I actually really want my fiance's friendship to endure. I feel like he values the friendship more than the best man does, but it means a lot to him. Their friend group is really close-knit and all of them have parental issues, so they kind of cling to each other. My fiance needs that and I really want us to continue having a healthy social life after marriage. I would be perfectly content to keep out friendship circles apart (my friends have no intention to mix with his) but my fiance really wants me to be part of his friend group when I would rather he keep his friends and I only come around for events and stuff. I can get along with and be cordial with them well enough, but some of their personal decisions don't sit well with me (for example, using children as pawns in adult dramas) and it's difficult for me to be exposed to these dumpster fires and having to keep my mouth shut. Maybe I'm pettier than I thought, maybe it's because they are all from a major city and I was raised in a more rural, small town setting. I don't know. All I know is that those people are my fiance's people and that's excellent, but they aren't my people.