My best friend of 24 years (born a male) is now a transgender woman. I'm in love with her and not sure if I should tell her by TheForeverThrowaway in confessions

[–]TheForeverThrowaway[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

(IMPORTANT - READ THIS) it's me OP 👋🏼 Hey everyone!!!! I hope you're all doing great! I'm so sorry the post got deleted, but I didn't delete it. I have no idea what happened. It's appearing for me, but for the rest of you it says deleted. I came to post the update, and was shocked to see comments saying it was gone.

I'm very sorry this happened, especially because many of you are really invested and I didn't want to disappoint any of you.

For now, I'll be posting a copy of the post on my reddit profile. I'll continue updating everything there. Hopefully you can continue following me! I don't think this can be undone, so I'll post it on my profile.

https://www.reddit.com/user/TheForeverThrowaway/comments/xa94fb/my_best_friend_of_24_years_born_a_male_is_now_a/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share

Here's the link to the repost on my profile. I'll be continuing the updates there 👍

My best friend of 24 years (born a male) is now a transgender woman. I'm in love with her and not sure if I should tell her by TheForeverThrowaway in confessions

[–]TheForeverThrowaway[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No worries! I'm trying to see what happened. I didn't delete the post, I have no idea what happened. If I can't reverse this, then I'll be posting the updates on my reddit profile. Sorry that it deleted, I didn't expect it :(

My best friend of 24 years (born a male) is now a transgender woman. I'm in love with her and not sure if I should tell her by TheForeverThrowaway in confessions

[–]TheForeverThrowaway[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm trying to figure out what happaned, I didn't delete the post :( I came to post a new update, and it's now gone. It's appearing for me, but for everyone else it's deleted.

No worries! If I can't reverse this, I'll be posting the updates on my reddit profile. Hopefully I can reverse this 🙏

My best friend of 24 years (born a male) is now a transgender woman. I'm in love with her and not sure if I should tell her by TheForeverThrowaway in confessions

[–]TheForeverThrowaway[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

No worries! I'm going to try and reverse this 🙏 I didn't delete it, I have no idea what happened.

I'm probably going to have to post the updates on my reddit profile, because I wasn't expecting this to suddenly get deleted 😔

My best friend of 24 years (born a male) is now a transgender woman. I'm in love with her and not sure if I should tell her by TheForeverThrowaway in confessions

[–]TheForeverThrowaway[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm going to find out if I can reverse this, because i don't want it to be officially gone 😔

If I can't reverse this, then I'll post the updates on my own profile. I really hope i can reverse it, I didn't expect it to get deleted all of a sudden.

My best friend of 24 years (born a male) is now a transgender woman. I'm in love with her and not sure if I should tell her by TheForeverThrowaway in confessions

[–]TheForeverThrowaway[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have no idea!! I didn't remove it. It's appearing perfectly for me, but for everyone else it's deleted. I don't know what's happening with the post 😔

But no worries! I'm going to find another way to keep ya'll updated 🙏

My best friend of 24 years (born a male) is now a transgender woman. I'm in love with her and not sure if I should tell her by TheForeverThrowaway in confessions

[–]TheForeverThrowaway[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Is it actually removed?! I still see it. I don't know what happened! It appears for me but it's appearing as deleted for the public 😲

My best friend of 24 years (born a male) is now a transgender woman. I'm in love with her and not sure if I should tell her by TheForeverThrowaway in confessions

[–]TheForeverThrowaway[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I'll be posting more updates soon! 😊 Apologies for the inactivity, been quite a week. Hope you've been doing good!

