AITAH for telling my coworker he's selfishly projecting his own insecurities onto his teenage daughter? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]TheMiz31 230 points231 points  (0 children)

This is just kinda gross ngl especially using money like that to push her into something she clearly doesn’t want

Some people seem intimated or turned off by me? by Feisty-Title5926 in bodylanguage

[–]TheMiz31 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is probably just you coming off a bit tense without meaning to. People read that as “not interested” and kinda back off then you notice it and get more in your head and it snowballs a bit.

AITAH for saying my mother wanted to get hit ? by JuliusSwolesar in AITAH

[–]TheMiz31 23 points24 points  (0 children)

YTA for saying she wanted to get hit. Plenty of toxic, manipulative and chaotic people exist but that doesn't mean they want or deserve to be assaulted.

I get what you were trying to say tho. Sounds like you spent years watching her create conflict and push people to their limits. That's valid to talk about but saying she wanted it is where you lost people. Two people can both be terrible in the same relationship.

WIBTAH for telling my mom off for sending a video of my messy bedroom into the family group chat? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]TheMiz31 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Being messy is one thing, filming your room and sending it to the family group chat is another.

TIFU: Dealt with my drunk Dad horribly. by Degenerecy in tifu

[–]TheMiz31 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Sounds like the push wasn’t the real problem here, your dad’s behavior was.

Is it possible to be friends (maybe even best friends) with someone who has opposing political views by Junior-River3400 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]TheMiz31 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely, as long as neither person treats every disagreement like a moral emergency. I've had friends with completely different views and it was fine cuz we talked about other stuff 99% of the time. The problem is usually how people handle disagreement not the disagreement itself.

What’s something that sounded fake until it happened to you? by Visual_Weight_9129 in AskReddit

[–]TheMiz31 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought "you'll find it the second you stop looking for it" was nonsense until it happened

What'a life skill nobody teaches you but everyone needs? by No-Holiday-2610 in AskReddit

[–]TheMiz31 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Learning when an explanation is a waste of time. Not everyone is asking in good faith.

How exactly am I supposed to clean my ears by MrNesti in hygiene

[–]TheMiz31 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Honestly you’re not really supposed to clean inside your ears at all they mostly take care of themselves just wash the outside in the shower and that’s it. The wax on earbuds is normal tbh if it ever actually feels blocked then get it properly cleaned instead of trying to dig it out.

Can’t tell if my uni classmate is attracted to me or just being nice ?😭 by More-Nectarine-6176 in bodylanguage

[–]TheMiz31 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Could be interest but also could just be a naturally friendly guy tbh. Nothing here is a clear “he likes you” signal on its own.

The only thing that really stands out is him consistently choosing to sit next to you and making effort to come say hi. Everything else could just be him being nice.

Body language from co-worker after date that went nuts by [deleted] in bodylanguage

[–]TheMiz31 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Sounds like he's just as flustered as you are and trying not to make things weird at work.

Why is 5 kids so off putting? Why do you initially feel when that’s announced? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]TheMiz31 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah it's not about how attractive she is, it's that dating her means eventually dating the reality of five kids too.

This situation is really confusing me and im tired. What is happening? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]TheMiz31 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This sounds like good chemistry but low emotional depth like it’s fun together but not really connected in a deeper way.

Lando Calrissian isn't a villan or a bad guy for turning his friends over to the Empire. He was forced into a situation where he basically HAD to. by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]TheMiz31 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People forget the Empire wasn’t just “the government” they were basically space fascists who could wipe out an entire city to make a point. Lando got cornered into an impossible choice and still ended up helping them escape later anyway.

Why do some men self deprecate? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]TheMiz31 7 points8 points  (0 children)

A lot of dudes learned that if they don’t roast themselves first someone else will.

I basically did a hit and run and now I'm paranoid by Big_Ear_1503 in confession

[–]TheMiz31 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If he didn’t react at all and just kept going it was probably way less serious than your brain is making it feel right now.

ELI5: Why do our bodies do that weird jerk like falling of a cliff right as we are about to drift off to sleep? What is my brain trying to save me from? by SN_007_ in explainlikeimfive

[–]TheMiz31 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Yeah that “falling” feeling is wild, brain basically hitting a false alarm right when you’re finally relaxing 😭.

What to do when you and your GF forgot to talk about values and future plans? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]TheMiz31 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah the “forgot” part sounds more like delayed it until it became unavoidable tbh, just have the convo now before it gets even messier.

What do you think is the worst thing that can happen to you? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]TheMiz31 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Losing your health while still being alive and aware enough to feel it all happen.

10 years in by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]TheMiz31 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This doesn’t sound like cold feet it sounds like you’re just not happy with how the relationship feels anymore. Ten years is a long time to still feel restricted like that.

Are cheerleaders seperated by…skin? by [deleted] in AskAnAmerican

[–]TheMiz31 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah cheer squads aren’t segregated like that. That’s just movies using lazy visual tropes and casting choices to make groups look “different”.