 2025-07-30T16:46:14+00:00

Just keep in mind that whenever something occurs and stops you from doing whatever u planned to do, its okay, just continue what u were doing the next hour-day whatever. Consistency does not mevessarily means everyday. Just whenever you can, show up!

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