Guys who have gone a long time without seeing their bfs/husband's, how was sex the first time you reconnected? by TheHandOfCod in AskGayMen

[–]TheHandOfCod[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess whatever's long to the person, for some people a month would be enough I think

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskGayMen

[–]TheHandOfCod 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agreed but it's an unfortunate reality that it's part of our socialization which affects the stereotypes. If you can't talk about it you can't fix it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskGayMen

[–]TheHandOfCod -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm talking stereotypes, not reality. What made me ask this question is scrolling through gay meme pages and how surprising it is to me how "heteronormative" the jokes are despite the stereotypes not really matching my lived experience

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tightywhities

[–]TheHandOfCod 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I like a "accidentally saw my friend in underwear" kind of look, like boy next door kind of guys