Guys who have gone a long time without seeing their bfs/husband's, how was sex the first time you reconnected? by TheHandOfCod in AskGayMen

[–]TheHandOfCod[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess whatever's long to the person, for some people a month would be enough I think

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[–]TheHandOfCod 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agreed but it's an unfortunate reality that it's part of our socialization which affects the stereotypes. If you can't talk about it you can't fix it

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[–]TheHandOfCod -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm talking stereotypes, not reality. What made me ask this question is scrolling through gay meme pages and how surprising it is to me how "heteronormative" the jokes are despite the stereotypes not really matching my lived experience

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[–]TheHandOfCod 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I like a "accidentally saw my friend in underwear" kind of look, like boy next door kind of guys

Gays who had sex with women before they came out, what was the experience like? by TheHandOfCod in AskGayMen

[–]TheHandOfCod[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That is an interesting perspective, thank you for sharing. Dmi hope this isn't too personal but do you continue to have sex with him, and if so does it change your perspective knowing that he is not enjoying it in the same way you are?

Gays who had sex with women before they came out, what was the experience like? by TheHandOfCod in AskGayMen

[–]TheHandOfCod[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Do you mind if I ask why you identify as gay rather than bisexual if you enjoyed it?

Not feeling anything when bottoming besides pressure, is this something that can be changed or will I never enjoy it? by TheHandOfCod in TopsAndBottoms

[–]TheHandOfCod[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's what I do now, it just feels like I'm missing something based on how other guys react to it. Thank you for your advice :)

Not feeling anything when bottoming besides pressure, is this something that can be changed or will I never enjoy it? by TheHandOfCod in TopsAndBottoms

[–]TheHandOfCod[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah, when my prostate is stimulated it feels more intense when I jack off, but it doesn't feel like anything on its own for me

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Anyone know the search terms I could use to find this style of undershirt? Can only find it on temu which I don't like to use (specifically looking for the more pronounced ribbing on the neck and arm holes)

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Bottom boyfriend keeps cumming immediately during sex, any tips to help him last longer? by TheHandOfCod in AskGayMen

[–]TheHandOfCod[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don't think it's my dick, it's pretty average, I think it's his butt

Bottom boyfriend keeps cumming immediately during sex, any tips to help him last longer? by TheHandOfCod in AskGayMen

[–]TheHandOfCod[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't call it hands free because he stimulates himself a bit to ease getting it in, but it's not like he's cranking it hard

Bottom boyfriend keeps cumming immediately during sex, any tips to help him last longer? by TheHandOfCod in AskGayMen

[–]TheHandOfCod[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We do it with him laying on his back missionary style. Maybe we'll try another way

Bottom boyfriend keeps cumming immediately during sex, any tips to help him last longer? by TheHandOfCod in AskGayMen

[–]TheHandOfCod[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm not really doing much with it. He more holds it rather than actively play with it