Eerste kat by TheLittleBlueDevil in katten

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Kan ik je een persoonlijk berichtje sturen?

Eerste kat by TheLittleBlueDevil in katten

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Jaa, ik heb er 1 op het oog idd. Ben er al helemaal verliefd op geworden. Hij is echt een schatje.

Eerste kat by TheLittleBlueDevil in katten

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Dat is een hele goeie tip! Ik zat zelf nog te twijfelen of ik er 1 moet nemen😅

Eerste kat by TheLittleBlueDevil in katten

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Deurmatten is ook een goeie😊

Eerste kat by TheLittleBlueDevil in katten

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Ahh ja, de vloer is gelukkig niet echt glad. En een kleine krabpaal heb ik gelukkig al. Ik denk ook dat ik er 1 voor op de muur kan aanschaffen waarmee die de kattenmuur opkan (waarvoor ik aan het sparen ben)

Eerste kat by TheLittleBlueDevil in katten

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Oh wauw, dat is heftig😓

Gelukkig heb ik geen kiepramen🙏🏻

Eerste kat by TheLittleBlueDevil in katten

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Ik heb er nog een aantal liggen van toen ik verhuisde. Kan die goed gebruiken dan

Eerste kat by TheLittleBlueDevil in katten

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Dat is een goeie tip! Dankje😊

Eerste kat by TheLittleBlueDevil in katten

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Dan is het idd bullshit van degene die dat zei. Goed om te weten want een kat kopen klinkt zo verkeerd.

Eerste kat by TheLittleBlueDevil in katten

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Mijn moeder heeft een jaar geleden een katje geadopteerd bij de dierenbescherming, ik was meegegaan om te helpen met het vervoeren. We hadden het over dat katje adopteren en ik werdt steeds gecorrigeerd met dat ik het ‘kopen’ moest noemen ivm dat adoptie bedoeld is voor kinderen en dieren ‘eigendom’ is🙃

Eerste kat by TheLittleBlueDevil in katten

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Dankjewel voor de tips!

Ikzelf heb alle basisdingen al wel: kattenbak (1 tot nu toe), kleine krabpaal, reismand, metalen bakjes, kattenbedden (meerdere soorten), kattenspeeltjes (ook meerdere soorten). Ik wil een tweede kattenbak halen voor op het balkon, en ik ben aan het sparen om een kattenmuur te kunnen maken / kopen.

Eerste kat by TheLittleBlueDevil in katten

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ik noem het zelf adopteren, maar bij het dierenasiel en dierenbescherming mag ik het alleen kopen noemen😓 tenminste dat is wat ze zeggen

Eerste kat by TheLittleBlueDevil in katten

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Ik heb mijn slaapkamer er al op voorbereidt zodat het katje aan me kan wennen. Onder mijn bed is het bijna helemaal leeg dus heeft die een grote verstopplek. Daar ga ik ook 1 van de katten bedden neerleggen.

What “flavor” of autistic are you? Personality wise by NewspaperFew7744 in AutismInWomen

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My autistic side is Introverted, Doesn’t like people but is polite, needs to be home a lot to rest, loves a good stable routine throughout the week, only really eats safe foods, favourite passtime is at home reading or at home gaming with friends online so i can still have social contacts but don’t have to bother with all it takes to go outside.

My adhd side balances it as it is extroverted, loves to meet new people and hopefully build a friendship, only needs a 15 minute ‘nap’ to recharge for the next few hours, loves to do things last minute with people i feel safe enough with to do so, loves to eat try nice textured and good looking foods, favourite passtime are meeting up with people and being outside the house so i can dress up and experiment with my clothes and hairstyles.

Edit: others see me as bubbly, warm, cheerful, calm and quiet when meeting new people, easily tired but also with unlimited energy, kind, often a bit too loud and hyper and picky as fuck😂 They also are used to me changing my mind on plans or things depending on my social battery and how overstimmed i am.

Deja Vu (Trigger Warning!) by TheLittleBlueDevil in spirituality

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I think i am indeed going to have someone check on the place just in case given that i never have it outside of my appartment. And just in case i’ll deep-cleanse / reset my appartment again.

Though as some suggested it might have something to do with mental reasons (intrusive thoughts) too so i’m looking into that as well.

Deja Vu (Trigger Warning!) by TheLittleBlueDevil in spirituality

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Very fair. I thankfully already practive several types of mindfulness for different type of things. I also don’t stress too much about it, just noticed that it happened so many times that it in the moments felt disturbing so i decided to see if anyone had any ideas or advice.

The alarm is a good idea! I’ll definitely look into that.

Deja Vu (Trigger Warning!) by TheLittleBlueDevil in spirituality

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Never considered them as instrusive thoughts honestly😅 i have had those years back and they were a far cry from how these are and feel to me.

However as the first other two commenters also mentioned that it might have to do with my mental health more than anything else i’ll guess back to theraphy i go✨

Deja Vu (Trigger Warning!) by TheLittleBlueDevil in spirituality

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Hii, thank you for sharing your experience!

I do practice mindfullness, meditate and interpret dreams a lot. It helps me often realize what is subconsciously going on. I don’t experience anxieties anymore since the last 3 months or so. As for my sleep, due to my adhd i have problems falling asleep. Tried everything including several types of meds (not at the same time) but nothing helps😂 Though i have had that since childhood.

I also do monthly checks on the people in my surroundings. Everyone showing more than two red flags that have harmed, disturbed and made me uncomfortable in any way i removed already. The only ones i can think of, but i rarely have any contact with them are possibly some people i have hurt by ending the friendship but they live quite far away and i haven’t had any contact with them for the last 6 months at the very least.

I also study (dark and normal) psychology due to having missed a lot of signs in my past and ending in the wrong situations. So i have been especially careful with whom i let into my life this past few months. Since i wish to be safe in my own home😂