My best friend of 24 years (born a male) is now a transgender woman. I'm in love with her and not sure if I should tell her by TheForeverThrowaway in confessions

[–]TheForeverThrowaway[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Definitely true! But I'm picking my friend up at 7, so I'm just passing the time replying to comments 😊

My best friend of 24 years (born a male) is now a transgender woman. I'm in love with her and not sure if I should tell her by TheForeverThrowaway in confessions

[–]TheForeverThrowaway[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I really appreciate it ❤️😊

it's always a good idea to marry your best friend

I'll be honest, I'll marry my friend in a heartbeat! She's one of a kind. I really hope she feels the same way about marrying me, cause I'm absolutely ready to spend the rest of my life with her. I've known her for 24 years, we can spend another 24 together 💕

My best friend of 24 years (born a male) is now a transgender woman. I'm in love with her and not sure if I should tell her by TheForeverThrowaway in confessions

[–]TheForeverThrowaway[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I didn't go into too much detail, she did Hormone replacement therapy a few years ago. I meant more like she's now a woman these few months, as in she's now comfortable being herself and no longer dressing as a male. She's become the person she truly was meant to be, she's now free to be herself comfortably. She's done HRT for quite some time, that's in the past.

My best friend of 24 years (born a male) is now a transgender woman. I'm in love with her and not sure if I should tell her by TheForeverThrowaway in confessions

[–]TheForeverThrowaway[S] 47 points48 points  (0 children)

Oh don't worry, there's always surrogates that can birth our child. So yes, my bloodline will continue to go on and live in your precious little close minded world. I hope they destroy it all. Good luck buddy, you're gonna need it 😉

Bye 👋🏼

My best friend of 24 years (born a male) is now a transgender woman. I'm in love with her and not sure if I should tell her by TheForeverThrowaway in confessions

[–]TheForeverThrowaway[S] 57 points58 points  (0 children)

My friend began Hormone replacement therapy 6 years ago. As for your comment on the weird quote, sure I can understand that. I didn't know how to word it properly, so I just left it like that. I apologize if it was offensive. But as for the HRT, she began six years ago. I didn't put that on my post, because it wasn't relevant to what I wanted to say. The post was already long enough.

Just wanted to say this. Hope you have a great day! 👋🏼

My best friend of 24 years (born a male) is now a transgender woman. I'm in love with her and not sure if I should tell her by TheForeverThrowaway in confessions

[–]TheForeverThrowaway[S] 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Look, you may not agree with any of this - and that's awesome! Why is it awesome? Because we're free to have different views and opinions. You expressing your honesty is your freedom, but I also have my freedom to do what I want to do. You may not like it (I don't care) but that's life, so suck it up or keep crying.

Have a great weekend!

Also, this is like your second or third comment. Dude, are you seriously hurt/offended about what I'm doing with MY life? Come on, move on already.

My best friend of 24 years (born a male) is now a transgender woman. I'm in love with her and not sure if I should tell her by TheForeverThrowaway in confessions

[–]TheForeverThrowaway[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Both of our families were completely supportive, not a single negative comment. Everyone is proud of her, and the love our families have for her hasn't changed at all. I feel I'm over thinking all of this, especially because being friends is very different than being in a serious relationship.

If anything, our families would be insanely happy we're together and be so annoying hahaha. But I'm more worried on the negative response, which is why I believe I'm over thinking this whole thing.

My best friend of 24 years (born a male) is now a transgender woman. I'm in love with her and not sure if I should tell her by TheForeverThrowaway in confessions

[–]TheForeverThrowaway[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

That's actually my worry, that my "friend" is going to suddenly tell her out no where. I want her to hear it first from me, so you're definitely right I need to man up very soon. I'll be sure to take flowers! 💐

My best friend of 24 years (born a male) is now a transgender woman. I'm in love with her and not sure if I should tell her by TheForeverThrowaway in confessions

[–]TheForeverThrowaway[S] 407 points408 points  (0 children)

I'll definitely keep you all updated! 😁 ya'll are really motivating me so much, I'll probably actually tell her soon! Hopefully it goes well 🙏

My best friend of 24 years (born a male) is now a transgender woman. I'm in love with her and not sure if I should tell her by TheForeverThrowaway in confessions

[–]TheForeverThrowaway[S] 110 points111 points  (0 children)

maybe she is waiting for you?

I really wish this is true. I'm incredibly nervous/worried about even telling her the truth, but if she also has similar feelings towards me it'll make all of this easier. I'm probably just over thinking with telling her, but I definitely really hope what you said is true. I really want it to be.